Question to those that date escorts

[Tyler___Durden]

i pay because i'd be uncomfortable dating a ts girl in public. wish i didn't care about what people think, but i do, so i guess i pay for discretion.

Then date a Ts who doesn't look like a Ts, maybe?


Many Ts who are indistinguishable from Bio-women, are in long term relationships.
Their long term partners often started dating them when said Ts was not really able to represent as Bio.
That's why 'They' call it Transition; you know from one thing to another thing.
{Not that transsexual women are 'things' any more than anyone else is}

Anyway it should be about the person not what they look like....
Pa! Who am I kidding! I'm an Extreme Lookist!

[Tyler___Durden]

One girl asked if i want to go out with her to an attraction parc, and i had to say: no sorry, people will scream at me: that is a man

I did tell you not to get your willy out and wave it around,
while we were on the rollercoaster ride!
That was soooo embarrassing.

[nina_lisa]

ok i am thinking loudly here. for me escorting is short term, i don't see myself 1-2 years from now still doing it. But anyone i might date might have an issue with what i did in the past.

- I can go and date women, so far my experience what that women are more sensitive and more understanding of who i am.

- If i date someone who main preference is ts girls, he might be strongly against, me having surgery. so i don't want to have non supportive partners.

my own experience with escorting even if limited, is many chasers will only seem me as a fetish and nothing more. it is even pretty common for people to refer to me as He.

- I can date a straight man that is not looking for a ts, he might reject me when he know i am ts, but he will also be more supportive if one day i decide to go for the surgery. Which make the option of dating girls a better option, as many men have insecurities of the type: i found a ts attractive, does it make me gay.


I am just thinking loudly, so anyone feel free to comment on what i said.

[Tyler___Durden]

ok i am thinking loudly here. for me escorting is short term, i don't see myself 1-2 years from now still doing it. But anyone i might date might have an issue with what i did in the past.

How many jobs have you done including short term, temping, jobs in school holidays and even paper rounds?
Do you present every new partner your CV?
Of course not.
Your escorting for a period in your past would be no more relevant
to a relationship, than any other.
Don't tell them.

[smoothboi]

I wouldn't have a problem dating a tg or gg who was an escort or worked in the adult industry. [And I like Captain Jack too, Liberty, so we'd have something to talk about].

I don't have any problems with paying if I had the money. For me, I would pay for an escort because it would be a chance to have sex with someone who is superhot and way out of my league. I'm pretty charming and am dating some nice looking women that I like, but I'm basically a 7.

[Dino Velvet]

Don't tell them.

I agree.

[bluesoul]

How many jobs have you done including short term, temping, jobs in school holidays and even paper rounds?
Do you present every new partner your CV?
Of course not.
Your escorting for a period in your past would be no more relevant
to a relationship, than any other.
Don't tell them.

hahaha i think having sex with people for money is a little different from, say, an accounting job. i think it's very good of nina_lisa to be honest with her potential partners about what she's done (despite any negative connotations that might arise).

i know for me personally, i'd like to know if my girlfriend has prostituted in the past as it would (most likely) be a deal breaker.

[flabbybody]

Horrible answer but its convenience. I work non stop and basically don't give myself the time to go out and meet, I just see when i might have a free hour and try and book something in.

that's not a horrible answer. I'll just add to it.
I'm a 50 something white guy from Queens who's not likely to fit in at a Spanish gay club at 3 in the morning. Practically speaking my options for having sex with a tgirl are limited to escorts. There's lotsa girls who do it, and lotsa guys like me. It works well for both parties

[nina_lisa]

i know for me personally, i'd like to know if my girlfriend has prostituted in the past as it would (most likely) be a deal breaker.

If you had a GF that did not escort, but when she was 20y.o every week she would sleep with 3 different guys, would that be a deal breaker?

[Tyler___Durden]

hahaha i think having sex with people for money is a little different from, say, an accounting job. i think it's very good of nina_lisa to be honest with her potential partners about what she's done (despite any negative connotations that might arise).

i know for me personally, i'd like to know if my girlfriend has prostituted in the past as it would (most likely) be a deal breaker.

[Irony]hahaha i think having sex with people for money is no different at all to people paying escorts to have sex with them, then to not disclose that fact to any potential girlfriend.

i know for me personally, i'd like to know if my potential boyfriend is playing the double-standards game as it would (most likely) be a deal breaker.[/Irony]