i am normally straight but

[Jericho]

do people think that be insulting and disrespectful will get them any where?

Yes..Really...That.

Or maybe, just maybe, they're being neither insulting or disrespectful...just ignorant and don't know any better.

[GrimFusion]

Just got this in an email:
do people think that be insulting and disrespectful will get them any where?

Sometimes. Some dudes think being a dickhead is a turn on. It can be, but they forget the part where they prove they're not usually dickheads.

I think you just got trolled, though. It seems a little more likely some lurker just goaded (thanks, Krissy) you because they read this post. I think that's why most of the other girls just ignore this kinda junk.

[nina_lisa]

I think you just got trolled, though. It seems a little more likely some lurker just goaded (thanks, Krissy) you because they read this post. I think that's why most of the other girls just ignore this kinda junk.

It was not someone from this forum, but a German escorting website instead. Using male pronouns among potential clients is pretty common so far in my experience.

[GOLDENBEAR]

Sometimes. Some dudes think being a dickhead is a turn on. It can be, but they forget the part where they prove they're not usually dickheads.

I think you just got trolled, though. It seems a little more likely some lurker just goaded (thanks, Krissy) you because they read this post. I think that's why most of the other girls just ignore this kinda junk.

I agree. Unless it's in your nature to be an asshole; forget it. It will get you nowhere. That said, I think most guys who say stupid shit to TS's are just ignorant of how to act and that's why they feel an irrational need to explain they are not gay. Like it or not, most of America would consider a guy who seeks out sex with a TS to be gay. So men are naturally defensive about it. Nothing more to it.

[GrimFusion]

It was not someone from this forum, but a German escorting website instead. Using male pronouns among potential clients is pretty common so far in my experience.

That's lame. I'm sure it's way more awkward when it happens while they're propositioning. I had an friend back in high school who transitioned, and I pulled that shit with her the first few times we talked. It wasn't an intentional thing, and I was embarrassed as hell after she got pissed enough to say something. Most guys just don't get a chance to have a conversation with a tgirl or check out the community before shopping for escorts. I'd agree with Jericho (again). They're totally oblivious.

[nina_lisa]

The best one so far is: You look too masculine i think.

[NJfan]

You look perfect. Don't let the pricks get to you.

I am at the point where I am not even comfortable saying: shemales, trannies, transexuals, transgendered, etc. I see those people as girls or women. They just may happen to have a penis or used to have a penis. Maybe we should start saying 'Pre-Op women' ?

[bob.chicken]

i dont understand why it's such a big deal the guys are obviously confused and don't know the appropriate label. It may seem 'normal' to the escort because they hear it all the time but to the guy it's all new to him.

[a994]

Like the song says, just treat her like a lady, and think of her as one.