Can tgirls really find true love?

[Nicole Dupre]

??????????? Hmmmm, different strokes for different folks.

What "strokes"? I'm talking about human nature and what I've seen. The most beautiful transsexuals are often never in a good LTR; not like the ones married GGs sometimes have that last decades, "til death do they part". That's what I've noticed. It has nothing to do with what people prefer, which is what "strokes" would imply. It's human nature to seek love.

If you're a TS and you have one, god bless you, sister. But if you're one of these grandiose guys who thinks he has some special love to share, what the hell are you doing on a porn forum?

[bluesoul]

Quit trying to drum up drama, dude.

if i kiss her ass, and you do the same, which one of us both do you think she'd choose?

[lifeisfiction]

What "strokes"? I'm talking about human nature and what I've seen. The most beautiful transsexuals are often never in a good LTR; not like the ones married GGs sometimes have that last decades, "til death do they part". That's what I've noticed. It has nothing to do with what people prefer, which is what "strokes" would imply. It's human nature to seek love.

If you're a TS and you have one, god bless you, sister. But if you're one of these grandiose guys who thinks he has some special love to share, what the hell are you doing on a porn forum?

I am on porn forum because I like porn. Whenever someone says it can't happen doesn't mean it doesn't happen. You stated kids as being a main reason why a man wants to stay with a gg. I have friend whose wife was barren. He knew that before they got married and he is happily married with a beautiful child that they both adopted.

When you have a series of bad relationships, you have to evaluate the type of guy your dating. Are all men liars. Nope are the majority of them, nope. Would you even think of dating those men, probably not. Why, looks, personality and just plain certain things you value in a man.

A female friend of mine couldn't figure out she kept having bad relationships. She kept dating the same kind of guy hoping that when they wanted a relationship they would make the effort. Of course it ended the same way, really poorly. If you see things negatively, it will impact the way you approach things.

I don't know you and you don't know me. Is it possible to find a good long relationship, yes. Its it easy, no. Can it happen to you Nicole, only when you think it can until then you have convinced yourself it will never happen. There men who see woman as sex objects. Rule of life, what can't be done today will be even more possible tomorrow.

[GrimFusion]

if i kiss her ass, and you do the same, which one of us both do you think she'd choose?

That's a waste of time. If you aren't illiterate or lazy, jessicamoore already said she wouldn't consider any of the dude's around a place like this. I'm not trying to change her mind. You are, so I don't know where you're getting all this ass-kissery from.

[bluesoul]

That's a waste of time. If you aren't illiterate or lazy, jessicamoore already said she wouldn't consider any of the dude's around a place like this. I'm not trying to change her mind. You are, so I don't know where you're getting all this ass-kissery from.

yeah but unlike her, i haven't posted my picture here. have you? we still have our shots- just don't mention you even know this place exists and deny you've even given a second thought to dating transsexuals.

[GrimFusion]

yeah but unlike her, i haven't posted my picture here. have you? we still have our shots- just don't mention you even know this place exists and deny you've even given a second thought to dating transsexuals.

I'm going to need a few shots before I get into any kind of real discussion with you because I already know it's not going anywhere. That douche in my avatar is me, and yeah... I have posted my pic around here. I'm not playing like I wouldn't be interested. I'm just not in the business of wasting my own time hitting on chicks who come right out and say there's no chance.

[buttslinger]

Curl up with a little Franz Kafka and don't worry about it.

[red-cyberman]

Hi Jessica I agree with most of what you said. The thing is it's not about tgirls only. It's a main thing that people may or may not find true love. I know it's more difficult for tgirls.
I've never dated a tgirl so I wouldn't probably understand and I know it's more complicated than a man with GG relationship.
You seem like a nice person and I hope you may one day find your true love your other half.

[Nicole Dupre]

I am on porn forum because I like porn. Whenever someone says it can't happen doesn't mean it doesn't happen. You stated kids as being a main reason why a man wants to stay with a gg. I have friend whose wife was barren. He knew that before they got married and he is happily married with a beautiful child that they both adopted.

When you have a series of bad relationships, you have to evaluate the type of guy your dating. Are all men liars. Nope are the majority of them, nope. Would you even think of dating those men, probably not. Why, looks, personality and just plain certain things you value in a man.

A female friend of mine couldn't figure out she kept having bad relationships. She kept dating the same kind of guy hoping that when they wanted a relationship they would make the effort. Of course it ended the same way, really poorly. If you see things negatively, it will impact the way you approach things.

I don't know you and you don't know me. Is it possible to find a good long relationship, yes. Its it easy, no. Can it happen to you Nicole, only when you think it can until then you have convinced yourself it will never happen. There men who see woman as sex objects. Rule of life, what can't be done today will be even more possible tomorrow.

Why are you assuming I'm "seeing things negatively"? lol I was speaking in general terms. I didn't say all men are liars or that I had a string of bad relationships. lol I said the man I loved the most, and who evidently still loves me, is not the smartest guy for me to be with. He never cheated. He was always there for me. He'd kill for me. We're just not right for one another. We didn't split because I can't give him a child. He doesn't even want a child. lol

And yes. Maybe your friend adopted and he's happy. Ok. Good for him. What I was trying to point out was that not only do men want kids but also that children often keep a relationship going and get it through the rockier times. The bond that people share as biological parents is often what it takes to give the relationship that extra something.

And sorry but your being on a porn forum raises the question of whether or not you currently have a solid LTR with a transwoman. Or maybe you've never had one. It doesn't matter. All I'm telling you is that for the most part transsexuals do not find men who are good for them and who are willing to make a long term commitment to a TS woman and grow old with them. Being on a TS porn forum isn't going to give you any particularly insightful perspective on the situation.

I'd venture to say that, not only have I been involved in more relationships with men than you've had with transsexual women but I've seen more transsexuals try to find healthy LTRs with guys that ultimately didn't work. That's what I've observed after seeing so many relationships for transsexuals not last. So you don't have to sell me on why you any other guy is so different. Maybe you are. I don't know or care. But I doubt it if you're here and not enjoying life with your girl. You just sound like some guy who wants to prove he's not like every other guy. That's fine.

Tell me how many TS women you've dated and how long was the longest relationship you've had with one.

[lifeisfiction]

Never said I was an expert. My main point is that any relationship takes a lot of work to make it work. Choosing a person who is willing to make relationship work is choosing someone beyond intial attraction. I think Megan Fox is hot, but doesn't mean we would be great because I think she is hot. Thats all. I just find the topic of find good men on this board brings up a lot of complaints. I do hope that everyone looking for one will be able to find one.

(Kids don't always help bring a couple closer, they can also destroy a marriage)