View Poll Results: How do you want the guy to react?
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Excited because he has a TS fetish?
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Accepting. He doesn't have a preference between GGs and TGs?
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Just be open minded and willing to give it a try?
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I don't date guys.
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Thread: Weird Question...
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07-06-2012 #1
Weird Question...
For the lovely TS that are on here. How do you want a guy to react when he finds out you are a TS?
Keep in mind we are talking about a positive reaction. No one wants the negative reaction.
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07-06-2012 #2
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07-06-2012 #3
Re: Weird Question...
The question is stated for "How do you want a guy to react when he finds out you are a TS?"
Nobody would answer with a negative answer like "I want him to freak out."
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07-06-2012 #4
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07-06-2012 #5
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Re: Weird Question...
Still see me as a woman.
errrr wait, i am dreaming, am i?
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07-06-2012 #6
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07-06-2012 #7
Re: Weird Question...
I dated some transgirls. One loved the fact her 'girlstick' was a turn on. Another girl was not accepting of her situation. I am curious as to what the responses can be.
And thank you for your permission to carry on.
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07-06-2012 #8
Re: Weird Question...
I think in time more people will be able to see that.
I have been comfortable with seeing transgirls as just girls.
I can't imagine how this situation can be.
If a guy is interested in a girl and finds out that she is a transsexual and he is interested in that, is he really just interested in her for the fetish? That's a horrible reality I think.
I feel that seeing a transexual as just a woman is the best situation. One transexual I was seeing wanted me to go to a New York gay parade with her. I was alright with that. But she wanted me to tell people I am gay or at least bisexual because I was with her. I couldn't quite understand this because she wanted to accepted as a 100% girl and I gladly did. We weren't even sexual. I felt contradicted because I accepted her for who she is but I felt like by saying I was bi or gay because I was with her was negating the fact that she is a she. I have friends who are openly gay I love them as if they were my family. But I felt like having a label to date her was... awkward.
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07-06-2012 #9
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Re: Weird Question...
My opinion is that the whole: expecting a reaction just sucks, whether positive or negative.
A girl with blond hair, does not have to wonder how the world reaction would be when they learn her natural hair in black but she just dyed her hair.
Expecting a reaction is basically: Here please have the power to accept me or reject, just based on a mistake of nature, in which i have no say.
Let it be potential lover, or job where is it: will i get that job (of course ideal expected reaction is: it does not matter if you are ts or not, but still expecting a reaction sucks) or would I keep my job once they know i am transitioning, or would my family speak to me once they know i am trans. It just sucks to have to wait for a reaction.
Last edited by nina_lisa; 07-06-2012 at 02:32 AM.
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07-06-2012 #10
Re: Weird Question...
Even though I am not interested in guys at all, I was considering crossdressing once. I ended up getting a pair of sexy high heels. I'm 6'2" so if you can imagine, getting size 13 highs was pretty hard. I was talking to a genetic girl and we both had agreed it would be hot to have me crossdress for sexual fun and then start going out like that with her. Long story short, I lost my nerve with that. I figured it wasn't for me and I also had a though of 'How will others accept me if they see me like this?'
I loosely have a grasp on how you feel and I respect it.
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