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09-15-2012 #31
Re: my woman find out that I'd a tgirl was my ex ... she cried ...
Originally Posted by TempestTS
I just don't think it's fair to say that if a relationship eventually breaks down for whatever reason, that love wasn't genuine at any point. By that standard, love becomes this unobtainable, impossible idea only reserved for perfect couples. It defiles love and becomes a defense mechanism for past relationships that didn't work. What better a way to get over someone and simply dismiss the past than to claim there was never any love to begin with? In a sense, it's selfish because what is really being said is that you loved them, but they were too "in love" or self-centered to love in return and that's what caused the relationship to fail.
I'll agree that the idea of love and being "in love" are two different things, but it's nearly impossible to qualify or substantiate love since it's supposed to be unwavering. The best anyone can do is stipulate "Well, if nothing goes wrong and we feel the same in four years, it must be love". What happens in four years? The same question would need to be posed again. Meanwhile, if anything should happen in that four years that shakes the foundation of the relationship, even if it's as petty as a lack of time for each other, it's far too easy to mistake it as an incompatibility and end the relationship.
Unconditional love is a neat idea, but it's just about as rare as the practical uses of the word "infinite".
Lord Alfred Tennyson said "'Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all". I don't think he was talking about dead bitches.
Last edited by GrimFusion; 09-15-2012 at 07:57 PM.
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09-15-2012 #32
Re: my woman find out that I'd a tgirl was my ex ... she cried ...
Your confusing Love with a Relationship - once again similar but not the same thing.
Love is unwavering, its forever, endless boundless, without condition or exclusion, without limits, it does not even require that love is returned, which makes it pass beyond distance, time and yes beyond death - Tennyson was talking about all the above.
And RARE is exactly what it is.
You can hammer it, slam it, crush it, toss it about in any way you can imagine and damage it in ways that would make even the Devil weep but it cannot be broken, its metaphysical and goes far past most human understanding but once you see it you will never forget it and you will know that it is like nothing else in the universe.
If you have a problem with infinity you are limiting yourself without even knowing it, some things in the world cannot be quantified and we are just beginning to understand exactly how true that really is.
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09-15-2012 #33
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Re: my woman find out that I'd a tgirl was my ex ... she cried ...
Originally Posted by TempestTS
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09-15-2012 #34
Re: my woman find out that I'd a tgirl was my ex ... she cried ...
Holy Missing the forest for the trees batman
Nobody is saying her opinion doesn't matter, what Im saying is if you cant accept someone for who they are you sure as hell dont really love them.
For my next trick Im going to try convincing this wall that its really a flower... some how I think I just might have better luck...
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09-15-2012 #35
Re: my woman find out that I'd a tgirl was my ex ... she cried ...
Originally Posted by TempestTS
I don't want to spend too much time squabbling over petty word definitions, but "infinite" isn't the same as "unquantifiable". If you know of something that is truly thought of as never-ending, it's new news to me. Last I checked, science shows that nothing is truly infinite and I don't see how love could be an exception when the universe we're in certainly isn't. I think it's far less Nihilistic to identify and value love when it exists than to assume love never exists if at any point it ceases. Swapping "infinite" for "unquantifiable" seems more sound, but it also admits there is an end to all love; it's simply indeterminable which isn't the stance you've been taking so far.
I think this debate requires we both arrive at a stalemate. It's obvious we have two different opinions of what love is and how it should be defined. I'm a bit more of an opportunist and you've resided as an idealist. You have far more faith in love than I do and arguing over matters of faith is kinda pointless.
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09-15-2012 #36
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Re: my woman find out that I'd a tgirl was my ex ... she cried ...
Originally Posted by TempestTS
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09-15-2012 #37
Re: my woman find out that I'd a tgirl was my ex ... she cried ...
I'll take a shot at this. No matter which definition you tend to agree more with, Tempest's or mine; even if you don't agree with either of us and have some other idea of what love is, love still requires forgiveness. In my opinion, some things just shouldn't or cannot be forgiven, but that's beside the point. Martin's girlfriend wasn't at an end-pass with no other recourse.
Impact. What impact did Martin's behavior have on his girlfriend? With the exception of filling her head with homoerotic images she probably didn't want to think about, what impact did Martin's past relationships have on her? None. She heard something she didn't like and instead of assessing damage and coming up empty-handed then dealing with her own insecurities like a grown up, she assumed his behavior would have lead to actions which would have made the relationship impossible and decided to call it quits right then and there.
Fill-in-the-blank negative assumption isn't conductive to love. It's not even conductive to being in-love. Frankly, it's petty when the worst assumed scenario becomes the fodder for a breakup. It just means that two people aren't willing to even communicate, so how could there be any sort of mutual or genuine love?
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09-15-2012 #38
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09-15-2012 #39
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Excellent point .It seems most of the public has no clue about transsexualism as a whole.
There is a lot of mis information and confusion about the whole subject.
Differences between Cross dressers, Transvestites, and Transsexuals are allegedly not known or recognized in the greater portion of the population. Dare I say that even the enlightened community here at hung angels also descend into name calling and confounding situations where it may or may not be okay to be attracted to transsexual women. ie the "cock hounds" vs the "straight" males etc.
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09-15-2012 #40
Re: my woman find out that I'd a tgirl was my ex ... she cried ...
You can date whomever you want? Woah, I've had this dating thing backward for years! lol. Dating doesn't necessitate love. It's not an eventuality, and I'm sure you'd even admit to dating women you couldn't give your all to like that.
Hard-nosed consequence and responsibility whether enforced on others inside or outside of a relationship is kinda sad, man. It shows a lack of compassion and it discounts that everyone lives different lives and can arrive at making decisions you deem to be incorrect in ways you could never assume. Ways that would likely seem justified if only you were to hear them out.
Besides, while setting concrete boundaries in a relationship isn't unheard of, trying to make your spouse abide by those boundaries is essentially the same as trying to control them. It's great if you have pre-requisites or expectations of the people you entertain dating before becoming involved, but once involved, all of that kinda flies out the proverbial window and you either become more or less interested.
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