Why do most TS admirer/chasers wouldnt tell they had sex with a guy before?

[allurstouse]

You can't be serious. lol

That's nonsense. There is an incredible amount of technique and skill that can go into giving oral. You must be really missing out if you think everyone's the same.

And not only are some people great at it, but some people are horrible at it.

truly true. I thought teeth were always bad till a gf was barely touching me with them on the way up. I've had the pleausre of being on both end of the exercise and it is a skill and and an integral part of sex not an afterthought out of boredom and the nice thing is everyone involved knows the quality of the effort it just stands out is all yah just cant fake an erection! I think with the exception of those here only for porn there are two kinds of people lurking on this forum those that have given head and those that lie

[TatianaSummer]

Because they want girls to think they are straight, but in reality they are bisexual but ashame to admit it.

[blackshemalelove]

im a 24 yr old guy who liked/likes girls very much and lately been into ts.....but ts only......there is nothing that turns me on about a guy sexualy, nothing about his physicall

in my opinion, a ts can please a guy sexualy better than a women only bc they once were a man and to a certain level know what a man likes.....i mean i can put in my perspective, if im sucking a pussy im never really 100% if im doing it right, as i never had one and dont really know how it feel.....meanwhile for a TS, they can easily give the best bjs because they have/had a cock and know what it requires for it to be satisfied....

but still even though i like to be bottomed every now and then by a ts, i would never imagine having sex with a guy as im not attracted to men

still i cant dare to ever tell anyone about the ts fantasy (even tried only once), my family, friends or anyone, as i might be looked as gay (which for my society is WRONG)......even though I totally dont feel like gay (if i consider that im not attracted to guys but still would have sex with a pretty TS before than with a pretty girl, probably because its still a fantasy), am i gay or not?


ive read a lot of things about this, but still dont know dow to define this inbetween.

[bluesoul]

From my experience ive noticed whenever I asked a client before a session if they had sexual encounter with a guy before, they always say 'no'. They say they only have sex with girls and ts girls. You know im just having little chat and knowing him before sex lol

Then after the session having a little chat again. I asked again if they are sure not to have sex with guys before for they suck cock so good. Then suddenly they would admit they did had sexual encounters with guys before like during high school or college or few years ago.

So why is it they seem to be hiding that they had sex with guys before? Whats the big deal with it?

i'm going to guess you're an escort/sex worker. most men don't see the point of being truthful to someone in your line of work due to the connotations that come with that (legality, embarrassment etc). also, it's likely the "client" is there to have sex, not seeking legal advise, so truth isn't really an issue. as a matter of fact, your line of work requires one seek truth only in spoonfuls, and work focus more on the fantasy at hand.

if you were a lawyer, legal adviser, doctor or such, it's likely the men would be truthful from the get go. i'd chalk it down as an occupational hazard and not worry too much about it. nice attempt at a discussion though

[Prospero]

I continue to find it curious that TS girls will insist that men who enjoy their sexuality are bi-sexual. I do not claim to be straight. But I know from trying sex with men that i am certainly not bisexual. I enjoy sex with GGs and with TS girls and, occasionally, with a very convincing TV. I have genuinely plumbed the depths of my own sexual identity to see if i am attracted to men as men and I find that I really am not. I feel convinced this must be true for many other men here. There is no easy label for us (confused?) but I think bisexuality is not accurate. A bisexual - as far as I am aware - is someone who is attracted to men and women (and those in between).

[londonpirate]

I agree with Propsero (once again). I have stablished early on that i m not gay, i m just not attracted to men. I like gg and ts. The latter need to be convincing as women, not just a shaved guy with a wig. They need to have a feminine personality. Put it simply, i want a passable woman with a penis.
When i used to go see escorts, i did it to relax and have fn, not to be subject to questioning about my life and sexuality. Found those escorts that were too chatty and inquisitive a big turn off and , despite not having met her, it seems alyssa fits that bill.. I know it might sound crazy but i expect some discretion and privacy.
Keep calling your clients powerbottoms and gays, i m sure they ll come beack...not.
Find it also very ironic that ts women want to be recognised as women (and i certainly see them as such) but some call their clients gay. Well, what does that make you alyssa? Yes, a man....

I think i know who the confused one is here. In some countries, homosexuality is not accepted, gay men are seen as inherently feminine and are only accepted if they transition (see iran). I ve certainly met thai ladyboys who told me they didnt see themselves as women but that it was easier for them that way. Since you're in the business of discussing personal matters, alyssa, are you a ts or just a confused young gay man?

[allurstouse]

I continue to find it curious that TS girls will insist that men who enjoy their sexuality are bi-sexual. I do not claim to be straight. But I know from trying sex with men that i am certainly not bisexual. I enjoy sex with GGs and with TS girls and, occasionally, with a very convincing TV. I have genuinely plumbed the depths of my own sexual identity to see if i am attracted to men as men and I find that I really am not. I feel convinced this must be true for many other men here. There is no easy label for us (confused?) but I think bisexuality is not accurate. A bisexual - as far as I am aware - is someone who is attracted to men and women (and those in between).

The labels are the problem. They don't reflect the range of human sexuality. They are social labels not really accurate biological ones. Not straight is probably a far better descripitive term for anyone who has ever thought about dick than bi sexual and being heteroflexible*( i love that one) I learned a lot of straight guys are often DL closet cases and not straight. I dont mean majorities just a signifigant enough number to make me believe the "not straight" catagory is bigger than admmitted.

[allurstouse]

i'm going to guess you're an escort/sex worker. most men don't see the point of being truthful to someone in your line of work due to the connotations that come with that (legality, embarrassment etc). also, it's likely the "client" is there to have sex, not seeking legal advise, so truth isn't really an issue. as a matter of fact, your line of work requires one seek truth only in spoonfuls, and work focus more on the fantasy at hand.

if you were a lawyer, legal adviser, doctor or such, it's likely the men would be truthful from the get go. i'd chalk it down as an occupational hazard and not worry too much about it. nice attempt at a discussion though

i understand your point. i think the sad thing is people arent truthful because they are offten ashamed of themselves or worried about peer judgement. A truly crappy existence imo.

[allurstouse]

thats weird i was going to say the same thing to you...shut up and stuff a dick in it..

I just spit coffee out my nose I was laughing so hard I missed this yesterday. 8 words to completely and totally eviscerate. You have a gift. He wont get an erection for a month

[Nicole Dupre]

Men tend to lie about sex a lot to everyone, always. They lie to their families as teenagers, saying they're not having it. At the same time they lie to their friends, telling them they are having it. Then they get out of high school and lie about whether they were with prostitutes or had gay experiences. They lie about how much they even understand their own sexuality in the first place. They often date and marry women just to make sure they don't have to live with the embarrassment of not being a "man" by society's standards, and start living an even bigger lie. And in the relationship, they lie to their GFs and wives about what's going on in their minds regarding their sexual fantasies.

So by the time they get to us, and tell us lies about whether or not they've had sex with men, lying about sex is just a routine occurrence in their lives. How screwed up and fearful they must be, to have to lie so much. All that lying is what makes the world so insane. As a transsexual, I got over what people thought of me years ago. It feels good to not have to lie about myself.