Question For The Ladies On Dating Certain Types Of Guys

[RangeHova]

OK, a friend and I were talking about dating TS women and what we get from it. Niether of us in involved at the moment with but he had a 6 year relationship with a friend of my ex who I was with for 5 years.

We both talked about how when it came to TS women, we both tended to pace ourselves. Being around the scene (both of our exes are fulltime performers and pageant queens) you learn just how bad the girls view the guys that go from girl to girl to girl.

But both of us had contemplated only dating TS women. Not to so much that we were looking for all the tranny sex that we could get but just as a means to finding that Mrs. Right. Think about it, no matter how many pretty girls you find it is still just as much of a crap shoot for the guys as it is for the girls. Like they say, you gotta kiss a lot of frogs.

My question, is how would you view a respectable guy (who is not extra hot to get in your panties, not dick crazy, not dating this 3, 4, or 5 girls at a time) that only dated TS women? Would he be thrown in that chaser box? How could you handle if this ‘good guy’ had been with a girl (or 2, what about 3)?

I’m not asking would you casually date him, sleep w/ him, or what not. I’m asking could you see yourself in a serious, committed long term relationship?

[GrimFusion]

OK, a friend and I were talking about dating TS women and what we get from it. Niether of us in involved at the moment ...BLAH, BLAH, BLAH... you see yourself in a serious, committed long term relationship?

I really doubt you're going to get a uniform answer from this post, as each chick is obviously going to have a different opinion, and when you factor in the enherent selfishness and shallowness of human nature, it really boils down to what he looks like first.

If you really think about it, you don't go walking down the street talking to everyone you pass by. You search them out based on physical attributes, then find out if her personality sucks later. Anyone who says personality before looks is full of shit. It's all about sex appeal first and foremost.

[dabaldone]

Very good question! I too have been in a LTR with a TS. Come on ladies, enlighten us with your wisdom.

[RangeHova]

I feel what you are sayin Grim, I was just lookin for a general feeling from the different girls on the board.

I'm sure it's all relative to all kinds of things. I've seen how a guy dating the wrong girl will make others run from him like he's a huricane and I've seen how the right girl can make T-women flock to him just because of the girl .

Because I dated my ex, who I guess has some kind of TS status in the community, and as soon as her name is dropped (never by me, that is tacky) I've seen girls seek me out w/o even seeing me first. Just to say 'I was with so and so's ex husband'. The showgirl/pageant scene is something else.

I don't really understand why who you used to date would make you wanna date or fuck somebody but I don't mind the results.

[reelgurl]

Who you used to date is kind of important because it reflects your tastes. Gurls don't like exes that are too trashy, but not too threatening either. You'd better keep them all in the same league. Consistency is important.

[AllanahStarrNYC]

i guess that it really all depends on the person.

how genuine a person is and their character is shown through time.

you have no idea how many times i have heard guys say-oh im looking for this, and this, and this and it was all just a bunch of lies.

i guess i am pretty weary and skeptical of most men- at least their intentions. i do give everyone the benefit of the doubt-and have been known to be wrong, but it is my experience that i was only involved in one relationship in my life where i knew the persob loved me and wanted me, not because i was a tranny, but he loved me for me. we lived together for two years and he had no absolute interest in my penis. which was cool- it did not bother me because i was sexually fulfilled in many other ways.

at this point in my life though i dont really have room for a relationship or dating. it takes a very understanding person to want to really pursue a relationship with me- not because of how i am- but because of my career, schedule, etc.

relationships do take a lot of time and effort- and right now i do not have the energy to spare to be in one. so i work on myself and my life.

if the right man came a long then yes i would be open to it.

i don't label anyone as a tranny chaser , or a mess, until they prove it to me. i have gone out with guys who dated a lot of other girls- and those experiences usually ended badly because they were just really hungry for the next tranny.

but like i said, i am an open minded woman. i definately can't date a man who is dick hungry- because there are many times when i am having sex that i am not really interested in using my penis. that feeling comes and gos. i will tell you this- whatever man i end up with me will have to love me for me and not because i am 'allanah starr', or have a cock, or what have u- it's because of the person i am and not what i have in between my legs.

[RangeHova]

I guess it is a catch 22.

yeah, I love TS women. But not BECAUSE of the dick. I appreaciate it but when I dated a post op girl I didn't miss it. She still gave me that thing that I get from TS women (that added attention to detail, a little glamour every now and then, style, romance, and appreaciation of a good guy).

No offense to the board, but I think 90% of the guys who like TS women are about dick dick and more dick. So I can understand why a TS woman would be leary of a guy who was so into TS women.

