Can tgirls really find true love?

[theoryman]

Keep looking. Maybe change the where you look. Finding the right one is all about luck.

There are some of us out here who want a TS as a wife or SO or girlfriend and are willing to do what it takes to find her... I did.

But, I know it took me years to admit to myself what I wanted and to decide I did not give a damn what anyone else thought about it... Lots of guys think that they have made that decision, but when the time comes they suddenly can't deal.

[stefslut70]

hi jessica,

its sad to hear you have never found love. you are so sweet, i am here to hold you, hug you and stay with you

[Richctdude]

yes you can!!

[yosi]

i dont trust any guy

im sure there are honest men out here but i havent found him yet

im a verse tgirl so i have alot to offer

you can't find true love if you don't trust anyone , as simple as that.

will you be willing to start relations with someone who declares : I don't trust any transexual?

[yosi]

I'm talking about human nature and what I've seen. The most beautiful transsexuals are often never in a good LTR

is it possible that it happens because of the "I don't want to join a club that's willing to accept members like me" syndrom?

[noble1337]

some people never find the right person.
if a person thinks they never find love because of their gender, then they are wrong.
but it is correct to think that its much more difficult for transgender people

[Nicole Dupre]

is it possible that it happens because of the "I don't want to join a club that's willing to accept members like me" syndrom?

It's not because the transsexuals don't have a desire to be in a good LTR or because they don't date. I was talking about transsexuals who aren't even sex workers btw; even they often have major difficulties finding solid LTRs from what I've seen.

Keep something in mind, yosi. Any girl can date. Any girl can find a BF if she'll lower her expectations and give a horny man sex on a regular basis. Men don't have that option; not like women do. And guys who want to date sex workers are even easier to find and waste your time with.

I'm not sure what "club" you mean. I no longer escort and I will no longer do porn. But it's true. When I was a sex worker, I wouldn't seek a guy who would want an escort or adult entertainer as a GF. I only date down-to-earth guys. I won't deal with guys who are halfway living in a porn fantasy world and who think they hit the jackpot because I'd be with them.

You know who makes me laugh? The guys who live far away but somehow think they have any potential to start dating me. If you can't be in my life on a daily basis, what the hell kind of BF do you think you'd make? And why would I trust a guy I couldn't see every day to be faithful? lol

When I date a guy, it's closeness I seek. I want to fuck EVERY DAY. I want to be in his company EVERY DAY. I want to share a meal and a good conversation in-person EVERY DAY. The guys who want to drive 5 hours away to buy me dinner one night are just a bit too sad to be taken seriously. And then they want to know why we want guys with money? lol If you want me and you don't live close, you'd better have money for traveling EVERY DAY or be able to support me and make it so I can be with you. But men are day dreamers about these things. They think being a nice guy is enough, but it's not. Being a nice guy is simply being in the ball park. It doesn't mean you get to play or you win the trophy. lol

[KittyPride]

every day??? I would loose my mind lol
You sound a little controlling and obsessive Nicole lol

[bat1]

interesting trend..

[ts-sasha]

In my daily life when im not shopping etc guys always thinking im a porn star or some cheap slut that would suck thme off in back of a empty building or such no respect, its always something sexual out a guys mouth whatever happened to "hi my name is ----- would you like to go out and get to know each other"

I don't mean to be rude, but I just seen your genitals on the first post I looked at. Men tend to (not always) treat women 1) depending on how she behaves and 2) in a way they can get away with. For example, if I act/sounds like a slut, then I'm going to be a slut. If I act/seem/am "easy" with him, then I must be "easy" in general.
Men generalise how you act with them, and assume you act like that with every other guy. Clearly that isn't the case though.

Now personally, I have been in love, in fact I still love him and I always will. It just didn't work out, non-trans related.
I tend to get a LOT of guys interested, and generally my rule of thumb is if he doesn't want to be in public with me then he isn't going to be in bed with me.
I don't think it helps to "look" for love, true everlasting love should take you by surprise!

Edit: I don't think its impossible for a tgirl to find love, she can be pre/post, straight/bi/lesbian, versatile/top/bottom. I don't think that matters really. As long as the tgirl has successfully transitioned I'm not sure what other problems there would be other than the general issues all girls face with finding someone compatible.
(and by successfully transitioned I don't mean start treatment/surgery, I mean accept who they are and their body).