Refusing to get into a relationship until after SRS?

[Nicole Dupre]

be very afraid !

Right on, brah.

[Nicole Dupre]

You are obsessed with me Nicole... Im sure when post op your heterosexuality will return full blown... and you will be forcing yourself on woman in public places... like gymshowers... and sauna's to show off your vagina made from pounding men's ass lol But you wont brag about that then... you will be a 100% a lady right ? lol

Right on, brah.

Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz...

[robertlouis]

I share your point of view, but only to an extent. At the end of the day, you may not know how long it'll be before you get SRS, so if you can try to wrap your head around your anatomy and find a guy that is primarily attracted to GG's who can do the same, then a relationship is possible.

I know it's a tall order, but it's not impossible. I waited over 6 years to find a man who could accept me as a woman, a sex worker, a single mother, a Pagan, a nerd/geek, etc. As I explained to him, even if I wasn't trans, there would still be quite a bit about me that isn't exactly mainstream, so when he says he'll still love me after SRS, I absolutely believe him.

In fact, he'd prefer I have it and has the means to help get it done. More on that another time though.

~BB~

Bella, as an aside, I'm really happy for you - I hope everything works out well. You deserve it.

[robertlouis]

That's very considerate of you to help your lady maintain her arousal. It seems like a lost art among men, especially those who date women like us. Some of you are the most sexually clueless creatures I've ever met!

~BB~

That's ALL men, right?

[BigBlackMan]

I bust my nut. That's all that matters.

[BellaBellucci]

Bella, as an aside, I'm really happy for you - I hope everything works out well. You deserve it.

Thank you! xo

That's ALL men, right?

Nope. There were no hidden meanings there.

~BB~

[robertlouis]

Maddy, it's a shame that your questions got mixed up with some of the board's ongoing differences of opinion, but there's enough good advice there for you to work on. And if you haven't already done so, most of the girls who have responded to you won't mind receiving private mails either (right, ladies?), so you can go into issues more deeply in private if that will help you.

Whatever happens, good luck. You sound like a nice girl with a sensible head on her shoulders.

[maddygirl]

Aw thank you so much for your kind words, and it's nice know there's people here who would be willing to give me advice or share their opinions if I needed them. I'm not sure what the bickering was about, but I think it' probably better that way. Anyway, thanks for answering my question, and I hope you have a good day!!

[luvshemales]

Aw thank you so much for your kind words, and it's nice know there's people here who would be willing to give me advice or share their opinions if I needed them. I'm not sure what the bickering was about, but I think it' probably better that way. Anyway, thanks for answering my question, and I hope you have a good day!!

Hey Maddy just out of curiosity do you live in a large metropolitan area where transexuals are more common place than say a remote location where transexuals are non-existent.

[maddygirl]

Well I live about 30 minutes away from a big city, but in all honesty, I don't really know a lot of trans people, just a few, and I definitely don't know of any where I live.