It's come back to bite me when I dated a girl (who wanted some head) when i gave it to her and did it the way it should have been done. After that she just knew I was dick hungry and became leery of me when all i was doing was giving her what she wanted.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

i guess that it really all depends on the person.

how genuine a person is and their character is shown through time.

you have no idea how many times i have heard guys say-oh im looking for this, and this, and this and it was all just a bunch of lies.

i guess i am pretty weary and skeptical of most men- at least their intentions. i do give everyone the benefit of the doubt-and have been known to be wrong, but it is my experience that i was only involved in one relationship in my life where i knew the persob loved me and wanted me, not because i was a tranny, but he loved me for me. we lived together for two years and he had no absolute interest in my penis. which was cool- it did not bother me because i was sexually fulfilled in many other ways.

at this point in my life though i dont really have room for a relationship or dating. it takes a very understanding person to want to really pursue a relationship with me- not because of how i am- but because of my career, schedule, etc.

relationships do take a lot of time and effort- and right now i do not have the energy to spare to be in one. so i work on myself and my life.

if the right man came a long then yes i would be open to it.

i don't label anyone as a tranny chaser , or a mess, until they prove it to me. i have gone out with guys who dated a lot of other girls- and those experiences usually ended badly because they were just really hungry for the next tranny.

but like i said, i am an open minded woman. i definately can't date a man who is dick hungry- because there are many times when i am having sex that i am not really interested in using my penis. that feeling comes and gos. i will tell you this- whatever man i end up with me will have to love me for me and not because i am 'allanah starr', or have a cock, or what have u- it's because of the person i am and not what i have in between my legs.

Co-sign! Well said Allanah.

P.S. Love the new avatar!

~Kisses.

HTG

[DJ_Asia]

i guess that it really all depends on the person.

how genuine a person is and their character is shown through time.

you have no idea how many times i have heard guys say-oh im looking for this, and this, and this and it was all just a bunch of lies.

i guess i am pretty weary and skeptical of most men- at least their intentions. i do give everyone the benefit of the doubt-and have been known to be wrong, but it is my experience that i was only involved in one relationship in my life where i knew the persob loved me and wanted me, not because i was a tranny, but he loved me for me. we lived together for two years and he had no absolute interest in my penis. which was cool- it did not bother me because i was sexually fulfilled in many other ways.

at this point in my life though i dont really have room for a relationship or dating. it takes a very understanding person to want to really pursue a relationship with me- not because of how i am- but because of my career, schedule, etc.

relationships do take a lot of time and effort- and right now i do not have the energy to spare to be in one. so i work on myself and my life.

if the right man came a long then yes i would be open to it.

i don't label anyone as a tranny chaser , or a mess, until they prove it to me. i have gone out with guys who dated a lot of other girls- and those experiences usually ended badly because they were just really hungry for the next tranny.

but like i said, i am an open minded woman. i definately can't date a man who is dick hungry- because there are many times when i am having sex that i am not really interested in using my penis. that feeling comes and gos. i will tell you this- whatever man i end up with me will have to love me for me and not because i am 'allanah starr', or have a cock, or what have u- it's because of the person i am and not what i have in between my legs.

Many rumours floating around the internet regarding Camilla de Castro,some not so flattering.The first reason that came to the surface after she passed away was that she was depressed and ultimately took her own life because she was unable to find a man to lover her for her,and not because she was Camilla the famous porn queen. Regardless of the reasons(s) im sure that finding true love for a girl in the industry is hard.

I have dated many girls,both here in Thailand,Brasil and in America,many of which were escorts and/or film stars.Its a tough life for the girl,and a tough relationship to be in from a mans perspective as well.

Being involved in this industry from behind the camera as I usually am,also has cost me dearly.Many a girl I've met once they find out who I am and what I do for a living,suddenly adopt many prejudices about me as a person,many of which simply arent true.I've also met girls who are site owner groupies too...bouncing from one site owner to the next...figure that one out!

I would venture to guess that I've been with more girls than most guys here on this board.Ultimately my goal is to find 1 girl who I can spend the rest of my life with,but like was mentioned before,you gotta kiss alot of frogs to find her.But like Allanah said,a person who gets involved with me needs to respect my job and career and realize that I spend alot of time with some stunning girls while they are buck ass naked...and most girls cannot handle that,anymore than most guys cant handle dating an escort of porn star.

DJ Asia

[cheribaum]

i guess that it really all depends on the person.

how genuine a person is and their character is shown through time.

you have no idea how many times i have heard guys say-oh im looking for this, and this, and this and it was all just a bunch of lies.

i guess i am pretty weary and skeptical of most men- at least their intentions. i do give everyone the benefit of the doubt-and have been known to be wrong, but it is my experience that i was only involved in one relationship in my life where i knew the persob loved me and wanted me, not because i was a tranny, but he loved me for me. we lived together for two years and he had no absolute interest in my penis. which was cool- it did not bother me because i was sexually fulfilled in many other ways.

at this point in my life though i dont really have room for a relationship or dating. it takes a very understanding person to want to really pursue a relationship with me- not because of how i am- but because of my career, schedule, etc.

relationships do take a lot of time and effort- and right now i do not have the energy to spare to be in one. so i work on myself and my life.

if the right man came a long then yes i would be open to it.

i don't label anyone as a tranny chaser , or a mess, until they prove it to me. i have gone out with guys who dated a lot of other girls- and those experiences usually ended badly because they were just really hungry for the next tranny.

but like i said, i am an open minded woman. i definately can't date a man who is dick hungry- because there are many times when i am having sex that i am not really interested in using my penis. that feeling comes and gos. i will tell you this- whatever man i end up with me will have to love me for me and not because i am 'allanah starr', or have a cock, or what have u- it's because of the person i am and not what i have in between my legs.

DITTO,yeah what she said. Maybe now guys will "get" that we arent all about our dicks