Being a “Tranny chaser” rocks!

[BellaBellucci]

Many guys I know wont date a ts not because she's trans but because they don't want to be taken for a ride. Maybe if ts' didn't just use guys for money, many guys would act differently and be more open to dating you?

Maybe if guys didn't just use us for sex, we would act differently and be more open to dating you.

See what I did there?

~BB~

[archineer]

Maybe if guys didn't just use us for sex, we would act differently and be more open to dating you.

See what I did there?

~BB~

I don't use girls for sex, but I still get used. Most ts' in my experience care about money more than anything else.

[BellaBellucci]

I don't use girls for sex, but I still get used. Most ts' in my experience care about money more than anything else.

... because you're in the minority. Most guys just see us as a fetish, and bitches gotta eat too, ya know?

~BB~

[archineer]

... because you're in the minority. Most guys just see us as a fetish, and bitches gotta eat too, ya know?

~BB~

Yeah, eat gold it seems. It's pretty obvious i'm serious yet it makes no difference.

My 'ex, ex' dates as stealth yet is exactly the same. Prior to me she had never dated an 'admirer' only straight men (In fact she didn't know we existed.) She still cared more about money than anything else. Genetic girls will usually date a guy who is their own age and of the same status. Transsexuals given the option of that or an old rich guy will usually take the old rich guy.

[BellaBellucci]

It's pretty obvious i'm serious yet it makes no difference.

... says you. It's all a matter of perspective.

~BB~

[vman2375]

you're so right, Bella

[scroller]

OP: Very well put, thank you for that.

Self-haters gotta hate.

[ChaseCashNY]

example,i just got this message from a social network im apart of:
"Im originally from va beach. Im movin back in bout 2 weeks. Id love to hook up wit ya. Never been wit a chik like u but id love to. Baddd"

no formal introduction or attempt to know me as a person.just hey,can fulfill my fantasy cause im assuming you have nothing better to do smh

How do you know he doesn't talk to every girl like that ?

[danthepoetman]

A lot of what we’re talking about here surrounds perceptions. The experiences you’re relating to us, ladies, are utterly depressing. And I can understand your disenchantment. A good point was made earlier on: you have, in my opinion, to distinguish between your experiences as escorts and as t-women in regular dating. Can you make such a difference? I mean by that: is there a difference? Are men that you date in your life different from your paying suitors? If they aren’t, that’s terribly depressing, I will admit it in all empathy for you. In fact, it would be simply desperating, as far as I’m concerned.

I myself have a bit of a hard time understanding what you ladies say at times, because I’m hetero and can’t even figure what the interest is for a man to have a woman make love to him (that’s not even conceivable to me; I don’t want to offend anyone, of course, but to me it’s pretty close to a nonsense; you women are so delicate, feminine, I don't even know how to express what I want to say here!). Yes, we men have a very direct sexuality, we’re very driven, and sometimes, it comes out as something rude, vulgar and stupid. But I’m afraid we’re pretty much like that for women in general. If, as you’re saying, Amber and Bella, 98% of the men you see wouldn’t entertain the idea of a relationship with you, it is something out of a nightmare; it would mean everything is to be done, all the education that has seemingly been provided and taken, all the information given, all the apparent progress in the last couple of decades, would have been in vain…
Should I dare ask this question, then, here on this porn site? Do you think porn has been good or bad for the cause of transsexual women? I’m an old guy and I can tell you that in the 80s, when I was a young man, things we’re much, much worse.

(I would like to personally commend every participant to this debate; the level of exchanges here is respectful and constructive, unlike those of many other threads.)

[onmyknees]

[QUOTE=caliuncut;1185685]God, there's so much bullshit in this thread it's fucking ridiculous.

Bella - You swear every guy you come into contact with begs you to "fuck them like a slut" and that's all that is out there, you discount even the existence of "normal" guys like myself who've never taken it up the rear, I guess we just don't exist. Why do you go on in thread after thread hating on "chasers" with "cocklust" instead of just realizing that men fucking LUST. When I get a hot girl naked in bed that's what I do...I dive straight to the genitals, tits, ass, etc....so when I get a ts in bed am I supposed place a hat over it lest you think I'm a chaser?

Also, have you ever thought the fact that you're an escort maybe skews your interactions just a bit...maybe you're getting all the weirdos coming at you because you provide that service, don't let that fool you into thinking that's a fair representation of men. With all that said...I'm sure there are true cock chaser, asshole sons of bitches out there...so what? You don't think GG's get asshole pussy chasers all the time, just ignore those people and enjoy the attention from normal guys...im pretty sure we outnumber them and are growing everyday.


This !!!!!!! No one is minimizing what you all had to endure before and during transition...but this chicken and the egg thing ( the chaser and the tranny) gets old...with all due respect to the OP and her thoughtful words. It was actually a beautiful read. If we think of you as special...it's fetishizing you, if we lust for you we're chasers...if we patronize you, we're loathed as johns...frankly it's maddening. I know a hundred gg's who would love the attention you all get, even if it meant weeding out the misogynistic and rude fools. It occurred to me after reading this thread, if someone waved a politically correct magic wand and suddenly you were viewed by everyone in society as women...and just little fishes in a big ordinary ocean, more than a few of you wouldn't be real happy with that either. I think if you spent as much time educating some of these crude dudes instead of complaining about them...it might be more productive. I've learned a lot since being here...unfortunately not of it all good.