Escorts telling clients they are Too 'large' to do Anal

[bob.chicken]

I'm by no means amazingly big or large but quite often i'd say 50-75% of the time the Tgirls say I can't top them as I'm too large. I'm only into topping so it kind of leaves little else to do. Two things..

1) Is this just an excuse and if so what they really saying?

2) Valid ground for a refund?

[GrimFusion]

I'm by no means amazingly big or large but quite often i'd say 50-75% of the time the Tgirls say I can't top them as I'm too large. I'm only into topping so it kind of leaves little else to do. Two things..

1) Is this just an excuse and if so what they really saying?

2) Valid ground for a refund?

1) Probably; but I have no idea.

2) Absolutely.

[amberskyi]

actually some guys are to big for me to do anal comfortably.
im not going to hurt myself or let my walls be destroyed for a few dollars.got to keep my shit tight lol
also there is no such thing as a refund.once anything intimate happens that money is as good as gone sorry guys.

[Donkey]

I'm larger than average and hear the excuse all the time. I now make sure to clarify beforehand.

[amberskyi]

anything bigger than 7 or maybe 8 isnt going near me

[GrimFusion]

actually some guys are to big for me to do anal comfortably.
im not going to hurt myself or let my walls be destroyed for a few dollars.got to keep my shit tight lol
also there is no such thing as a refund.once anything intimate happens that money is as good as gone sorry guys.

Guys who pack girth or 8+ don't usually claim to be average.
I don't understand why an average-sized guy would get turned down if not for some other reason.

Just out of interest, though... if you did end up entertaining a dude who was a little too large to contend with, does that mean he's stuck with head and handies the rest of the session? How does that revelation usually blow over?

[amberskyi]

Guys who pack girth or 8+ don't usually claim to be average.
I don't understand why an average-sized guy would get turned down if not for some other reason.

Just out of interest, though... if you did end up entertaining a dude who was a little too large to contend with, does that mean he's stuck with head and handies the rest of the session? How does that revelation usually blow over?

most guys under stand....

[brickcitybrother]

1. That they don't want to fuck you

2. Refund ... really? Just do a charge-back on your credit card (LMAO ... you probably do pay by credit card).

[theone1982]

The real question is, is anyone ever to 'small' to do anal?

[GrimFusion]

most guys under stand....

lol... I'm inadvertently insinuating shit I really don't mean to insinuate. My apologies. It sounds like I'm trying to lead into some kind of point, but I'm not. More or less just bored, stoned, and posing questions I probably shouldn't be.

I'm not hinting that you should refund when a dude turns out to large to work with. I just don't think the OP is honestly getting turned down time after time because he's too big. I guess I was just wondering if there were dudes who would make a fuss about a refund at that point. I'm not saying they should; that's fucked up.



@bob.chicken: Send them pictures before-hand. Use reference objects just so they know what's up. If that still doesn't get you ins, find a size queen.