Question to those that date escorts

[nina_lisa]

it is not uncommon if you are into ts, that you end up paying to see one. Question of offer and demand.

But here is the question:
- do you pay because you pay them to leave after having had sex, and you don't desire to have a relationship, same thing if you dated women.

-because you want to see someone different each time?

- or would you prefer something more long term, even if it was a sugar daddy arrangement?

[PetetheCheek]

i pay because i'd be uncomfortable dating a ts girl in public. wish i didn't care about what people think, but i do, so i guess i pay for discretion.

[darkrose2000]

It is a very delicate question, Nina_lisa.

Many people, including me, date and would like to have relationship with Trans girl, but it is not so easy, as it is said.

Most of the Tgirls, especially escort just get used to be alone and to live alone.
When you live alone long time, you have difficulties accepting someone else around you all the time.
Also some people will not agree their girlfriend to continue escorting in a long term.
This is my opinion, and believe me, I had quite experience. Also I don't mind to be seen in public with Tgirl, or to live with.

Ofcourse if I am Brad Pitt brother, things will be different

Regards,
K.

[Jericho]

- do you pay because you pay them to leave after having had sex, and you don't desire to have a relationship, same thing if you dated women.

^^^This^^^
It may well be selfish but, i don't want to have to put up with someone elses shit.
Of course, things are always subject to change , but for the time being...Been there, done that!

[Kevin Dong]

me no pay!!

[nina_lisa]

It is a very delicate question, Nina_lisa.

Many people, including me, date and would like to have relationship with Trans girl, but it is not so easy, as it is said.

Most of the Tgirls, especially escort just get used to be alone and to live alone.
When you live alone long time, you have difficulties accepting someone else around you all the time.
Also some people will not agree their girlfriend to continue escorting in a long term.

I can see how been used to been alone can make a relation difficult, and even if a person is ok with escorting, it is not an easy relationship.

Many men will want the woman to stop escorting, yet transition is hugely expensive at the same time.

In the past i had many girls that wanted to date me, and i used to tell them: don't think dating a ts girl is as exotic as it look, it bring a lot of challenges you have not thought about.

One girl asked if i want to go out with her to an attraction parc, and i had to say: no sorry, people will scream at me: that is a man (happened to me more than once), i don't want to go any where.

[ibanezuk]

Horrible answer but its convenience. I work non stop and basically don't give myself the time to go out and meet, I just see when i might have a free hour and try and book something in.

[south ov da border]

I think the answer for a lot of people is they pay because there are as few strings attached as possible...

I am willing to date a trans woman in my personal life, but it's usually hard to find one that will date you just for you. I'm sure they are out there, but I've had no luck...

[LibertyHarkness]

i would date someone but they would have to accept i work in the adult industry with no intentions of leaving it for the forseeable future ... i.e webcamming, camera work , modelling or escorting etc ...

so therefore i would pretty much say that rules out 99% of civilians ...of which would just leave me to find another person the industry as they understand the setup .

[south ov da border]

i would date someone but they would have to accept i work in the adult industry with no intentions of leaving it for the forseeable future ... i.e webcamming, camera work , modelling or escorting etc ...

so therefore i would pretty much say that rules out 99% of civilians ...of which would just leave me to find another person the industry as they understand the setup .

That is so understandable. It's the same with entertainers. One does not realize the strings that come along with it. Personally I'm not going to make somebody stop what they do over my petty insecurities. Not fair for either party...