Question For The Ladies On Dating Certain Types Of Guys

[Ecstatic]

One would expect that the person who pays for sex regularly would not be interested in the total personality of the sex professional. The client may be drawn to a warm and friendly person, but that is where the non-physical interest ends.

Maybe for some. But Im under the impression that clients somewhat are interested or would have to be interested in a woman's or transexual's personality regardless if said woman or transexual are working as escorts. There are men on this board alone that wouldnt want to be with any women or transexuals who have dispicable attutudes and behaviour. Am I right Ecstatic? Hence, I always see guys posting here looking for feedbacks and reviews of specific transexuals.

Yes, you're right, Hara. In my response I had not considered at all whether one pays for play or is a player (as HungDevil defines the term). I think it may be an important distinction, but not directly relevant here, where the question in my mind is whether a guy has any real interest in his partner (unqualified: escort or date or LTR) beyond her status as a TS.

Personally, I take offense to your assumpiton, HungDevil, that "One would expect that the person who pays for sex regularly would not be interested in the total personality of the sex professional." I understand why you would assume this, but, speaking for myself, this is far from the case. I do see a few select escorts and pay for play. I have also cultivated real friendships with these girls, evidenced by such things as going out to dinner, going shopping, talking (sometimes for hours) on the phone, and more (but I don't want to get too personal here). That these girls want to spend time with me, and me with them, speaks volumes. Yes, I'll pay them for their professional services, but our relationships are not defined solely by those services.

Since I am happily married (to a very understanding wife who has no issue with my "getting a little on the side" so long as I play safe), I'm not dating anyone because that would be a misrepresentation at best. Seeing an escort is the best way for me. But I only want to be with someone who is a friend, and I am very much concerned with the "total personality" of these girls. Sex doesn't need to be part of that equation, but friendship does.

[Deepdarkfucker]

Hmmmm?

[dj4monie]

Allanah -

Yadda, Yadda, Yadda...

Sorry you took that so dayum personal, but then again I didn't expect anything else, right on cue in fact.

I like how people used personalities in popular culture to support their points of view.

Madonna, Demi Moore, et all are all EXCEPTIONS to the rule, not THE RULE. Try not to confuse that.

There access to money allows them the best plastic sugreons and fitness trainers known to man, the average female in the US has no access to such things and thus doesn't turn out as well.

The fact remains that alot of men over 35 want nothing to do with women in their age range or older and rather travel the world to find somebody that will accept them depsite being 15-20 years their senior.

I guess you haven't seen or read anything about Russian Brides and Sexual Tourism have you?

Those numbers are growing...

I've given up seeking a T myself because its rather hopeless and like I said, I want kids and once I walk down that isle and say the magic words, all thoughts of T's will disapear because while I find T's sexy in general, I have enough problems being a black man in this country to try and compound them even more with having a T as companion, long term. Its already bad enough since I date white women almost exclusively.

So there you have it.

I still stand by my statements however fucked up you think they are.

"Ghost Ride Da Whip"