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[northshorenostrings]

Well here goes. Ive been into transexuals for years. Have jerked off to them since i was a late teen. I live in boston and the pickings are slim. Ive been out to a few places to meet one but have found no luck. So appearantly i have to find an escort. For the first time in my life i have to pay for it. Which i will gladly do because the thought of being with a special girl is killing me. I cant wait any longer. I have a few questions for the not so new users. I want this to be just like being with a gg. I want to kiss and make out..i love foreplay so since i usually go down on ggs i should do the same here...do escorts let you do that? Ive never done it before but i am really looking forward to it..also is there anything i should/shouldnt do to make this more personal than just a business transaction? Does anybody know of any providers tht fit my description Thanks in boston

[luvblack77]

I am what you would consider an old man, and through the years and in my travels around the world I had the chance to meet a number of both gg and ts escorts. I have also dated gg and ts ladies and had stable relationships. This is a long response and I hope it helps you, and also keeps you from hurting the feelings of a human being who deserves better.

First let us talk about escorts. In general, the situation is the same whether you are dealing with a gg escort or a ts escort. The difference between a good escort experience and a bad one is that a good escort will make you feel special, and at the end of the evening you will feel like you had a wonderful date. They call this GFE (girlfriend experience). A good escort will find out beforehand what you really want to experience and make sure you are satisfied. She would want you as a repeat customer, and probably makes a living by seeing a few loyal customers regularly.

A bad escort will basically take your money and run as fast as she can, making you feel stupid, used, frustrated and like you just wasted your money. They make a living by seeing many customers once. Unfortunately the proportion of bad escorts to good escorts is quite high. If you just pick at random, most likely 9 out of 10 escorts will disappoint you.

If you believe on internet technology... you can try some web sites that provide reviews of escorts, like "The Erotic Review". At least you can read about other people's experiences before you decide, and you will be warned about the really bad ones (yes, some will just rob you or advertise with phony pictures). Reading reviews will improve your chances to maybe 50-50.

In Boston you can also go to a bar like Jacques and look around, even invite the girls you like a drink and take your time to talk to them. This more personal touch would allow you to talk to the girls and get a feeling for the person. You can also tell them what you want and see their reaction. If you are a good psychologist, this may also increase your chances of success to 50-50. Of course, the girl may appear wonderful while she is selling the service to you and then treat you like shit once she has your money, but that happens all the time and not just with escorts, just look how many marriages fail during the first year!

If you want to date a ts lady and cannot find what you are looking for in Boston, perhaps you can expand your horizons and visit NYC or Philadelphia. However, if you want to date a lady please be aware that she is a human being and not a freak. Dating a ts lady requires the same honesty, commitment and respect that you would normally grant a genetic woman without a second thought. Indeed if all you want is to satisfy a sexual fantasy, you are much better of with an escort. Ts ladies have a very difficult life and they certainly should not be used by men who do not care about their needs and feelings. I would say, if you are ashamed of taking a ts girlfriend home to meet your parents... stick with escorts.

[south ov da border]

great response