I lost my chance to be a transsexual

[Tyler___Durden]

Eh?
How can you "miss the chance of being the prettiest transsexual I possibly could".
You are either Ts or not. It's not a lifestyle choice.
You mean: "I missed the chance of being the prettiest CD/TV, I possibly could". coz that's exactly how your posts read.

I hope that clarifies your thoughts for you.

[lisaparadise]

Of course I am not a transsexual! I never claimed I was. I just am saying that I feel I missed my chance of being the prettiest transsexual I possibly could. For me my being beautiful is important. Why? It's just human nature. Many guys with to have more muscles; wish to be handsome and attract girls better. Many girls wish they had better tits. It's human nature to want to please the other. I have no problem with dressing up for sex. Why should I if me and my partner find it excites us better.

honey we are all vein in nature,ive never known a tgirl who doesnt see flaws in themselves,beautty doesnt make you more trans it just makes you more beautifull but thats not what being trans is all about so let me fill you in,being trans is all about peace and tranquilitty its about love and understanding of ones soul,its about strength dignity and self beleaf and most of all its about standing you ground and knowing you belong just as much the next person.for two decades i had felt i lost my chance i put everyone i know family and friends ahead of me,i couldnt be selfish its never been in me i made everyone around me happy being funny well just being me so i waited and waited till the right time and i realized that there never is a right time so i made calls to the right people mainly Dr.Tam and we planned out a sked that fit.and now after a decade of transitioning i still dont pass but thats ok cause that wasnt high on my objectives but i achieved my number one goal and that was to fit in never change my personality and to stay true to who i was and who i am afterall my only main objective was to change the shell and ive done that very very well.

[yodajazz]

Here is a person who transitioned in their late 40's, and says it's only been about two years into it. Each person is different. But I have heard other stories, where the person was able to accumulate money to make their transistion easier. Also, as a person ages, they produce less male hormones. So then they have less of them to fight off the effects of female ones,

[deuxglass]

looking at your photo I would say that you pass very well! Thanks for the good advice. It is very much appreciated. maybe it is just a question of courage to take they step and do it. maybe I should stop dreaming of it and act.

[deuxglass]

honey we are all vein in nature,ive never known a tgirl who doesnt see flaws in themselves,beautty doesnt make you more trans it just makes you more beautifull but thats not what being trans is all about so let me fill you in,being trans is all about peace and tranquilitty its about love and understanding of ones soul,its about strength dignity and self beleaf and most of all its about standing you ground and knowing you belong just as much the next person.for two decades i had felt i lost my chance i put everyone i know family and friends ahead of me,i couldnt be selfish its never been in me i made everyone around me happy being funny well just being me so i waited and waited till the right time and i realized that there never is a right time so i made calls to the right people mainly Dr.Tam and we planned out a sked that fit.and now after a decade of transitioning i still dont pass but thats ok cause that wasnt high on my objectives but i achieved my number one goal and that was to fit in never change my personality and to stay true to who i was and who i am afterall my only main objective was to change the shell and ive done that very very well.

looking at your photo I would say that you pass very well! Thanks for the good advice. It is very much appreciated. maybe it is just a question of courage to take they step and do it. maybe I should stop dreaming of it and act

[deuxglass]

Here is a person who transitioned in their late 40's, and says it's only been about two years into it. Each person is different. But I have heard other stories, where the person was able to accumulate money to make their transistion easier. Also, as a person ages, they produce less male hormones. So then they have less of them to fight off the effects of female ones,

She is exactly how I want to be!

[deuxglass]

Eh?
How can you "miss the chance of being the prettiest transsexual I possibly could".
You are either Ts or not. It's not a lifestyle choice.
You mean: "I missed the chance of being the prettiest CD/TV, I possibly could". coz that's exactly how your posts read.

I hope that clarifies your thoughts for you.

You have a good point there. You mean that I could stay a pretty TV and just be happy with that? I could but frankly I want boobs! So I must transition to have them .

[msbhaven]

honey we are all vein in nature,ive never known a tgirl who doesnt see flaws in themselves,beautty doesnt make you more trans it just makes you more beautifull but thats not what being trans is all about so let me fill you in,being trans is all about peace and tranquilitty its about love and understanding of ones soul,its about strength dignity and self beleaf and most of all its about standing you ground and knowing you belong just as much the next person.for two decades i had felt i lost my chance i put everyone i know family and friends ahead of me,i couldnt be selfish its never been in me i made everyone around me happy being funny well just being me so i waited and waited till the right time and i realized that there never is a right time so i made calls to the right people mainly Dr.Tam and we planned out a sked that fit.and now after a decade of transitioning i still dont pass but thats ok cause that wasnt high on my objectives but i achieved my number one goal and that was to fit in never change my personality and to stay true to who i was and who i am afterall my only main objective was to change the shell and ive done that very very well.

Very well put and I agree with just about everything said here. I would like to point one thing out as well, and maybe this is just semantics or splitting hairs but to me it's important. People don't "become" transsexual they are born that way. I think what the OP meant to say is that they missed their chance to start transition young. Well so did I, so did Lisa, so did my GF and so did a lot of other girls. But it didn't stop us from taking the steps we needed to take to be who we are and IF the OP really is transsexual it shouldn't stop them either. Yes it was hard, yes a lot of us sacrificed everything or nearly everything, but some sacrifices are worth making to be true to yourself. If the OP isn't transsexual then I'm kinda scratching my head wondering what it is they think they've missed.

Ashlee

[msbhaven]

You have a good point there. You mean that I could stay a pretty TV and just be happy with that? I could but frankly I want boobs! So I must transition to have them .

Uh what? You can get the best boob job on the planet and that doesn't mean you are transitioning. There is a lot more to transitioning then a boob job, or facial hair removal, or a new wardrobe. This isn't a costume you put on and take off, it is an entire life you are moving from one gender role to another. At this point I'm going to recommend you seek help from a gender psychologist to help you figure out exactly where you are on the gender spectrum because I'm not really sure you know yourself.

Ashlee

[bluesoul]

I grew up in a small town where transsexual was not even heard of. I have always been bisexual, a bottom, small, slim and good-looking so I believe I would have made a decent transsexual if I had had the chance. I also do dress as a girl when I get fucked. It was all there. However the time passed and now I too old to "pass". When I look at shemale porn I see myself as the transsexual sucking and getting fucked. Its my biggest regret of my life.
O any of you have the same feeling as I do? And the girls here; do you see men who "missed" it?

i'm not a tranny, but i can assure you, that you're not late. post a nude picture of yourself here, then designate yourself a female name. not only will people treat you as a woman, but they will be scorned for even suggesting otherwise.

just don't mention this thread prior to posting as such.