Question to those that date escorts

[fordly66]

ok i am thinking loudly here. for me escorting is short term, i don't see myself 1-2 years from now still doing it. But anyone i might date might have an issue with what i did in the past.

- I can go and date women, so far my experience what that women are more sensitive and more understanding of who i am.

- If i date someone who main preference is ts girls, he might be strongly against, me having surgery. so i don't want to have non supportive partners.

my own experience with escorting even if limited, is many chasers will only seem me as a fetish and nothing more. it is even pretty common for people to refer to me as He.

- I can date a straight man that is not looking for a ts, he might reject me when he know i am ts, but he will also be more supportive if one day i decide to go for the surgery. Which make the option of dating girls a better option, as many men have insecurities of the type: i found a ts attractive, does it make me gay.


I am just thinking loudly, so anyone feel free to comment on what i said.

I am a man and would definitely date a girl such as yourself. If we became serious, I would prefer that you stop escorting. Also I wouldn't mind at all if you have the "final surgery". I would actually be there for you and support you.

[south ov da border]

When it comes down to it, SOMEBODY has to pay for the transition and all the parts of the process. One just has to be realistic about the matter...

[Prospero]

I think that most of the guys here who are into seeing TS escorts would admit that the cock is a big part of the attraction in the first place. But as you get to know the girl and like her then it may become less and less important. With the few T girls I've dated - as opposed to seen purely as escorts (if we'd carried on seeing each other) then I'd have had no issue whatsoever with a transition. I'd have supported them - just like you'd support a GG if she needed some form of surgery. Once the heart gets involved it creates new priorities.

[BellaBellucci]

i pay because i'd be uncomfortable dating a ts girl in public. wish i didn't care about what people think, but i do, so i guess i pay for discretion.

Grow up.

~BB~

[Chase_Mcthirsty]

it is not uncommon if you are into ts, that you end up paying to see one. Question of offer and demand.

But here is the question:
- do you pay because you pay them to leave after having had sex, and you don't desire to have a relationship, same thing if you dated women.

-because you want to see someone different each time?

- or would you prefer something more long term, even if it was a sugar daddy arrangement?

Tiger Woods is proof that paying them doesn't make then go away or silence them.

So to me paying for sex is like admitting defeat. Knowing that in no other circumstances would these women have sex with you, but you must have it.

I fell in with this lot some time ago but then it dawned on me that if I don't pay for pussy why should I be paying for tranny cock? And as a result my way of addressing escorts or any type of woman is now psychologically in tuned with my ego.

Simply put if she doesn't like me, then I don't want her.

Case in point last night I met this passable young black tgirl in center city who wanted a ride to another stroll. You could tell she was on a mission to make money but her flirts with me were "genuine" But because money was slow she still felt obligated to asked me if I wanted to "spend some money, maybe $60?" To which I said no. Yet she didn't stress the issue or anything.

And 5 minutes later her gaff was to the side allowing me to play with her pretty fat clit in my car. It could've gone farther but she hinted constantly at her obvious disdain for clients who liked to get fucked. Mind you I told the chick I was verse before she even got in the car. So she was either not paying attention or relatively stupid.

Hell, if I wanted to take an over-opinionated woman out to plays, dinners and movies without getting what I wanted in returned. I'd be married to a genetic chick.

She called me earlier today but I ignored it. And I consider yesterday a lost since there were quite a few ladies out there who caught my eye and I basically bet on the wrong horse.

So that's the only complaints I have.

Stay Thirsty~

[BellaBellucci]

Hell, if I wanted to take an over-opinionated woman out to plays, dinners and movies without getting what I wanted in returned. I'd be married to a genetic chick.

Got it. No girls with brains for you, especially if they also have a penis.

Oh, and you take no personal enjoyment out of a date unless it ends 'happily.'

... me love you long time.

~BB~

[buttslinger]

It's the people around you that are important. Now SERVE ME you people!!!

[Gambino]

I've dated a ts who was escorting, was weird when she lived with me for awhile, I'd go entertain myself outside for half an hour to an hour while a client came in and did his thing. It fucking sucks, never date a ts who escorts, cause at the time I was around 22-23, and being that age your horny all the time, and she just doesn't want to at times cause it reminds her of work. The living together while she escorted tore the relationship apart.

I also date another ts later on, went to parties and shit with other people who knew, was apprehensive about going to parties, but in the end just said fuck it, what the fuck do I care what these people think, we just didn't make it. I've never payed, it's my own moral thing, sex is intimate, and of its not freely given, then it shouldn't be done. I don't begrudge anyone who does it, but it isn't for me

[nina_lisa]

or maybe i'll just day another ts girl, my skin will get more estrogen, just by touching her skin

[Chase_Mcthirsty]

Got it. No girls with brains for you, especially if they also have a penis.

Oh, and you take no personal enjoyment out of a date unless it ends 'happily.'

... me love you long time.

~BB~

No... you don't get it. And I'd wager that you don't get much in general.

The tgirl in question went on a rant about clients acting like "Faggots" only to conclude by saying "BTW, I'm going to the gay pride festival in NYC tomorrow" Does that sound like a long term winner to you????

No wait don't bother to answer that since your goal was obviously to take anything you weren't partial to and run with it while clearly not knowing thing about me or the whole story. But tell, me how do you equate me recognizing a potentially bad connection to me wanting a transsexual airhead???

Is your personal enjoyment factored in on terrible hook ups who don't reciprocate or end well? Great have fun with that assessment.

I've got other plans...
But don't fret...your over all sarcasm was....."pretty".

Stay Thirsty~