Can tgirls really find true love?

[tomvan20000]

As a guy, I'd be open to it, but after having spent some time on a few transgender dating sites, it doesnt look good. Alot of the girls want a "straight" guy who for some reason makes an exception for her; they WILL NOT however consider a guy who knew of her status previously as he is just a cock hungry( even if hes a top) faggot

[phillyguy21]

Tgirls certainly have the same sickness as GGs in the fact that they both generally have unrealistic and illogical expectations. Both GGs and TGs build this imaginary perfect guy in their heads and feel as though they are entitled to that perfection when a) that guy doesn't exist, and b) if he did, he wouldn't want your imperfect ass.

The added layer with TGs is this bitterness against society which is projected onto the guys who pursue them. We so-called tranny chasers are the only group of people over whom they have the ability to exercise power. In addition, as posters before me have said, a lot of TGs want to bag a guy who only likes pussy. If he only likes pussy, he would be with a GG right now instead of you.

Another sickness that TSs and GGs share with each other is messing with the wrong guys. This is almost always due to superficiality. I don't want to hear this "I didn't know he was a jerk until he showed his true colors" bullshit. If a guy conducts himself like a player, it's pretty fucking obvious, but that type of guy appeals to your superficial sensibilities. That is the reason why you constantly end up in the same situation.

Don't think I am not speaking from experience. I currently have a GG girlfriend of over a year. I have dealt with & talked to various (non-working) TS girls in my city.

[Lovecox]

Can anyone?

Well put.

[danthepoetman]

The problem is most often us guys...

[Willie Escalade]

As a guy, I'd be open to it, but after having spent some time on a few transgender dating sites, it doesnt look good. Alot of the girls want a "straight" guy who for some reason makes an exception for her; they WILL NOT however consider a guy who knew of her status previously as he is just a cock hungry( even if hes a top) faggot

This. I remember Kelly was jumped on for making this exact observation.

Tgirls certainly have the same sickness as GGs in the fact that they both generally have unrealistic and illogical expectations. Both GGs and TGs build this imaginary perfect guy in their heads and feel as though they are entitled to that perfection when a) that guy doesn't exist, and b) if he did, he wouldn't want your imperfect ass.

The added layer with TGs is this bitterness against society which is projected onto the guys who pursue them. We so-called tranny chasers are the only group of people over whom they have the ability to exercise power. In addition, as posters before me have said, a lot of TGs want to bag a guy who only likes pussy. If he only likes pussy, he would be with a GG right now instead of you.

Another sickness that TSs and GGs share with each other is messing with the wrong guys. This is almost always due to superficiality. I don't want to hear this "I didn't know he was a jerk until he showed his true colors" bullshit. If a guy conducts himself like a player, it's pretty fucking obvious, but that type of guy appeals to your superficial sensibilities. That is the reason why you constantly end up in the same situation.

This too. If you keep going for the wrong guy...

Since I'm so absorbed into the community (and know lots of the girls), I'm pretty sure many of them are calling me a tranny-chaser behind my back. Eh, I'm past that point now.

I was in a "relationship" with a girl (she'd say we weren't); she backed out of it because her ex (who dumped her for being a TS in the first place) wanted to get back with her. It didn't work out; I don't know WHO she's with now (if anybody) because I decided to keep her out of my life.

There are good guys out there; the ladies have to just weed out the tossers. Same with the fellas; there are some good ladies out there as well.

[NoahNomad]

I have been in a relationship with a t-girl for two years. We've had a great relationship. She is in porn, and we haven't had any issues at all with her being a performer. I trust her, I let her do her thing, and we enjoy our relationship.

The problem with most t-girls is that they say they want certain qualities in a man but they are really just fooling themselves.

I do believe there are plenty of attractive, kind, straight or masculine bi-sexual men who can love a t-girl for who she is without fetishizing her transsexuality.

I am a straight guy, my girlfriend is a straight t-girl. There's never been any complications or confusion about it because of our level of honesty and communication.

There is a catch 22: be upfront when you meet a guy and he may be a chaser or just gay. If you wait to talk about being trans, you may have just wasted a lot of time getting to know someone who wouldn't be interested had he known.

