Life is unfair

[BrendaTG]

I'm not minimizing what you're saying in the least....so don't get me wrong....but unfair is an 18 year old kid who for whatever his reasons goes to Afghanistan as a pimple faced kid and 6 months later comes back minus 2 legs and an arm, or a 10 year old kid walking to school in a poor neighborhood who gets caught in a hail of gang gunfire. There's a lot of unfairness out there....I'm glad you seem to have come to terms with yours.

I did not mean to offend you and of course I have known life is very unfair for a very long time... I dont think I ever have thought is was fair.

But a lot of people do believe that they somehow deserve what is coming to them... They dont know they are lucky. I know my luck. But that was not what I expressed in my post.

Its the huge probablity that I will never have a normal relationship in my life because of the social complications of being a TS. And that is fine and well... I never expected even to end up in the arms of a handsome man... so I am not at all dissapointed...

But when love comes in the picture... when you feel as if you would do anything to be with the other person and then notice that he can't tell you the same thing because of "sociaty" or what others think... it wont really be equal... like two gays or two straight people... This is what complicates being a TS.

And I have come to terms with that now.

[BrendaTG]

Well if it is, then my 'almost poetry' comment could inadvertently be more offensive than your little violin! lol

Oh well :/

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It is full of unfinished sentiments and fragmented thoughts. There's an inherent acceptance within the whole tone, but at the same time the mantra-esque structure suggests a lack of confidence in that acceptance! Like it's a very fragile thing - maybe doesn't exist at all? Is this actually more of an affirmation or yearning for acceptance?

Haha Loveboof!!!

It was not meant as poetry at all, but your interpretation of it is correct.
These were just my thoughts lol.

I have no talent for language and poetry.

[BrendaTG]

fair and unfair are concepts of the conscious human mind. they part of humanity's struggle to impose order and meaning on to the "seemly" chaotic material world in which we live.
You may have noticed that your conscious mind is dominated by the ego and chatters incessantly going around and around in circles. If I only had this person or car or house or this much money or some situation I would be happy if only if only if only you will never find peace chasing too hard after the things of the material world.

I suggest you simply attempt to live in the present moment. don't hold on too tightly to the things of the material world - money, other people - their expectations or opinions, even ice cream!!!. when you are hungry - eat, when you are tired - sleep. be like water which finds the the way of least resistance and holds on to nothing - it simply flows.

From Alan Watts:


"When you get free from certain fixed concepts of the way the world is, you find it is far more subtle, and far more miraculous, than you thought it was."


I sincerely wish you peace my friend.

Thanks for your help and good intentions.
Still love isnt really from the material world... So it confuses me sometimes anyone would care what others think when it comes to love...
But that's a shallow thing to say...I can understand its difficult for men... and I have to accept that.

Its not like I can do anything to really change that.

[BrendaTG]

I'm sure you find this to be brilliant and witty. Too bad that I won't ever watch it or give a shit.

haha

[Jericho]

...And then you die!

[BrendaTG]

...And then you die!

Thats the one thing that's fair about life

[BrendaTG]

You need therapy, sister. Not a porn forum. And I'm not saying that to hurt your feelings. I'm saying it to hopefully point you in a better direction.

Thanks, I guess, perhaps.... I wonder if I do need therapy on this subject. Probably.

[BigBlackMan]

Nicole name one ts on here that care about men. Theres none! The only thing ts care about is the money. Cut the bullshit

[Nicole Dupre]

Nicole name one ts on here that care about men. Theres none! The only thing ts care about is the money. Cut the bullshit

I date men all the time, and not as an escort, moron. In the past I've been in LTRs with men who I've loved and treated like kings. So shove your bitter faggotry up you anonymous ass. You couldn't think your way out of a paper bag on this topic. You're the last person who will understand what's been discussed here. You'll never be satisfied with transsexuals, littleguy, and my guess is you'll NEVER have sex with one either. In fact, tell us all when you last dated or ever had sex with a TS. Better yet, tell us in vivid detail when you've even met a TS.

You're the quintessential closet pervert who doesn't have a pot to piss in. You hate the world, you hate white people, and you'll never amount anything more than a resentful manual labor clown with a vocational school certificate in dollar store frame. Now get back to your big career as a garbage man and STFU, simpleton.

[Nicole Dupre]

I rest my case, moron.

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