I lost my chance to be a transsexual

[deuxglass]

I grew up in a small town where transsexual was not even heard of. I have always been bisexual, a bottom, small, slim and good-looking so I believe I would have made a decent transsexual if I had had the chance. I also do dress as a girl when I get fucked. It was all there. However the time passed and now I too old to "pass". When I look at shemale porn I see myself as the transsexual sucking and getting fucked. Its my biggest regret of my life.
O any of you have the same feeling as I do? And the girls here; do you see men who "missed" it?

[TatianaSummer]

I know other people with same situation as you. Sometimes things happen for a reason. I always try to convince girls to start early for that reason, I started a bit late but just in time to be able to make it and I am very happy of the people that help me and advice me to transition.

[deuxglass]

Thanks for your kind answer. I do imagine that many men have the same problem. When its in you there is not much one can do. For those who are like me but at the right age, I would say go for it!

[TatianaSummer]

Thanks for your kind answer. I do imagine that many men have the same problem. When its in you there is not much one can do. For those who are like me but at the right age, I would say go for it!

Anytime girl!

[Prospero]

deuxglass.... missed your chance is an odd way to put it. Surely you "are' a trasexual or not. it's a question of whether you realise that in a public and visible way. I met a middle aged TS in Scotland once who came from a very small village. She had been a merchant seaman and was very very masculine looking. Also married. And yet she also knew she was a woman inside and so transitioned in her mid fifties. Remained with the wife and lived in considerable discomfort socially in her small community on a Scottish island. We went to the village pub with her and they thew us all out for "bringing that pervert in here." So it is a challenge.

[deuxglass]

you make a good point. But for me I prefer being passable in public as much as possible. when I dress up for sex men get very excited and say I look very good but I cannot deny that age is catching up now. o go for transitioning now would be just too late. Everyone is different but my perception of myself is not that way.

[alizia]

I'm 37 years old, I think I am too old for starting transition altough I looks younger, but always the decision is very personal.

[LibertyHarkness]

37 is not to old at all .... get on those hormones age just slows down the process that is all ....with surgery today so many things are possible ..

if your 37 and a very slim,femme framed person to start with then there is no reason ...

hell in the uk we have people in their 60s transitioning.

[BellaBellucci]

People, PLEASE stop transitioning after 30. If you couldn't handle transition when you were still young enough for pleasing results, then it's going to be exponentially harder later in life, and frankly I'm tired of 50 year old CDs taking 2/mg estradiol a day and calling themselves women, not even transsexuals, but 'women!' They're not, believe me.

And considering that teenagers are starting to transition, allowing them to blend better socially over the long run, you'll just stick out even that much more as older transitioners become fewer and fewer in number.

Do what you want, but nothing beats youth, time, and a whole lotta planning.

~BB~

[alizia]

37 is not to old at all .... get on those hormones age just slows down the process that is all ....with surgery today so many things are possible ..

if your 37 and a very slim,femme framed person to start with then there is no reason ...

hell in the uk we have people in their 60s transitioning.

Thanks a lot Liby, but I think it is harder at certain age, I really admire those 60's transitioning, but actually I've lost the best part of it

It could be a really exciting life being a shemale in my 20's and 30's, now I see the things differently, although sometimes I really want to change & my gf encourages me to take the step.

so... as I said is a very personal decission, who knows.. maybe in a couple of year I am being photographed in one aduld magazine XD (.. dreams...)

P.D. excuse my bad english. And a big hug for those girls that have the courage to take the step.