At the end of the day, love is possible for all kinds of people...but definitely for a beautiful girl who knows what she wants. A man has to genuinely want to be in a relationship, not just be anxious to have sex with you. That part does get old if it's all you've got going on.

Many t-girls AND GG's end up dating guys that really just want to have an all-access pass to that ass. You have to learn to spot the difference by how a man treats you, what his level of comfort is with you in public and not just in private, also how he integrates you into his life.

[NoahNomad]

Tgirls certainly have the same sickness as GGs in the fact that they both generally have unrealistic and illogical expectations. Both GGs and TGs build this imaginary perfect guy in their heads and feel as though they are entitled to that perfection when a) that guy doesn't exist, and b) if he did, he wouldn't want your imperfect ass.

The added layer with TGs is this bitterness against society which is projected onto the guys who pursue them. We so-called tranny chasers are the only group of people over whom they have the ability to exercise power. In addition, as posters before me have said, a lot of TGs want to bag a guy who only likes pussy. If he only likes pussy, he would be with a GG right now instead of you.

Another sickness that TSs and GGs share with each other is messing with the wrong guys. This is almost always due to superficiality. I don't want to hear this "I didn't know he was a jerk until he showed his true colors" bullshit. If a guy conducts himself like a player, it's pretty fucking obvious, but that type of guy appeals to your superficial sensibilities. That is the reason why you constantly end up in the same situation.

Don't think I am not speaking from experience. I currently have a GG girlfriend of over a year. I have dealt with & talked to various (non-working) TS girls in my city.

The assumption that every guy who dates a pre-op transwoman has to be interested in dick...even if it's just a "tiny bit" and not exclusively "pussy", is wrong.

As a man who is only interested in women, and had never thought about dating a transwoman before meeting my girlfriend...I speak from experience when I say that when you make up in your mind that you want to be with a girl who happens to be trans, you know that everything else will work itself out. This is on a different playing field than just hooking up with a t-girl. When you put the person* first, her not having pussy is really not as scary or intimidating. It's the same as choosing to date a brunette when you've only dated blondes, or meeting a bbw that you adore when you prefer athletic women. It's different, but you recognize it is completely superficial and not necessary to fixate on if you are comfortable with you. The problem solves itself when you decide you want to actually have a real relationship.

[Willie Escalade]

The assumption that every guy who dates a pre-op transwoman has to be interested in dick...even if it's just a "tiny bit" and not exclusively "pussy", is wrong.

As a man who is only interested in women, and had never thought about dating a transwoman before meeting my girlfriend...I speak from experience when I say that when you make up in your mind that you want to be with a girl who happens to be trans, you know that everything else will work itself out. This is on a different playing field than just hooking up with a t-girl. When you put the person* first, her not having pussy is really not as scary or intimidating. It's the same as choosing to date a brunette when you've only dated blondes, or meeting a bbw that you adore when you prefer athletic women. It's different, but you recognize it is completely superficial and not necessary to fixate on if you are comfortable with you. The problem solves itself when you decide you want to actually have a real relationship.

Exactly. Many guys love the person, not just the package.

[nitron]

Hi all, Can t girls find true love?That's the question. So, what is true love?What do you mean when you say Love. Or for that matter True Love. The reason I ask, is because I think the word has different meaning to each gender. I'm pretty sure this also applies to our community as well as the straight. I think as has been stated earlier , the relationships fall apart just for the same reason's as they do for hetero couples. For example, I think the lack of children contributes to unstable relationships, who knows for sure.

[Rusty Eldora]

I think a guy, a girl, or a TS need to be involved in an area and dress for what is themselves. Trying to find a LTR at a bar has low odds unless that is the scene that is who you are. If you look like a player or slutty at the mall, people will assume that. True love also requires being true friends. It requires giving. Endlessly not trusting before the prospective partner has shown he can't be trusted. Also, do you require of the two of you to be monogamous or can there be some poly.

In a strange twist I think that escorting or seeing escorts can improve the chance of finding the right person, it at least provides test drives with a diverse group where you can find yourself and what is really wanted in a mate for you.

A successful relationship usually requires both to be comfortable with themselves, sex shouldn't be clouded with the "they just want to be fucked" attitude. If that attitude exists, something is wrong.