Turned off by girls topping?

[Chaos]

I'm not turned off by it,but then I've never been there either...What else can I say?

[GrimFusion]

Really grim? I expected more from you. You have to realize that often, forum members will only click on threads that either interest them and not often offend them. I am sure that so far, with only 3 pages of discussion that many tgirl fans that enjoy being topped and watching girls top have either simply passed this thread over or have not yet logged in to discuss.

Furthermore, there are only a few individuals that really post quite often so when the pool of individuals is small, dissension may not occur since the topic isn't really that controversial and many tgirl fans don't like the idea of being topped or watching active girls fuck men because it ruins their fantasy.

i will NOT turn this thread into something that has been debated here for all time except to say that if you are into tgirls, then enjoy them for all their benefits if you can.

it is true that when girls top for money only on film or even as an escort, it can be very disappointing. Case in point, Tiffany Star in that rather poor TS Seduction video a while back or alot of stuff that comes out of Brazil. However the same can be said for a tgirl fucking a ggirl when they don't like it...Case in point, a few years ago, Simone from NYC fucked a girl named Mariah on shemale yum and you could tell she was disgusted. So...when 2 actors/models are into each other and the acts, of course the scene is better that when they are only into if for the paycheck and hate what they are doing. That is a generalization regardless of what the act is.

So...that we have discussed porn and to a certain degree, escorting, I must agree that when a girl is topping only for cash when she otherwise doesn't like it, i too am not going to be interested and likely a bit turned off...though not for the same reason as you...i'm turned off by her inability to act and entertain me.

Now...moving on to girls that actually like topping. when they are in a scene and ruling an asshole (regardless of a man, woman or other trans), I personally find it to be a thing of beauty. it isn't the subject being topped that i am focused on or the dick in the ass (because i hate those shots of just dick in something...be it dick in vag or ass). i'm all about seeing a lovely woman get fucked or do the fucking...i'm never focused on the dude

i am a man that is very secure in his lifestyle and fully enjoy being topped by an escort when i can, but more often than not, it is my wife that is wearing our strap on and she gets as much out of it as i do. it is a thing of beauty to see a gorgeous woman (g or t) and have your sphincter widened, prostate probed and hopefully either a reach-around or a little blow at the same time. that's my choice and i thoroughly enjoy it. so because i enjoy how it feels when it is happening to me, of course i am turned on by watching it. its like saying, i like my dick sucked so i am turned on by watching girls give head. its really pretty simple...you are generally turned on if you like what you see because you like how it feels (or you imagine you would like how it feels if you have never tried it).

you really are missing a key point here. 90% of men that watch and jerk it to tranny porn have never been with a tgirl. the imagine they would like it and enjoy the fantasy of being with a tgirl in whatever capacity turns them on. part of the fantasy is that she has a usable penis either for sucking or topping because otherwise, what is the point of the fantasy...just stick to ggirls. so for some men that have never received anal, they might either be disgusted or really turn on by the chance to be topped. for men that have either experimented, paid and escort, have a loving wife willing to top or just self-probed, they have a basis for understanding if they want something else up there. porn must cater to all tastes...that is all. anything less and producers would lose market share to other genres/fetishes etc.

i will close this rant by saying this...being turn on or off by tgirls plowing a dude's ass is really no different than being turned on by black women eating out eskimo women while wearing a kimono. it is no different than watching some dude lick an armpit or some dude getting kicked in the nuts by a bitch wearing high heels...different strokes for different folks.

Rally, the first three paragraphs of your post were certainly informative for people who don't understand the dynamic of any internet forum ever. You just went into far more detail explaining WHY general opinions shift from thread-to-thread. I wasn't trying to be that in-depth about the subject, but I agree with you.

I don't think you're a rotten person for being a tad too superficial and self-centered, but you should realize that it's not an opinion shared by a majority of the guys around here. Never-the-less, I'm glad you're willing to contribute your opinion anyhow and I'm more than willing to hear you out. That doesn't mean I'm necessarily going to agree with you, but in this case, difference is something to celebrate; not linger on. I think it's fairly evident that so long as there are guys and girls around here who agree with me, you can find your lot as well. If that means I'm chillin' in a minority camp and you've got a majority of the forum backing you up, then why are you so defensive in correcting me? I'm not here to make determinations about your sexuality as they aren't mine to make, but that doesn't exactly support your claim that you're a man that is very secure in his lifestyle.

