A Question For The Girls

[nysprod]

I was looking around and found this on a provider's site:

DEFINITELY NOT LOOKING TO HOOK UP WITH ANY MAN THAT REFERS TO ME AS A T-GURL. I FIND THIS SO INSULTING AND DEMEANING AS IF I AM A LESS OF OR A SECOND RATE WOMAN. HOW DEGRADING USING A WORD THAT IMPLIES GUY AND GIRL TOGETHER. I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TRANS WOMAN WOULD ALLOW ANYONE TO TALK TO THEM THIS WAY It's BEYOND COMPREHENSION. I AM ALL WOMAN HERE NO DOUBT ABOUT .IF YOU WANT TO CONNECT WITH ME YOU REFER TO ME AS THE WOMAN OR GIRL THAT I AM. SPELL IT OUT RIGHT! AND HONOR ME AS A GODDESS.

By no means am I judging this in any way and if I were to be with this person, I would certainly respect her request. But I'm curious to see if you women have the same feelings in this regard.

Ladies?

[Wendy Summers]

I was looking around and found this on a provider's site:

DEFINITELY NOT LOOKING TO HOOK UP WITH ANY MAN THAT REFERS TO ME AS A T-GURL. I FIND THIS SO INSULTING AND DEMEANING AS IF I AM A LESS OF OR A SECOND RATE WOMAN. HOW DEGRADING USING A WORD THAT IMPLIES GUY AND GIRL TOGETHER. I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TRANS WOMAN WOULD ALLOW ANYONE TO TALK TO THEM THIS WAY It's BEYOND COMPREHENSION. I AM ALL WOMAN HERE NO DOUBT ABOUT .IF YOU WANT TO CONNECT WITH ME YOU REFER TO ME AS THE WOMAN OR GIRL THAT I AM. SPELL IT OUT RIGHT! AND HONOR ME AS A GODDESS.

By no means am I judging this in any way and if I were to be with this person, I would certainly respect her request. But I'm curious to see if you women have the same feelings in this regard.

Ladies?

Personally I'm sort of laid back with the whole label thing, but I know many TS women who feel this way. IMO, "A rose by any other name"

[TempestTS]

Im comfortable with nearly all trans terms as long as they are said with respect - its the intent not the words that count - I am not the label anyone puts on me and I will not be defined by mere numbers or letters

[nysprod]

Personally I'm sort of laid back with the whole label thing, but I know many TS women who feel this way. IMO, "A rose by any other name"

Definitely not surprised to see you're the laid back type, Wendy

[nysprod]

Im comfortable with nearly all trans terms as long as they are said with respect - its the intent not the words that count - I am not the label anyone puts on me and I will not be defined by mere numbers or letters

"Gender Outlaw"...that's cool!

[GroobyKrissy]

Personally, I say if you're a Provider, you should be happy with having the business.

Let me be clear in saying that I have no problems with anyone being a provider and I think it is a valid profession. However, to be a provider and then talk about word usage as 'degrading' is somewhat ironic, no?

[nysprod]

Personally, I say if you're a Provider, you should be happy with having the business.

Let me be clear in saying that I have no problems with anyone being a provider and I think it is a valid profession. However, to be a provider and then talk about word usage as 'degrading' is somewhat ironic, no?

So what you're implying is that providers should just accept being degraded and be happy to have some business?

[amberskyi]

Personally, I say if you're a Provider, you should be happy with having the business.

Let me be clear in saying that I have no problems with anyone being a provider and I think it is a valid profession. However, to be a provider and then talk about word usage as 'degrading' is somewhat ironic, no?

actually no its not ironic,i personally dont share this ladies opinion on that particular word.what i do find offensive is some peoples way of think regarding escorts.
just because i sell sex for a living doesnt mean i lose all my sense of boundaries,sense of self or sense of self respect.what you might find degrading isnt going to be the same as someone else.

[amberskyi]

on topic: the only words i really take offense to is shemale and tranny. im am aware of what industry i work in tho and im more tolerant to it in that regard.
however i have no tolerance for those words socially.calling me a tranny or shemale is a very quick way for you to be dismissed and ignored

[SammiValentine]

I was looking around and found this on a provider's site:

DEFINITELY NOT LOOKING TO HOOK UP WITH ANY MAN THAT REFERS TO ME AS A T-GURL. I FIND THIS SO INSULTING AND DEMEANING AS IF I AM A LESS OF OR A SECOND RATE WOMAN. HOW DEGRADING USING A WORD THAT IMPLIES GUY AND GIRL TOGETHER. I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TRANS WOMAN WOULD ALLOW ANYONE TO TALK TO THEM THIS WAY It's BEYOND COMPREHENSION. I AM ALL WOMAN HERE NO DOUBT ABOUT .IF YOU WANT TO CONNECT WITH ME YOU REFER TO ME AS THE WOMAN OR GIRL THAT I AM. SPELL IT OUT RIGHT! AND HONOR ME AS A GODDESS.

By no means am I judging this in any way and if I were to be with this person, I would certainly respect her request. But I'm curious to see if you women have the same feelings in this regard.

Ladies?

Sounds like she is trying to convince herself more than the readers. Also the caps lock key appears to be broken.