Escorts telling clients they are Too 'large' to do Anal

[Cecil Rhodes]

Tatiana, if we go to the movies are you gonna to try to do that popcorn gag ?

[jamiethewild]

I'm by no means amazingly big or large but quite often i'd say 50-75% of the time the Tgirls say I can't top them as I'm too large. I'm only into topping so it kind of leaves little else to do. Two things..

1) Is this just an excuse and if so what they really saying?

2) Valid ground for a refund?

This thread went off topic, but theres no refund once you give your money, theres no return once the money touches the escort's hands its hers.

Some don't want to have a big cock in business because their scared they might rip, remember you catch things if theres open scars or something.

Or some were too lazy to wash their ass and douche, their scared they might pooo in your dick lol

[GoddessAthena85]

Less then 5 will give you gas, more then 8 will give you heartburn.

[jez]

This thread went off topic, but theres no refund once you give your money, theres no return once the money touches the escort's hands its hers.

In america maybe, in UK, 100% wrong

[JenniferParisHusband]

You can't always tell size if flaccid.some people are showers not growers
I never had anyone ask me for a refund.if asked I would probably give them my half hour rate but that's no where near 60 lol.

It doesn't take too long to get a guy hard. If it does, charge him for the time. But a couple of tugs on it to get it hard enough to see. That should be no problem, and less than 5 minutes. If not, you could always ask if they get big when they get hard, and explain it.

Interesting how many guys on here admit to being "too big" but I can think of only one who has publicly admitted that he is below average.

I'm ok with admitting that I'm average in length. But width wise, I make up for it. One of my exes described it as wider than a redbull can, and slightly shorter. Although length wise, I think it's about the same or a little longer.

A refund for what? When you hire an escort you pay for the time not for sex, so if she spends the time with you then there is no refund right? If something happens sexually it has nothing to with you hiring her.

Paying for time? Yeah, that's the "legal" reason for it. You start advertising $200 per hour to sit around with you and have dinner, watch your client list shrink up like a hormone cock in ice cold water. You can say it's about your time, but the guys know they're paying for sex. It's why things like dick size, being top bottom or versitile, and being hard are usually in the ads.

Look, if a guy knows up front that he's too big for you and still wants to spend the hour, or half hour, or whatever. Charge him. That's fine. But be up-front about the size thing, and give him options like oral for a half hour or something. And don't break a guy's bank, even for a half hour, if you know you can't take him and he's going to be unhappy. Most of the guys do read reviews, and can almsot all name someone who gets shitty reviews. Most of the long time guys can even name the ones who had to move elsewhere because they got such horrible reviews. It's your business decision, but you burn a guy like that, he's not going to be happy about it. And he's going to trash you in reviews and the quality of your clients will go down.

This sounds like the ol' okey doke, flim flam, sucka move. If you escort and many of your clientele seek you out specifically to tap that ass, how are you gonna drop, 'sorry hon, no bunz tonight. You ding dong is too boo coo,'??? How can you solicit to do a job you already KNOW you may not even do if the mood isn't right?? Unless a man is freakishly large, 9+ inches and coke can thick, an escort IMO should be a good little bottom in exchange for the paper. Don't any escorts have butt plugs to train their pussy for the J-O-B??

Can you restate that in English for me?

[giovanni_hotel]

JPH,



I thought I was.

[JenniferParisHusband]

This happens a lot to you, have you considered discussing it with them beforehand so you don't waste your time?

Here's something fun to try with a new lady you've never seen before. While you've got her on the phone and setting up an appointment time, tell her you're a top only and you'd like to give it to her up the can, but you've got some size issues and want to make sure she's ok with that.

Then sit back and watch how fast she hangs up on you.

Pictures don't always work with conveying size, and most of the ladies I had seen didn't want to discuss anything over the phone. So you're almost required to spend the time and the gas going to wherever she is, and occasionally parking. And if you're some place like I am, having to make an hour to 2 hour drive to get to one of these ladies, it sucks to have to turn around being told no when the expectation for it was there and still being charged $200 to $300 for a hand job. Hell, driving 2 hours and getting just inside the door and telling her it's kind of wide and having to turn around having been denied, at that point pisses me off, at least I'm willing to give her $60 for that. Being charged a half hour for that? That's ROB behaviour.

I'm still laughing about "Paying for time" that's such a bullshit excuse. That's just fraud on a guy and that girl should be ashamed of herself for ripping people off. If someone wants to charge for "time" don't advertise on eros, backpage or any of the other escort sites. Those are prostitution sites. If I'm paying for "time" she'd better be filling out my fucking tax forms, or repairing my car.

[amberskyi]

It doesn't take too long to get a guy hard. If it does, charge him for the time. But a couple of tugs on it to get it hard enough to see. That should be no problem, and less than 5 minutes. If not, you could always ask if they get big when they get hard, and explain it.

like i said if anything i would offer my half hour rate since it wouldnt be full service.to offer me anything less than that is an insult.i dont think you guys really know what we girls go thru to get ready to see a client (well at least the girls worth seeing).i didnt spend an hour showering,doing hair,make up and douching to see a guy for 5mins and $60.
and not all sessions start with a guy whipping his stuff out immediately.most of my sessions start with small talk,maybe a little message,possibly a strip tease than foreplay.we can be anywhere from 15 to 30 mins into a session before everything is exposed and we're getting down to the gritty.
also i dont respond to any form of explicit talk over the phone.cops can use almost anything to get a girl for solicitation.i have an ad and a website that provides enough information that when you call you should only be asking me where am i located and what is my availability.bring up anything sexual and i politely hang up.

[giovanni_hotel]

Sorry but if there's an assumption there's going to be anal and she tells me after I'm hard, 'NO', no way in hell is an escort getting the full fare for a ride that never happened.

Most escorts aren't going to charge you just for walking through the door and that's it.

[amberskyi]

This sounds like the ol' okey doke, flim flam, sucka move.
If you escort and many of your clientele seek you out specifically to tap that ass, how are you gonna drop, 'sorry hon, no bunz tonight. You ding dong is too boo coo,'???

How can you solicit to do a job you already KNOW you may not even do if the mood isn't right??

Unless a man is freakishly large, 9+ inches and coke can thick, an escort IMO should be a good little bottom in exchange for the paper.

Don't any escorts have butt plugs to train their pussy for the J-O-B??

im sorry but i hate that mentality that because im an escort i should be down for whatever.i have boundaries and limitations just like everyone else.contrary to popular belief i respect my body and im not going to do anything that could be unsafe or possibly unhealthy.that totally includes having my insides ripped open cause someone was to large for me.
ive had my anal walls ripped once before by an ex boyfriend and its was beyond scary.between the bleeding and the pain i was terrified.i bleed for two days and didnt have sex again for like a month.