I do agree that prolonged close-up shots in porn suck no matter what kind of porn it is.

I know you're speaking in generalities because I do that quite a bit, but when you challenge personal opinion with what you believe to be a view which is true *most* of the time, you're going to get met with opposition. I wouldn't disagree with you if you were talking about most of the guys on this forum, but you aren't. You're talking about my preferences and how they shouldn't deviate from the majority preference and I vehemently disagree. If that makes me the oddball, I guess I'm an oddball.

For me, the dick isn't really a part of the equation. I'm not put off by it, but it's not the reason why I purport to be an admirer. Plainly stated, I like buttsex quite a bit, I've had some dirty experiences with GG's, and I don't lust after men. That's my motivation. I can fully respect that you have a different opinion, but it's not a better opinion. Different strokes for different folks. You said it yourself.

My girlfriend is Eskimo. Funny you mentioned that.

[amberskyi]

Really grim? I expected more from you. You have to realize that often, forum members will only click on threads that either interest them and not often offend them. I am sure that so far, with only 3 pages of discussion that many tgirl fans that enjoy being topped and watching girls top have either simply passed this thread over or have not yet logged in to discuss.

Furthermore, there are only a few individuals that really post quite often so when the pool of individuals is small, dissension may not occur since the topic isn't really that controversial and many tgirl fans don't like the idea of being topped or watching active girls fuck men because it ruins their fantasy.

i will NOT turn this thread into something that has been debated here for all time except to say that if you are into tgirls, then enjoy them for all their benefits if you can.

it is true that when girls top for money only on film or even as an escort, it can be very disappointing. Case in point, Tiffany Star in that rather poor TS Seduction video a while back or alot of stuff that comes out of Brazil. However the same can be said for a tgirl fucking a ggirl when they don't like it...Case in point, a few years ago, Simone from NYC fucked a girl named Mariah on shemale yum and you could tell she was disgusted. So...when 2 actors/models are into each other and the acts, of course the scene is better that when they are only into if for the paycheck and hate what they are doing. That is a generalization regardless of what the act is.

So...that we have discussed porn and to a certain degree, escorting, I must agree that when a girl is topping only for cash when she otherwise doesn't like it, i too am not going to be interested and likely a bit turned off...though not for the same reason as you...i'm turned off by her inability to act and entertain me.

Now...moving on to girls that actually like topping. when they are in a scene and ruling an asshole (regardless of a man, woman or other trans), I personally find it to be a thing of beauty. it isn't the subject being topped that i am focused on or the dick in the ass (because i hate those shots of just dick in something...be it dick in vag or ass). i'm all about seeing a lovely woman get fucked or do the fucking...i'm never focused on the dude

i am a man that is very secure in his lifestyle and fully enjoy being topped by an escort when i can, but more often than not, it is my wife that is wearing our strap on and she gets as much out of it as i do. it is a thing of beauty to see a gorgeous woman (g or t) and have your sphincter widened, pIrostate probed and hopefully either a reach-around or a little blow at the same time. that's my choice and i thoroughly enjoy it. so because i enjoy how it feels when it is happening to me, of course i am turned on by watching it. its like saying, i like my dick sucked so i am turned on by watching girls give head. its really pretty simple...you are generally turned on if you like what you see because you like how it feels (or you imagine you would like how it feels if you have never tried it).

you really are missing a key point here. 90% of men that watch and jerk it to tranny porn have never been with a tgirl. the imagine they would like it and enjoy the fantasy of being with a tgirl in whatever capacity turns them on. part of the fantasy is that she has a usable penis either for sucking or topping because otherwise, what is the point of the fantasy...just stick to ggirls. so for some men that have never received anal, they might either be disgusted or really turn on by the chance to be topped. for men that have either experimented, paid and escort, have a loving wife willing to top or just self-probed, they have a basis for understanding if they want something else up there. porn must cater to all tastes...that is all. anything less and producers would lose market share to other genres/fetishes etc.

i will close this rant by saying this...being turn on or off by tgirls plowing a dude's ass is really no different than being turned on by black women eating out eskimo women while wearing a kimono. it is no different than watching some dude lick an armpit or some dude getting kicked in the nuts by a bitch wearing high heels...different strokes for different folks.

