Question For The Ladies On Dating Certain Types Of Guys

[AllanahStarrNYC]

its not the gyn or weight

its the way that bitch leaves looking the house like a crack addict knowing she is being follewed by photgraphers
with no make up, a bad dress, her hair unbrushed, and many times NO SHOES

A HOT FUCKING SHITTY MESS

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

but you know what- in order to love anyone else, you have to love yourself. and i love myself enough to be alone, and not desperate, and be able to be fulfilled wihtou a relationship.

You tell him gurl!

i would never in a million years give up my carrer or what i do for a man! that is insane- when i am. if i ever am ready to make a shift then it will be on my own command

i have chosen to stay single-i am not looking, nor have been for the past three years for any type of relationship.

This is something I admire of you gurlie. Youve certainly prove that happiness doesnt lay upon being tied down with a man. It takes awhole lotta woman to do that. CHEERS!!

you comment that women is in their 40s are barren ans unattractive ans do not want to be dated by anyone is just plain wrong and SEXIST.

there are some very hot 40 years olds out there who put some 20 year olds to shame-

here is a good example a 47 year old versus a 25 year old

LMAO!

Well demostrated Allanah!

~Kisses.

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[DJ_Asia]

Many girls I know go into chat rooms and are instantly pummeled with absolutely stupid remarks from moronic men.Most of these guys are just stroking off,as the mere thought of chatting with a real live TS is soooo hot to them.
For about 95 % of these guys its all fantasy and will remain that way...for a few others,if they are lucky they will meet a girl who doesnt mind being somebody's kinky desires cum true.
Most girls i know however despise these types of men...closeted,looking only to "see what its like",been stroking to the pix for years and now its my turn to hit it for real"....Wow! Lucky girl!
Many of my friends have told me how much they hate this behaviour from men,and I cant blame them at all.

Then on the other hand if a man emerges from the fantasy phase,accepts he likes TS,isnt ashamed of it,openly is affectionate with her....etc,etc....
Said man dates girl for 6 months,things dont work out,so he starts dating another girl.The community being as small and gossipy as it is,word gets around that So and So's ex is now dating _________ Well now he is a tranny chaser huh?

My question is this?? Where is the happy medium?

What do girls hate more,closeted dudes obsessed with hooking up with you solely cuz a girl has a cock,or the dude who has dated a few girls AKA Tranny Chaser...which is worse??

Honestly i think most guys here have gone through at some point/or are currently in the "fantasy phase".To emerge from that time in a mans life and still be able to look in the mirror and like what you see isnt so easy to do...an accomplishment or growth as a person as far as I can tell.Yet when one emerges from the closet and is no longer ashamed,he suddenly finds he has become a Tranny Chaser.....I dont get it,never have and never will.

DJ Asia

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

You got a very good point right there DJ Asia. None of the two are exactly appealing to most girls.

Personally, I only date (from experience) Guys who have not been with nor dated any TS girl..which means, Id be his first. For one, since you pointed out the fact that people in the community "Gossips" so much..Id rather not be part of any drama coming from anyone's ex tg gf. If it makes sense. Besides, I take comfort knowing he isnt a tranny chaser..And in the event that after "our time" together and he became one..then it was good knowing it happened after we were together.

~Kisses.

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[hondarobot]

All good points, DJ Asia. It's so damn complicated and frustrating, I'm just thankfull there is no shortage of porn (and oddly enough, I don't even watch TS porn, or at least very very rarely, I wonder what's up with that?)

You just can't beat jerking off to porn as far as a long term, fully satisfying relationship goes. It works for me.

