How to date a t-girl?

[Donderlander]

I'm rather new here and I'm here to meet a t-girl or femboy. I'm a 26 year old guy from Amsterdam.

After having had enough of girls, I'm looking to meet with somebody who is blessed with something extra.
I'm not looking for quick sex or escort, but rather for a t-girl or femboy to date, hang out with and maybe love in longtime relationship.

I hope some of the members here can help me with some questions.

Where can I find t-girls or femboys? How do you guys find t-girls to date? Is there an online community for dating?

Feel free to send me a private message or share your experiences and perhaps tips.

[rodinuk]

Where can I find t-girls or femboys? How do you guys find t-girls to date? Is there an online community for dating?

You could try:

http://www.ts-dating.com

although it's more geared to escorts.

This site is worth a look there are some Dutch girls on there
http://www.tvchix.com

This site has a lively forum all about A'dam (and other Dutch cities) it's well worth reading on there and repeating the question there:
http://www.ignatzmice.com/

I think you are looking at clubs and bar scene really - reading posts on here it doesn''t like much Butterfly Cafe is mentioned and The Lellebel (lellebel.nl) 'primarily a hangout for crossdressers'. I'd guess the gay bars/clubs might double up for trans events like in London where some clubs host t-girl events one night a week.

Good luck! I miss Amsterdam so much not been there for a couple of years

[Donderlander]

Thanks Rodinuk for your reply! It's really helpful.

Did you have any luck in Amsterdam dating t-girls or femboys? How did you do these things?

[rodinuk]

I wasn't there to do that

[benfromchicago]

Are there any free ts dating sites? Seems like all you need to upgrade membership

[FreddieGomez]

Just look don't touch

that's the motto i live by

it's not worth it otherwise

[saifan]

Friending an escort is one way to go.

[Jamie French]

Advertising yourself as looking for fem-boy or t-girls makes it sound like we're a commodity or some kind of goal to attain. We stay as far away from those kind of people as possible. HUGE turn off. We date people who move in our circles like everyone else does. The kind of people we date are already hanging out with people we know, naturally live the lifestyle.
If you're on the outside looking in and the only connection you have with people like us is the desire to put your dick in one... you're exactly the wrong kind of person. Just get a hooker or a membership to a porn site and leave it at that.

[onmyknees]

As you'll see...........with some people, you're damed if you do in here, and damned if you don't. You can like and admire TS and buy the products....but not too much lest you'll be a chaser. I'm certainly not a T gurl or fem boi, but you didn't sound borish or condesending or disrespectful to me....so don't take any of this too seriously. Be yourself and if that's good enough to attract a TS for a friendship/date....good for you.

[Donderlander]

I was kind of wary to do that. Does upgrading really help? Did you have any luck with that?