Question For The Ladies On Dating Certain Types Of Guys

[rick_932]

this is a great thread. wish there were more like this around here instead of the usual dick observation threads. ive been wondering some of the same things as the original threadstarter and look forward to hearing more of the girls' opinion about this.

[hondarobot]

Most TS girls, practically all of them, don't want guys to have any interest in their girldick.

Fact.

They wouldn't have gone through all the time, expense, and effort to become girls just to have attention placed on their dick.

Fair enough.

Most TS girls keep their dick, vs SRS, because of obvious and unavoidable complications and severe drawbacks associated with the proceedure.

Said complications and whatnot suck, it's not a perfect world, and surgical pussy is what it is. It's unfortunate that that is the case, but it is.

Most TS girls will, in the long run, have to deal with the fact that they will always have a dick.

Most of the "manly, 100% straight guys" TS girls want to have a LTR with, would not have a LTR with a girl with a dick. "100% straight guys" like self-lubricating, baby making pussy.

I'm not being mean, this is reality.

Guys that like girls that have a dick are shunned by TS girls, because "tranny chasers" don't make them feel like a girl.

Lots of sad, frustrated people. I see them all the time at work.

I've never seen a long term TS/"100% straight guy" relationship.

I haven't met a lot of guys who openly admit to wanting TS girls for a LTR.

I've never seen a "100% straight guy" pursue a TS long term, personally.

Facts.

Get the hell over it, girls. It's not "all about your dick", but only a crazy person would be long term with a girl and just pretend it's not there. We don't want you for your dick, but we do like the fact you have one. This isn't fantasy land, and things work both ways.

You can chase after bullshit and go crazy, or you can start to think about how to deal with the world.

Personally, I think it's the girls who have issues (and I love the girls anyways), not the guys who like them.

TS girls, for the most part, want the cake but don't understand that they can't eat it too. Unfortunately, it's the guys who like them that end up taking a beating because the girls get frustrated at this obvious truth.

And we all go to bed angry (well, most of us).

Just some observations. I'm sick of us guys who actually like TS girls being treated like jerks. Yeah, I like girls, and I like a girl with a dick even more. I'm not going to ignore it if it's there, because I'm not a retard. I know and understand all arguments against this thinking, but I'm sick of TS girls treating TS liking guys like shit.

Oh, and I'm Leaving Hung Angels!!!

Until the next time I post. . .

[BeardedOne]

Oh, and I'm Leaving Hung Angels!!!

Until the next time I post. . .

*Snark*

Yah, what he said.

I'm probably a T-girl's worst nightmare, relationship-wise. Quite honestly, I'd be lying if I said it wasn't all about the dick. I'm bisexual/pansexual and find TS's to be the closest to being the 'perfect gender' that I'm ever likely to find.

To quote (As closely as I can recall) a popular character from the series 'Queer As Folk': "I like dick. I like to see dick. I like to hold dick. I like to suck dick." I also like girls/gurls.

Get over it.

Is that all I see on a gurl? No. But it is surely a primary focus on what attracts me to T-girls.

I've only been intimate with two T-girls (Both escorts), but in both cases, once the play was done, I delighted in chatting with them, joking with them, and just enjoying their company.

I may be a hermit, but I get lonely sometimes and crave some intelligent, lighthearted, and sexy company. Bonus points if there's breasts and a dick involved.

Too many women (And that's a blanket statement: GG/TG/TS) quantify or objectify their relationships with men, reading more into it than they ever should. I've never lied to my partners about my sexuality or my status (Bi and poly), yet too many of them seemed to think that I was pulling thier leg or that they would 'be the one to change me'.

Feh. Get real.

Do you want us to 'love' you or do you want us to lie to you (As so many of you expect us to anyway)?

[Mylon]

DITTO,yeah what she said. Maybe now guys will "get" that we arent all about our dicks

I think you'll have to realize something... Most guys date women because they are women. And would likewise be turned off by a transexual because that person isn't 100% female.

If guys really dated people for who they were, and not because of that person's gender, then they would date anyone, male, female, or inbetween. And these kinds of guys are rare.

Gender (including "inbetweens") has quite a bit to do with attraction. That is merely life. You might not like that a guy likes you because of your dick, but be glad he likes you at all. I've been in one relationship where a girl (non TS) didn't like me for who I was. She liked me because I was there. So these kind of vain relationships happen even outside of TS relationships.

[tommytuu]

Most TS girls, practically all of them, don't want guys to have any interest in their girldick.

Fact.

They wouldn't have gone through all the time, expense, and effort to become girls just to have attention placed on their dick.

Fair enough.

Most TS girls keep their dick, vs SRS, because of obvious and unavoidable complications and severe drawbacks associated with the proceedure.

Said complications and whatnot suck, it's not a perfect world, and surgical pussy is what it is. It's unfortunate that that is the case, but it is.

Most TS girls will, in the long run, have to deal with the fact that they will always have a dick.

Most of the "manly, 100% straight guys" TS girls want to have a LTR with, would not have a LTR with a girl with a dick. "100% straight guys" like self-lubricating, baby making pussy.

I'm not being mean, this is reality.

Guys that like girls that have a dick are shunned by TS girls, because "tranny chasers" don't make them feel like a girl.

Lots of sad, frustrated people. I see them all the time at work.

I've never seen a long term TS/"100% straight guy" relationship.

I haven't met a lot of guys who openly admit to wanting TS girls for a LTR.

I've never seen a "100% straight guy" pursue a TS long term, personally.

Facts.

Get the hell over it, girls. It's not "all about your dick", but only a crazy person would be long term with a girl and just pretend it's not there. We don't want you for your dick, but we do like the fact you have one. This isn't fantasy land, and things work both ways.

