Being a “Tranny chaser” rocks!

[Wendy Summers]

Tranny chaser or tranny hunter...

[lollipop2284]

Maybe this will help you guys get this thread sticky .

Nice computer system Wendy!

[scroller]

I do like money, I do want it, I live a lifestyle I'm use to and I just can't see myself dating a guy that can't give me it... I think its fair because in a relationship i don't want to put him to a position where I'm always out and about...

Wow, taking a guy's money to spare him the grief of not being able to give you money. You should be nominated for sainthood.

[reformedcharacter]

I can't explain exactly why it is the case but for me I feel more comfortable with a t-girl and feel like I can relate to a t-girl more than I do with other girls

Whilst there is a shortage of men who like t-girls there's also a shortage of t-girls for those men to like too - I've only ever knowingly met one t-girl in my life without there being a financial aspect involved and it seems that that's the only way I can meet such girls

[archineer]

I can't explain exactly why it is the case but for me I feel more comfortable with a t-girl and feel like I can relate to a t-girl more than I do with other girls

Whilst there is a shortage of men who like t-girls there's also a shortage of t-girls for those men to like too - I've only ever knowingly met one t-girl in my life without there being a financial aspect involved and it seems that that's the only way I can meet such girls

Go to wayout and make some friends for a start dude. Don't go there primarily looking to get laid or hire an escort, just make friends. They all know each other outside of the club, and you'll soon meet girls who aren't in the industry.

[EvonRose]

These 'right men' are not even 1% of the population. Then consider how few guys are interested in ts girls....

Then Im gonna be single, successful, and happy on my own sugar. This is my expectations in a relationship and thats that... If you find it unreasonable then that's your individual opinion, however At least i am upfront and honest about it rather than just playing the guy...

I may set high standard, I may be demanding, I may be stubborn however I am fair, honest, and will never take advantage of a man...

If I cannot find that man in my standard I'm not settling for less because I don't want to end up leaving him for someone richer, or more successful, or better looking I am not going to be that girl. Sorry

However I am not denying the possibility of falling in love outside my standard... But if it does happen that man must be really good... I mean really really good...

[BellaBellucci]

Then Im gonna be single, successful, and happy on my own sugar. This is my expectations in a relationship and thats that... If you find it unreasonable then that's your individual opinion, however At least i am upfront and honest about it rather than just playing the guy...

I may set high standard, I may be demanding, I may be stubborn however I am fair, honest, and will never take advantage of a man...

^ This.

~BB~

[Tyler___Durden]

Some interesting 'Takes' on a great article by Julia Serano.
link to site
My personal take on things:
On "Tranny-Chasers" and "Cock-hounds"
I've kinda got a foot in two camps which makes for an interesting observation.
In day to day life I'm stealth*.
On the net I go on three trans-sites, including HA. I also occasionally go to tranny clubs*.
This makes for an interesting comparison.

One thing I've noticed is the behaviour of some men in these trans spaces.
They treat me like an object and are single minded in their goal, which is clearly a sexual one.
The behaviours are one or more of the following:
it may be a lustful look, comments, inappropriate touching (ie. any)
or attempts to engage me in conversation which moves very quickly
to an amorous slant which ranges from crass to classy-slick.
Now I'm a big bunny and am not phased in the slightest, except for touches
on my body, such as my thigh or bum, as such behaviour is completely
out of order if not sought and invited. But still not a big deal for me
to lift the hand away look them in the eyes and say 'No'.

Ok so far.

In non trans spaces I get a lot of the same behaviours.
Think: bar, club, taxi, bank, supermarket and so on.
A whole range of come ons and chat-ups, where the man is single focused,
and the focus is sex. Now these guys have absolutely no idea that I'm trans,
no idea that I'm 'Packing'. And as soon as I tell them they (usually) completely change
into totally normal human beings. They apologise and say it's not their thing or whatever.
Very occasionally after the WTF look in their eyes they are still interested
but the dynamic has changed, they act less tunnel-focused than before.
Now I'd bet that there are other Trans-women reading this, who also live in stealth day-to-day and they relate to this post because they also experience the same behaviours from some men, in both trans-spaces and the wider world.

My thoughts are twofold.
1. 'Tranny-Chasers' are identical in behaviour in trans spaces with trans women
to 'Women-Chasers' in non-trans places (obviously) with Bio~women.

2. 'Chasers' are usually normal nice men who under the testosterone 'hit'
go 'single-tunnel-focus'. This I'm sure is to do with the breeding imperative,
and not an accurate description of them overall.

My personal summary
It's just how a lot of men are. But not a lot of what makes that man up. There is a lot more to them than this.
It's identical to what women have always experienced.
The term 'Tranny-Chaser' or 'Cock-hound' is stupid derogatory and meaningless.
This is because some men who are attracted to Trans-women
exhibit EXACTLY the same traits as some men who are attracted to Bio-women.
How you handle it and how much or how little you let it bother you is all that counts.
Welcome to womanhood.

YMMV


*I'm leaving my work out of these considerations because I'm selling an artificial sexual fantasy.
Which is certainly not a rounded picture of who I am.
My clients literally buying said hourly fantasy, also has no bearing on the thread.
In the same way that a porno clip bears no real connection
with the daily life reality of the of the Performer.

[archineer]

Then Im gonna be single, successful, and happy on my own sugar. This is my expectations in a relationship and thats that... If you find it unreasonable then that's your individual opinion, however At least i am upfront and honest about it rather than just playing the guy...

I may set high standard, I may be demanding, I may be stubborn however I am fair, honest, and will never take advantage of a man...

If I cannot find that man in my standard I'm not settling for less because I don't want to end up leaving him for someone richer, or more successful, or better looking I am not going to be that girl. Sorry

However I am not denying the possibility of falling in love outside my standard... But if it does happen that man must be really good... I mean really really good...

Just out of curiosity, how much does a guy have to make?

[Cecil Rhodes]

Then Im gonna be single, successful, and happy on my own sugar. This is my expectations in a relationship and thats that... If you find it unreasonable then that's your individual opinion, however At least i am upfront and honest about it rather than just playing the guy...

I may set high standard, I may be demanding, I may be stubborn however I am fair, honest, and will never take advantage of a man...

If I cannot find that man in my standard I'm not settling for less because I don't want to end up leaving him for someone richer, or more successful, or better looking I am not going to be that girl. Sorry

However I am not denying the possibility of falling in love outside my standard... But if it does happen that man must be really good... I mean really really good...

Reading thru this reply i find nothing that says Evon will not give nice guys hugs . Btw, i am a nice guy .