Can tgirls really find true love?

[giovanni_hotel]

More people now are deciding to live single than ever before, according to Census statistics.
I imagine it's harder for transwomen, but GGs have the exact same complaints until many have just stopped looking for true love and a LTR unless it accidentally knocks them over the head when they weren't looking.lol

IMO guys do what they can get away with. If a lady sets down rules for what she expects in a relationship, it's harder to get blindsided when the other half doesn't keep up their end of the bargain.

If a woman expects a man to be a prince in a relationship, I would hope that a woman remembers she needs to be his queen.
Some women expect everything but put no expectations on themselves about what they're supposed to bring to the table to make a relationship work.

[GrimFusion]

Im 40 and ive never really had love
and if i thought i did they lied or cheated
so my idea of love is nothing
even if a tgirl is n a relationship does it mean her man is a cheater
with women and tgirls
i dont trust any guy
im sure there are honest men out here but i havent found him yet
im a verse tgirl so i have alot to offer

I think there's a lot more that plays into the equation of repeated shitty relationships that you're probably not aware of. Some if it has more to do with you than him. If I could offer some advice, it'd be switch up the kind of dudes you'd consider dating. Don't go after a certain type. Find a different place to meet men. If you usually hit clubs, save the flirty stuff for afternoons out shopping. I know that sounds corny as hell, but you're more liable to meet more upstanding men in a grocery store or a mall than at a club.

If you escort or porn model, you're likely not going to have a "normal" relationship with any dude. Even if it's your source of income and he's living off of it, revenge usually equates to cheating. It's not impossible to work in the industry and have a successful relationship, but it's not likely either.

If a dude acts interested in a relationship just after the first or second time you two bone, that's an obvious red-flag. If he doesn't know enough about you to even know if the two of you get along, kick that fuck to the curb because the only thing he's interested in is sex on the regular. The minute you get too busy or aren't around, he's off humping somebody else.

Lastly, it's pretty common to get out of a few crappy relationships and end up imposing your trust issues on the new guy. Not only is that unfair, but eventually you'll keep dating the same type of dumb shits that inherently cheat on you just to prove yourself right and come out of it hurt, but justified. Admittedly, it's a lot easier to find guys at the same place you've been finding guys and date dudes who act or resemble guys you've already dated, but if you really want a good relationship, you should think about breaking that pattern.

[Jericho]

If a woman expects a man to be a prince in a relationship, I would hope that a woman remembers she needs to be his queen.
Some women expect everything but put no expectations on themselves about what they're supposed to bring to the table to make a relationship work.

QFT
You put that much better than i did.

[bluesoul]

In my daily life when im not shopping etc guys always thinking im a porn star or some cheap slut that would suck thme off in back of a empty building or such no respect, its always something sexual out a guys mouth whatever happened to "hi my name is ----- would you like to go out and get to know each other"

in your first post in this thread you posted 2 nude pictures of yourself which undermine your frustration of looking for love. unlike tsvanessa, i'd say start looking at within and asking some serious questions

[KittyPride]

More people now are deciding to live single than ever before, according to Census statistics.
I imagine it's harder for transwomen, but GGs have the exact same complaints until many have just stopped looking for true love and a LTR unless it accidentally knocks them over the head when they weren't looking.lol

IMO guys do what they can get away with. If a lady sets down rules for what she expects in a relationship, it's harder to get blindsided when the other half doesn't keep up their end of the bargain.

If a woman expects a man to be a prince in a relationship, I would hope that a woman remembers she needs to be his queen.
Some women expect everything but put no expectations on themselves about what they're supposed to bring to the table to make a relationship work.

Personally I think setting bounderies is exactly what makes men cheat. Its more exciting... and most men do not want to feel like a prisoner in a relationship.