You can chase after bullshit and go crazy, or you can start to think about how to deal with the world.

Personally, I think it's the girls who have issues (and I love the girls anyways), not the guys who like them.

TS girls, for the most part, want the cake but don't understand that they can't eat it too. Unfortunately, it's the guys who like them that end up taking a beating because the girls get frustrated at this obvious truth.

And we all go to bed angry (well, most of us).

Just some observations. I'm sick of us guys who actually like TS girls being treated like jerks. Yeah, I like girls, and I like a girl with a dick even more. I'm not going to ignore it if it's there, because I'm not a retard. I know and understand all arguments against this thinking, but I'm sick of TS girls treating TS liking guys like shit.

Oh, and I'm Leaving Hung Angels!!!

Until the next time I post. . .

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU. CO-SIGN, CO-SIGN, CO-SIGN. This is why I rarely respond to what someone says here. Because someone else always says what I'm thinking or feeling. Thanks Honda. I'll also add that there are a small handful of tgirls who actually understand all of what Honda said and have no hang ups about men liking their 3rd leg.

[AllanahStarrNYC]

I'm sorry- but you are mistaken.

I lived with a man for three years and not once did he do anything sexually with my penis. Today he is married to a real woman. Our relationship was unique- but he was evolved enough to accept me for me at the time.

At the time I was comfortable with that and happy- I have alos bee in rlationships when it was the oposite.

Honda, I think some of your opinions are a bit off. A girl who wants SRS REALLy will have it. There are complications and drawbacks to any surgery. Modern SRS performed by a good surgeon can have very favorable results.

I'm not angry because of what I am or who I am- nor am I angry at a man who likes me for what I am. But I would not date a man on a personal level who cared if i had a penis or a vagina. Sorry- that is just me.

i'd much rather be alone than be with someone for the sake of JUST being with someone.

[dj4monie]

There's some truth to both statements made here.

Unlike most here, I'm about GG's first and TS' a very DISTANT second.

I like self-lubbing, baby makin punani because I want children, not adopted (maybe later) but my own blood children and sorry that shhh ain't overrated.


TS are a pain in the butt, not unlike most American Woman who's BAD traits TS's usually pick up in the process of becoming a full-time woman. In otherwords, men are dogs, bow-wow. That nonsense is played the fug out ladies.

Look, were men, we like sex, we like to fug, its NORMAL, get used to it.

Ms Starr -

Just because one outstanding human being was able to treat you as a woman and not touch your dick, he's one in the million and you should have done EVERYTHING you could to keep him around. Obviously you weren't able to do that, so here you are bitter. Not horribly bitter because you hardly every resort to male bashing, but none the less bitter because your haven't been able to find another man like him.

My suggestion is to remain single for the rest of your life because I doubt you'll find another person like him, at least not until you give up your career and live a "normal" life where your not appearing on Mr. Povich's show every so often.

TS are worst than frustrated career women....

At least they still want a relationship, they just don't know how to relax around men yet and by the time they do they'll be in their 40's and nobody will want to date them by then.

For GG's there are very few good men and even FEWER good women, for TS, there hardly any good men and alot of tranny chasers that would make for solid life long companionship if TS weren't so short-sighted.

Oh well, I'm not loosing any sleep over it that's for sure...

[DJ_Asia]

I think some girls are overly obsessed with the fact that they are women that have a cock.

I have dated many GG,in fact was married to GG,and never once did I ever hear a GG say to me that I was overly obsessed with her vagina...not once.I did everything imaginable w/ a vagina and was never once called a "pussy monger" or any facsmilile to the GG version of a "tranny chaser".

When two people are intimate to me it is about pleasing each other,nothing more ,nothing less.If I was with a TG that didnt want her cock touched,I would find it odd,talk about it,and if it was very important to her then her cock would become a non-issue.But c'mon really now if my girl likes to have her cock pleased as much as I do,I'm down and anybody that would call me "cock crazy" is simply being hyper critical and looking for a reason to bitch.

The primary difference between GG and TG is the genitalia,and for many men its a new and kinky experience to be with a TS,but for me vagina or cock,im about pleasing the girl,whatever that may entail..top,bottom,switch,oral.....whatever,and if that makes me a tranny chaser than sobeit.....im not changing cuz a few folks think that if a man wants to please his girl he is cock obsessed.

DJ Asia

[BeardedOne]

i'd much rather be alone than be with someone for the sake of JUST being with someone.

I can relate to this. It's why I am surrounded by cats (One inside and countless strays on the porch). They provide companionship and love me for who I am (The fuzzy guy with the food). Hell, I accidentally stepped on one the other day and after limping about for a bit she still got in my lap and licked my nose.

Try doing that with a woman.

The 'perfect' mate doesn't exist. The divorce rate and endless train wrecks of relationships (And worse, the number of women in shelters and protective custody) atest to that. I thought my last one was =the= one, instead she was the =last= one.

Allanah, I've seen you write of your man before. A truly rare breed and I hope you find his like again. May I ask where/how you met? I'm guessing that he wasn't your typical HA 'fanboy'.

[hondarobot]

I don't think Allanah is bitter, just realistic. She doesn't want a guy who is interested in a certain part of her, and she has every right to feel that way.

If anyone is bitter, it's us guys who are interested in TS girls, and happen to find "the T" a nice addition. No TS girls I've ever known really like that in a guy.

It is a very interesting group dynamic, though. Dysfunctional from both male and female perspectives on some levels, but it is reality.

Relationships, really, are over-rated anyways. I heard someone say once that a relationship was just finding someone to use as a crying towel and fuck machine. That may be more accurate then most people want to believe.