Question For The Ladies On Dating Certain Types Of Guys

[RangeHova]

The SRS thing is so crazy to me. I have been w/ a TS like I said and didn't miss the dick at all.

But I have seen a few girls who got it done, came back to tell girls how great it was but once you give them a little too much to drink and they will break down about the problems (seriously reduced sex drive, lack of orgasm, men losing that special interest, etc.)

Those things (one, some, or some fraction of things) are too much of a risk.

[BeardedOne]

SRS is just too fucking scary.

I remember the chapter from Caroline 'Tula' Cossey's biography wherein she described her first memories after the surgery. Jeezlouise, you gotta want it really bad to go that far. Kudos to those that do, but it's still an awful extreme that may or not be 'necessary'.

Its one scary procedure nonetheless and its irreversible.

Which is why there's so much psych counselling and realtime living needed before the procedure. There's scary tales of those that went through it only to realize, too late, that they were just gay and in denial.

The one from Belgium went to Dr. Suporn and told me she can have an orgasm. The other two I havent heard them talk about them having any. Go figure. And all 3 of them now dont like anal sex.

Interestingly enough, of the three post-op friends/acquaintences I have, none have ever brought up the sex/orgasm thing. I guess you =can= be friends with a T-gurl without the dick (Or lack thereof) getting in the way.

[hondarobot]

Well, it's a subject I've gone crazy over a bunch of times, and it's a tough one.

I get the idea of "finishing the transformation", I've also seen first hand just what happens when that objective is reached. The post-op girls I know are vile, evil, bitter girls. I'm serious, they are.

I guess I've come across sometimes as a tranny chaser, and I'm not (if I was just into shecock, I'd get laid every night), I'm just saying I'm not interested in a vagina to the point where I would want any TS girl to do something that would end up being bad in the long run for her.

That's all I'm saying.

[AllanahStarrNYC]

u know i really get pissed of when u guys start bashing srs
and girls who have had srs

every single post op i know is well adjusted and happy-
all i know of one who can not achieve orgasm- the rest can
it just takes time

just because YOU don't understand it, or you like a girl with a cock
you have no right to decide on someones happiness or give advice ont hat with their body

another way tranny chasers sexually objectify transsexual women-
'never do that'- 'youll be just another woman'- 'youll ruin yourself' that really pissed me the fuck off

if YOU want girls to start judgeging you then maybe you should stop judgeing them and realize that it is up to the person to decide what to do with their genitals

amazing!

i know so many men who are 100 percent straight and not into pre ops at all- and always ask when i am getting the surgery- yet the ones who want the cock, are like- please dont

SAD SAD SAD

[hondarobot]

I'm just stating my opinion on the subject, and I'm not an idiot or completely clueless here.

I understand the need to be a girl. I just think at this point, the risk does not justify the potential objective.

And that sucks, and I might be wrong, but I'm not going to just be mute on the subject.

I think real SRS will be realized in a few decades, I'm still researching this, but it doesn't seem fully realized just yet.

I'm just saying.

[BeardedOne]

u know i really get pissed of when u guys start bashing srs
and girls who have had srs

every single post op i know is well adjusted and happy-

Please don't consider me one of the bashers, Ms. Allanah, I never intended my comments/views that way. I do admire the conviction/commitment/need, I just find it too extreme to wrap my brain around.

'Course, I'm not removing/reversing bits of my anatomy so it's hard to relate, really.

The one post-op that I know well is actually pretty well-adjusted, from what I can tell. She's a 'translesbian' and seems pretty happy with her LTR with a GG lover.

Odd that. That some people can actually be happy.

The post-op girls I know are vile, evil, bitter girls. I'm serious, they are.

Jeez, Honda, =all= of them? And is it from the SRS, or life experience that may or may not be related to same? Do you think that one or more arrived at the 'Oh, shit! I was really just gay' revelation? Or are they going through a social stigma wherein the 'chasers' aren't chasing anymore?

[AllanahStarrNYC]

of ocurse its hard for you or most of you to understand

you have no idea what a pain in the ass it is to wear female clothes, tight jeans, or go to the beach, gym, and have to tuck. you have no idea what a bother it can be.

most of you have not had to second guess your genitals or sex.

the idea of taking hormones and chaging your sex itself is EXTREME. it is the only solution to the problem in you are transgendered- how is correcting genitals any different?

it is very easy to understand how you see it, because none of you have walked a day in a transgendered woman's shoes. most of you won't get as close to us as a computer screen, a party, or an hour with an escort.

clearly- many of you have no idea what it is like- our day to day lives.

[hondarobot]

Jeez, Honda, =all= of them? And is it from the SRS, or life experience that may or may not be related to same? Do you think that one or more arrived at the 'Oh, shit! I was really just gay' revelation? Or are they going through a social stigma wherein the 'chasers' aren't chasing anymore?[/quote]

I don't really want to delve into the particular circumstances with the girls (that's their own deal), but I do know at least three post op girls, and they are all crazy. They do live in Minneapolis, so maybe that drove them nuts, but they really are looney.

Just my personal experience with post-op girls I've known. Not a blanket statement on the entire post-op situation, but I have to work with the evidence available to me.

And I think it's bad science.

[BeardedOne]

They do live in Minneapolis, so maybe that drove them nuts, but they really are looney.

Well, there y' go. Mipple City will do that to a person.

[hondarobot]

This is my final take on the whole HA subject (until my next one):

Allanah will perfect the form of TS entertainment, and will be a star on every level.

Joanna Jett will break the boundaries, and will in some ways reinvent the world.

Tara Emory will do new things and bring a different level of art to the scene.

I'll chase Vicki until I run out of steam and fall down, then she'll pick me up, give me a drink of water, and I'll start chasing after her again. Who knows where that's going to lead, but I'll keep chasing. . .

Just my take on things, and it all doesn't really seem that bad.