Will bottoming always hurt?

[Lovecox]

Okay. I bottomed for a beautiful TS (strictly for pleasure, not pay-to-play)and I had to ask her to stop. Ow! It felt like a baseball bat going up my wazoo. Ow, ow, ow! She's a goddess and I want to see her again. I want to be a good sport and a good lay for her. I bought a dildo to "practice" and I feel a little silly. Will I just get used to the pain? Will the "pain" start to feel like pleasure? Should I take up knitting? Help.

[GrimFusion]

Knitting is a great idea.
You know they make buttplug sets that train you into taking dick, right?
A dildo isn't going to help much if it's already too big. Start small and work your way up.

You could just be one of those weirdos like me that can't get over the pain barrier. I had an ex-girlfriend that tried talking me into some dom/sub anal play, and I tried training into it because I knew she enjoyed it, but it didn't work. Weeks into it, I still couldn't deal with her finger up my ass. Everybody's different. Do what works for you, dude.

[Jericho]

Knitting is a great idea.
You know they make buttplug sets that train you into taking dick, right?

But don't try knitting a buttplug!

[Mayrah]

Yep, buttplugs!

[jimbo1974]

Should I take up knitting?

I wouldnt recommend sticking knitting needles up your arse.

Thats just silly

[LibertyHarkness]

being bummed isnt for everyone ...taking a good fucking is 99% about being mentally relaxed and comfortable with the person ....

I mean i can fist myself easily when i am relaxed, if i am pennsive its tighter than a mouses earhole


So lots of lube, lube lube, be relaxed and youi really want to have sex in your head this way ...... soem toys will help loosen up abit ... but that still wont negate the feeling of being fucked .. for some people they just dont like it ..

[Prospero]

I'd say it is also down the girl as well. A really skilled girl can get you relaxed and fuck you very enjoyably. A brutal one will hurt you however experienced you are. But it really isn't for everyone.

[jimbo1974]

I just want to point out, perhaps somewhat controversially, that not liking getting bummed doesnt make you a bad person

*becomes a pariah*

[Adore]

being bummed isnt for everyone ...taking a good fucking is 99% about being mentally relaxed and comfortable with the person ....

I mean i can fist myself easily when i am relaxed, if i am pennsive its tighter than a mouses earhole


So lots of lube, lube lube, be relaxed and youi really want to have sex in your head this way ...... soem toys will help loosen up abit ... but that still wont negate the feeling of being fucked .. for some people they just dont like it ..

Best Anal Sex advice I have read in a long time.

Relaxing, Lube and the right Partner(Size also) does go along way to making great Butt Sex.

[jamesedwards]

okay. I bottomed for a beautiful ts (strictly for pleasure, not pay-to-play)and i had to ask her to stop. Ow! It felt like a baseball bat going up my wazoo. Ow, ow, ow! She's a goddess and i want to see her again. I want to be a good sport and a good lay for her. I bought a dildo to "practice" and i feel a little silly. Will i just get used to the pain? Will the "pain" start to feel like pleasure? Should i take up knitting? Help.

lots of lube for you!!!! Use it!!!