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03-12-2006 #1
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My witty signature.
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03-12-2006 #2
Re: I expected help...
Originally Posted by James Blonde
P.S. Thank you for adding to all of the idiocy around here by posting yet another topic where a noob rookie questions their own sexuality. It's been done before... way too many times.
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03-12-2006 #3
Re: I expected help...
Originally Posted by GrimFusion
Your still a rookie so get off the high horse and only answer questions appropriate to you. Jesus - talk about idiocy.
seanchai
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03-12-2006 #4
Here's the briefest responses to your questions based on knowing and working with 100's of TS's and reading similar questions/responses over the past few years.
1/ Are you gay?
Who cares - you are what you are. If you're attracted to tgirls you can't be put in the "straight" category but you fall somewhere else. Don't get carried away by labels.
2/ Most tgirls are interested in men - I'm willing to bet the ones you saw in Germany were more crossdressers that actual transsexuals.
3/ Losing interest in GG (genetic girls) - maybe you just need to try a TS and then go back to GG's - maybe it's like a mental block...maybe it isn't. It's pointless over-analysing unless it starts becoming a problem in your day to day life.
4/ Can you expect them to be the same? In some ways yes - in some ways no. People fall in love all the time and everyone is different, was one girlfriend different to another? Each tgirl is different as is each GG.
5/ Meeting a tgirl. Just play it by ear - if she's a sex worker then be more careful about how much you trust her (sorry girls but you know the stories) with stuff at first. As above, everyone is different you're asking the wrong questions.
It seems to me you just have a lot of confusion and questions which aren't answerable. Hangout, read topics here, surf into girls own sites (usually free) and get to know the community. Just take it easy and see what happens.
Good luck.
seanchai
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03-12-2006 #5
Welcome to the board!
Because you know it's coming, I've included herewith your honorary 'Queer-as-a-three-dollar-bill' virtual spending money. I hear it's good at most any amateur headshrinker's couch.
I don't think there's anything I can add to Seanchai's reply. You seem to have a fair grasp on the questions, looking for some basic answers (Rather than running around going 'Omigaw! What's wrong with me?'). We've all been there, some of us revisiting frequently for old time's sake.
I didn't want to make the impression that i have anything against gays.
I never saw so many nice girls in an internet discussion board.
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03-12-2006 #6
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Hi, i have the same problem and now i am a t-girl addict.
The last several years i only had sex with t-girls .
I hope to find a preop girl and live together.
It's a strange world, ciao
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03-12-2006 #7
Re: I expected help...
Originally Posted by seanchai
I guess you're right, though. It's not really my place to give the noobs shit since I'm still a noob myself. I'm just so used to the "forum regular" mentality elsewhere that it's hard to get used to being the new guy at times.
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03-12-2006 #8
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Re: Ok that helps in some points...
Originally Posted by James Blonde
Why let it define who you are? Whether you like Transsexuals, GGs, or aliens fom the planet Zorgab, you're still the same person (OK maybe not if you like aliens, but otherwise...)
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03-13-2006 #9I bet it's funny alias i don't understand what that means. My native language is german. Sometimes i know the meaning of every single word
in english, but as the sentence it doesn't make sense to me
Lemme think on this...
Queer = Gay/homosexual and also 'unusual' or 'strange'
'Queer as a three dollar bill' (Or the UK variant: 'Queer as a three bob note') = Slang term describing one's sexual preference. The existence of a three dollar note from the Bahamas (That's genuine currency) makes for a good visual joke (Especially since it is pink and has a queen on the front ).
Is there a three Deutchmark note?
Anyone who asks the 'Does this make me gay?' question now gets their own virtual three dollar bill.
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03-13-2006 #10
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Re: Some questions to TS Girls - Please answer
Hiya James... I understand where you are coming from, a lot of guys feel the same way in the beginning and can be confused. I happen to be in a good mood, and I am not going to be mean, call you gay, or make fun of you... I will answer your questions to the best of my ability, and I hope it helps.
Originally Posted by James Blonde