Do friends with benefits ever end well

[GrimFusion]

I met this young lady and we had a great connection chatting a few times. Sweet person, however I explain that I am very busy and don't really have the time to commit to relationship, plus we don't live close by each other. I rather have relationship I can commit a 100% to or not at all. So she suggests we can start as friends possibly with benefits. I don't think fwb has ever ended well for anyone I know in my experience, but I said I would give it a try.

Has anyone ever had it end well?

It almost sounds like you're trying to say you don't want a relationship, but more specifically; you don't want a relationship with her. If that's what it is, that's okay. It's not selfish to be a little picky about who you end up with so long as she understands it can't go any further than a booty call because that's all you're looking for at this point in your life. That might fuck up your chances getting laid, but at least it'll save having a long heart-wrenching discussion some number of months down the road when you find out she's emotionally attached.

I've only had issues with past FWB once I get into a relationship. Most of my girlfriends don't take too kindly to the idea that I'm chillin' with a chick I used to fuck even if I am capable of keeping things platonic. Monogamy and sexual insecurities go hand-in-hand.

[Bunsdk]

Works like a charm.

It all depends on who you are and who you do it with.

I have pretty much liven my life being in fwb's. And it only ever ended bad once. And that was with one I chose with my dick tbh.
She was in no way capable of on being reasonable about it and constantly expected it to grow into more. When she found out it wouldnt. She went nuts.
And she still hates my guts lol... So be it.

Horrible choice, horrible ending.

But... from the 20-30 odd fwbs ive been through, through the last 20 years, thats the only one.

You never start something like this with an imotionally dictated person, and certainly not an unstable ones.

Make sure the lines are drawn, and end it the instant its crossed. Once crossed, there is most often no going back without someone getting hurt.
And for the love of god, be honest every step of the way...


I personally just simply cant commit to a relationship (feel free to disect why, you wont ever get it right ) so I keep friends with benefits to get my sexual needs met. I like it this way, and it works well.

[BluegrassCat]

What's ending well? Marriage? Kidnapping? Angry butt-sex?

[nysprod]

Depends on how many benefits were obtained from the friend...and remember, money doesn't talk...it SCREAMS!

[GrimFusion]

Depends on how many benefits were obtained from the friend...and remember, money doesn't talk...it SCREAMS!

Wait, are you trying to say that your previous FWB's have all been escorts, or that you just have really crappy FWB's who expect you to buy them shit before they put out? Hell, dude... may as well hit up the escorts. It's the same premise, but at least they won't stick around afterward and beg you to take them out for an expensive dinner.

[nysprod]

Wait, are you trying to say that your previous FWB's have all been escorts, or that you just have really crappy FWB's who expect you to buy them shit before they put out? Hell, dude... may as well hit up the escorts. It's the same premise, but at least they won't stick around afterward and beg you to take them out for an expensive dinner.

Dude...relax!

[GrimFusion]

Dude...relax!

Sounds like a damn good reason to toke up to me.
I wasn't being irate or pissy; I just swear a lot. I guess the internet does a pretty good job of masking my intent, though. Half of my post was a joke, but I asked because I couldn't make any sense out of your post. Probably because there was no sense to be made, right? Awesome.