First time is the hardest?

[Chaos]

Why is it so hard to meet a girl that isn't turned off by being your first?
As soon as they find out I've never been with anyone but GG's I find myself pretty much branded and cast off....

[TS Evelyn Summers]

I tell ya why its hard.....




Cuz things aint what they use to be....


people simply dont care or have the time anymore.


and ya know what...that fucking sucks! and its not just with trying to find girls or guys. Its EVERYWHERE.



Fucking service sucks....customer service sucks.......build quality of things fucking sucks......business and business policy sucks....



Ya know what and it just will CONTINUE to get worse! I was kinda looking forward to the whole myan end of the world thing.....


but the world even fucked that up by saying the calendar just starts over!



Can you believe that! I was looking forward to that!



Eve,

xoxo

[Chaos]

Oh I get that.....but I've been looking for around 10 years....and absolutely no dice...Nothing....I always seem to hear the same thing too... "You're sweet but you wouldn't want me if you knew me..." WTF?? I thought at least that part was up to me....Pretty sure I know what I like and want....

[GoddessAthena85]

Oh I get that.....but I've been looking for around 10 years....and absolutely no dice...Nothing....I always seem to hear the same thing too... "You're sweet but you wouldn't want me if you knew me..." WTF?? I thought at least that part was up to me....Pretty sure I know what I like and want....

I know everyone is different. For me it varies. Alot of times it's just about the way the guy makes me feel. If I have the connection and I know first time or not he we can just tell it's going to be the kinda experience we both want then I go with my gut. fool around don;t take it to far to soon and give it it's chance to see if we actually mesh that way. But hey a girl gets to many notches in her bed post and it won't be anything more then a tooth pick. but that's just me

[youngblood61]

I tell ya why its hard.....




Cuz things aint what they use to be....


people simply dont care or have the time anymore.


and ya know what...that fucking sucks! and its not just with trying to find girls or guys. Its EVERYWHERE.



Fucking service sucks....customer service sucks.......build quality of things fucking sucks......business and business policy sucks....



Ya know what and it just will CONTINUE to get worse! I was kinda looking forward to the whole myan end of the world thing.....


but the world even fucked that up by saying the calendar just starts over!



Can you believe that! I was looking forward to that!



Eve,

xoxo

I agree With some of what you say Evelyn especially service. Seems like everybody is trying to pass the buck.

[BellaBellucci]

It's the same reason that most women would be turned off by a male virgin. Because he probably doesn't know what he's doing, and having to teach him is no fun for someone who transitions to female and prefers the passive role.

Add to that the sheer number of guys with no experience and the frustration rate increases exponentially.

~BB~

[Chaos]

I'm not in a hurry...I would prefer to take it slow,and see if there is a connection. I had a one nighter once...I didn't find out it was one until after....I felt awesome after that...
The part that bugs me is the fact that I get along REALLY well with them...UNTIL they find out I've never been....then all of a sudden I'm Godzilla....everyone runs. And I'm not as frustrated as it may sound....I just really wanted to know...After so many tries you start blaming yourself...and just expect people to tell you no.
As far as experience goes....it's not like I've never had sex....I'm not going to stick it in their ear...I'm not stupid...Nor am I in it only for me.
And honestly? Every GG I've been with is different,and they have no problem telling me what I can or can't do...and EXACTLY how to do it.

[Chaos]

Also note that this is not a complaint,just have always wondered based on my experiences,and this seemed like a good place to ask and learn...

[BellaBellucci]

You asked, I answered. If you don't like the answer, well, there's nothing I can do about that.

I will add, though, that a lot of transsexuals also dislike one-night-stands as much as you do, and when you're the target of so many men's fetishes, and then they get to fulfill their fantasies (milk without the cow, so to speak), well... you do the math.

~BB~

[Chaos]

It's all good,I appreciate the answers...better than the no answers I usually get.
I've never approached it as a fetish,I always approached the same way I'd approach anyone I wanted to see in the long term....Maybe they didn't see it that way though. Of course looking back at the exes I picked....maybe I just pick the wrong ones....