[AllanahStarrNYC]

i think the happy medium is when people behave like people and show common descency, respect, and courtesy, with each other.

we do live in a relatively small community- so unlike the pool of woemn, which is so much larger, a man may date 100 women and non of them will no about each other- in our world it is a bit different.

i do not discriminate agaisnt a man who has dated or transsexuals- to me that is just silly, but i can see the good and bad of those situations.

this is funny because i recently decided to release a lot of the relationships in my life that i realized, where 'poisenous' and drawing negative attenion. upon inspection, i realized mosst of these were men. men whom i had dated, or had affairs with- and still flirted with me, and wanted me in their lives but then when it came down to it not really.

i think it just really boils down- like anything else with people being honest with each other. i am pretty schooled these days to pick up on alot of sighns that mean trouble from a man.

what really pisses me off is when a guy comes to you from so many different angles- and then u realize th eonly thing he is after.

and quite frankly, i would rather have a V8.

sex is extremly easy for me- but if someone is not willing to acutally engage with me as a person, then, they get nothing from me.

i am completley honest about my life, mu living, what i do. if someone is evolved enough, and had the balls and self confidence to deal with it-
then bring it on.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

i think the happy medium is when people behave like people and show common descency, respect, and courtesy, with each other.

Amen!

we do live in a relatively small community- so unlike the pool of women, which is so much larger, a man may date 100 women and non of them will know about each other- in our world it is a bit different.

Tis is so TRUE.

i do not discriminate agaisnt a man who has dated or transsexuals- to me that is just silly, but i can see the good and bad of those situations.

I once had an ex bf..during the time we dated..I/we were plagued with calls from his GG ex gf. To me thats just annoying. And with another tgirl as an ex..well..Lets just say, I dont want to grab a brick and hit my own head with it (I prefer relationships with less complications and drama). LOL.

what really pisses me off is when a guy comes to you from so many different angles- and then u realize the only thing he is after.

I hear you gurlie.

and quite frankly, i would rather have a V8.

LMFAO

sex is extremely easy for me- but if someone is not willing to actually engage with me as a person, then, they get nothing from me.

Co-sign!

~Kisses.

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[dabaldone]

Then on the other hand if a man emerges from the fantasy phase,accepts he likes TS,isnt ashamed of it,openly is affectionate with her....etc,etc....
Said man dates girl for 6 months,things dont work out,so he starts dating another girl.The community being as small and gossipy as it is,word gets around that So and So's ex is now dating _________ Well now he is a tranny chaser huh?

My question is this?? Where is the happy medium?

What do girls hate more,closeted dudes obsessed with hooking up with you solely cuz a girl has a cock,or the dude who has dated a few girls AKA Tranny Chaser...which is worse??

Honestly i think most guys here have gone through at some point/or are currently in the "fantasy phase".To emerge from that time in a mans life and still be able to look in the mirror and like what you see isnt so easy to do...an accomplishment or growth as a person as far as I can tell.Yet when one emerges from the closet and is no longer ashamed,he suddenly finds he has become a Tranny Chaser.....I dont get it,never have and never will.

DJ Asia

Excellent point DJ, what is that happy medium? I am in the latter class, a guy who is no longer ashamed(damn I hated that feeling) of being with a TS. I had a couple of relationships that didn't work out. So, now am I a Tranny chaser? I guess I was a pussy chaser too. I've been married twice and dated wayyyy more GG's than TS's. Just like when dating GG's, you court several women before you find the "One".

[hondarobot]

One frequently unexamined angle on this whole subject is: the dreaded SRS deal.

I don't care what any of the girls say, it's highly risky, it poses lots of long term problems, and it most likely removes the ability for the girl to have an orgasm, ever again. I have not yet seen these possibilites proven false (and I've done lots of homework on this). I don't need a girl with a pussy to be into her.

If there are guys who are into girls with dicks, then the girls don't have to do something as risky and potentially long term damaging as this. They can be loved and accepted as they are.

SRS is still bad science, I'm just saying, that's my opinion.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Funny you raised SRS as a subject hondarobot..Its one scary procedure nonetheless and its irreversible. Ive about 3 Post Op ts friends. One from Cali, One from MN and One from Belgium. The one from Belgium went to Dr. Suporn and told me she can have an orgasm. The other two I havent heard them talk about them having any. Go figure. And all 3 of them now dont like anal sex. Heck one of them said she doesnt even have the patience to suck dicks the way she used to and couldnt care less if the guy finishes or not from a bj. LOL. I guess thats because she said she doesnt get "horny" anymore like she used to before SRS (Now she has to "THINK" horny to be into it). Not too sure about the other two.

~Kisses.

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