I can't say how much I fucking hate that why not just be with a gg argument.Trans woman have so much more to offer than just dick.I get that its just porn so of course I guess the attraction is just superficial....never mind, i'm just going to shut up.

[tsadriana]

Rally, the first three paragraphs of your post were certainly informative for people who don't understand the dynamic of any internet forum ever. You just went into far more detail explaining WHY general opinions shift from thread-to-thread. I wasn't trying to be that in-depth about the subject, but I agree with you.

I don't think you're a rotten person for being a tad too superficial and self-centered, but you should realize that it's not an opinion shared by a majority of the guys around here. Never-the-less, I'm glad you're willing to contribute your opinion anyhow and I'm more than willing to hear you out. That doesn't mean I'm necessarily going to agree with you, but in this case, difference is something to celebrate; not linger on. I think it's fairly evident that so long as there are guys and girls around here who agree with me, you can find your lot as well. If that means I'm chillin' in a minority camp and you've got a majority of the forum backing you up, then why are you so defensive in correcting me? I'm not here to make determinations about your sexuality as they aren't mine to make, but that doesn't exactly support your claim that you're a man that is very secure in his lifestyle.

I do agree that prolonged close-up shots in porn suck no matter what kind of porn it is.

I know you're speaking in generalities because I do that quite a bit, but when you challenge personal opinion with what you believe to be a view which is true *most* of the time, you're going to get met with opposition. I wouldn't disagree with you if you were talking about most of the guys on this forum, but you aren't. You're talking about my preferences and how they shouldn't deviate from the majority preference and I vehemently disagree. If that makes me the oddball, I guess I'm an oddball.

For me, the dick isn't really a part of the equation. I'm not put off by it, but it's not the reason why I purport to be an admirer. Plainly stated, I like buttsex quite a bit, I've had some dirty experiences with GG's, and I don't lust after men. That's my motivation. I can fully respect that you have a different opinion, but it's not a better opinion. Different strokes for different folks. You said it yourself.

My girlfriend is Eskimo. Funny you mentioned that.

I like ur thinking,actualy u like the feminity instead rather with cock or not and ur big turn on is the buttsex which is good....Thats what i like in a guy to see in me ,my feminity ,my soul inside and not what i have btw my legs.

[GrimFusion]

I like ur thinking,actualy u like the feminity instead rather with cock or not and ur big turn on is the buttsex which is good....Thats what i like in a guy to see in me ,my feminity ,my soul inside and not what i have btw my legs.

You're putting words in my mouth, but that's okay because they're true.

[nina_lisa]

let us just say, with female hormones, cocks are not always made to be used, or used non stop.

Everyone millage can vary, but had a few times, where it was painful (from a physical point of view) to top a client.

Now, huge huge number of clients want a ts to dominate them, force them to suck it, force them to take it in the ass...Etc

[tsadriana]

I know i was born with a cock which is not my fault can we blaime the nature?But when a man is asking to top him ,in that moment im feel more manly more gay then transexual.

[FreddieGomez]

Yes. Every time I've posted something like this the bottom dudes always rally against me.

But when I first got into trannys and came to forums such as this, it really boggled my mind that dudes would be so into the dick and getting topped. I always thought me as the man attracted to trns women would be the one topping. Idk. It always confused me as to why some would be so inclined to want to bottom but to each his own i guess.

[Chaos]

I don't think I'd ever ask a girl. Now if she asked me? That's different.
I'm not selfish,in fact,I've always been of the mind to give them whatever they want however they want,and my needs come last....pun intended.

[tsadriana]

Well the biggest issue with the trans topping men is the porn industry ...They promote most of the time movies with shemales topping guys ,so then the viewers has that idea in their head that actualy all transexuals top guys and if u don`t top a guy or show ur cock ,then ur not real transexual....And the sad part is that the most promoted Transexuals in porn industry are the ones who top guy ....My opinion is to be promotoed 50/50.