[jessicamoore]

First off
just becuase i posted a nude pic has nothing to do with me being a good person in a relationship most jerks up here are just looking to get off so i wouldnt expect to find love on a site called "hungangels"

secondly i dont look for jerks they usually dont tell the truth in the beginning until the truth comes out in the end, im not perfect but i dont drink, smoke, do drugs or cheat and i ralery go out to clubs, i pay my bills so im not looking for a sugar daddy, being transexual can sometimes make it harder for guys to accept themselves being with a ts in main society, i dont date dl men and i wil not lowere myself to just date and take in bums off the street. Im sure real women have the same issues but im talking about myself every person love lif isnt the same might be similiar but not the same so like i said i dont trust men at all and im staying single until----------------------------------------------------

[Nicole Dupre]

M2F transsexuals do not generally find secure relationships with men, and almost never have solid marriages. We can't give men the things that they keep GGs around for mostly; to give them kids and to confirm their heterosexuality. And it has nothing to do with how beautiful or unclockable we are. We just ultimately can't compete with real fish. M2F TS's are "cursed", for lack of a better word. Just because we cover up the symptoms, we're still born with the handicap; the wrong plumbing. I accepted this situation as a kid. When I saw in my early teens how Tula was dumped right before her wedding, I knew right then and there how futile wanting the 'white picket fence dream' really was. It's a compromise we're forced to make but we make the best of it. But that's why the men in our lives are almost never irreplaceable. But don't get me wrong. I'm not saying that there's no love out there for us. We may love a man or two, and they may love us right back. But we can't share with them the things GGs do. Gay men accept this early on, and so do we if we're smart. I'm not bitter about it, if it sounds that way. It's just the way our lives are. Breeders don't necessarily have life so much better. I wouldn't trade places with anyone.

[KittyPride]

M2F transsexuals do not generally find secure relationships with men, and almost never have solid marriages. We can't give men the things that they keep GGs around for mostly; to give them kids and to confirm their heterosexuality. And it has nothing to do with how beautiful or unclockable we are. We just ultimately can't compete with real fish. M2F TS's are "cursed", for lack of a better word. Just because we cover up the symptoms, we're still born with the handicap; the wrong plumbing. I accepted this situation as a kid. When I saw in my early teens how Tula was dumped right before her wedding, I knew right then and there how futile wanting the 'white picket fence dream' really was. It's a compromise we're forced to make but we make the best of it. But that's why the men in our lives are almost never irreplaceable. But don't get me wrong. I'm not saying that there's no love out there for us. We may love a man or two, and they may love us right back. But we can't share with them the things GGs do. Gay men accept this early on, and so do we if we're smart. I'm not bitter about it, if it sounds that way. It's just the way our lives are. Breeders don't necessarily have life so much better. I wouldn't trade places with anyone.

And there are guys out there that do not want kids... and do not want to be tricked into having kids...not everybody is looking to be a breeder.
For those men Twoman can be great... cause we... like them... are more or less free of those ties and can decide what to do with our lives... its a freedom that comes with pain at times... but it can be a freedom also.
We arent stuck and we usually arent boring...

[jessicamoore]

Nicole i totally agree i never thought be ts was better than real women, most guys only seee tgirls as sex objects, fantasies
and the most of the guys who do date ts comes with bags, on drugs, homeless, just getting out of jail im not trying to support no dudes just to have a man in my life im happy with myself men are secondary to my life.

[bluesoul]

First off
just becuase i posted a nude pic has nothing to do with me being a good person in a relationship most jerks up here are just looking to get off so i wouldnt expect to find love on a site called "hungangels"

secondly i dont look for jerks they usually dont tell the truth in the beginning until the truth comes out in the end, im not perfect but i dont drink, smoke, do drugs or cheat and i ralery go out to clubs, i pay my bills so im not looking for a sugar daddy, being transexual can sometimes make it harder for guys to accept themselves being with a ts in main society, i dont date dl men and i wil not lowere myself to just date and take in bums off the street. Im sure real women have the same issues but im talking about myself every person love lif isnt the same might be similiar but not the same so like i said i dont trust men at all and im staying single until----------------------------------------------------

yeah that's all great to hear, except in your first post you said the guys you dated turned out to be liars- but now you're saying you won't lower yourself to take in bums of the street. also, i'm glad to hear you pay your bills. if you didn't, they shut you off and that would affect your credit.