Life is unfair

[Nicole Dupre]

YMMV - Nicole I've found more than a few guys here are actually very genuine... you get back what you put out.

Hrmmm... maybe that's why I get so many cock pics sent to me...

Wendy, I know you want to be well-liked here and to promote a new site. And you seem like a genuinely nice person, so I wish you all the best. But I've had enough cock pictures sent to me to last me a life time. Thousands. Personally I prefer cocks in my bed, in my hands, in my mouth and in my ass. But that's not love or trust. And that's not what the OP wants or needs. That's not what I place importance on either. I can have all the NSA sex I want. Maybe she can as well.

Most guys here are dysfunctional and are not dating material imo. They're sexually confused. They're emotionally numb. The OP is setting herself up for disappointment in a place like this. These guys are mostly spineless closet cases. I wish it wasn't the case, but it really is. They're here for free porn.

[Nicole Dupre]

Jaded much? To paraphrase the Comedian Katt Williams. If you're getting a low quality of men, maybe you should check the quality of yourself.

I'm sure you find this to be brilliant and witty. Too bad that I won't ever watch it or give a shit.

[loveboof]

I really like the original post. I feel like there is something kinda beautiful there - maybe an honesty? (not sure)

And the structure of the comment makes me think it's almost poetry...

[Nicole Dupre]

now nothing...just live it like you do...

it took me a long time not to be angry anymore about the homophobia/transfobia or angry about being a Ts...or about people always going against me instead of lending a helping hand...and longer to accept that most guys that want to be intimate with me are afraid to admit it...like im some lepar...being TS sometimes feels like a criminal record...but a medieval one where they would cut off hands and ears to show the world what you had done...

i think its easier to be gay...coz thats two against the rest of the world..

As a TS you can feel very solo when you with a guy...its you against the rest of the world and he somewhat hiding from it all...

I sometimes wonder if my heart will ever really melt for a guy i like under these conditions...i dont think so.

You need therapy, sister. Not a porn forum. And I'm not saying that to hurt your feelings. I'm saying it to hopefully point you in a better direction.

[Nicole Dupre]

And the structure of the comment makes me think it's almost poetry...

I assumed that it was intended to be.

[loveboof]

I assumed that it was intended to be.

Well if it is, then my 'almost poetry' comment could inadvertently be more offensive than your little violin! lol

Oh well :/

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It is full of unfinished sentiments and fragmented thoughts. There's an inherent acceptance within the whole tone, but at the same time the mantra-esque structure suggests a lack of confidence in that acceptance! Like it's a very fragile thing - maybe doesn't exist at all? Is this actually more of an affirmation or yearning for acceptance?

[Nicole Dupre]

I shouldn't even bother with this place. I'm as mistaken in my thinking that there's more to it as the OP obviously is.

I'll let you all get back to whatever it is that you do here.

[maaarc]

fair and unfair are concepts of the conscious human mind. they part of humanity's struggle to impose order and meaning on to the "seemly" chaotic material world in which we live.
You may have noticed that your conscious mind is dominated by the ego and chatters incessantly going around and around in circles. If I only had this person or car or house or this much money or some situation I would be happy if only if only if only you will never find peace chasing too hard after the things of the material world.

I suggest you simply attempt to live in the present moment. don't hold on too tightly to the things of the material world - money, other people - their expectations or opinions, even ice cream!!!. when you are hungry - eat, when you are tired - sleep. be like water which finds the the way of least resistance and holds on to nothing - it simply flows.

From Alan Watts:


"When you get free from certain fixed concepts of the way the world is, you find it is far more subtle, and far more miraculous, than you thought it was."


I sincerely wish you peace my friend.

[loveboof]

I shouldn't even bother with this place. I'm as mistaken in my thinking that there's more to it as the OP obviously is.

I'll let you all get back to whatever it is that you do here.

This place is meaningless. Why you have any expectations I don't know...

But don't beat yourself up - we all make mistakes

[Nautica]

Damn! I live for Nicole! Haha!