Men on dating ts women

[amberskyi]

Most men that want that were "tranny chasers" at one time..

They didn't know in the beginning a transsexual is what they wanted..

They had to sleep around and test the waters...

And then own who they are..

That all took time and trial and error

Before my husband and I were together he slept around with loads of women and a handful of transsexuals..some that I knew...

Does it bother me..NO...I'm secure and know he loves me....

Does it bother me he watches ts porn...NO...cause that's what guys do...

I just think some things are just SILLY...with the way transsexual women think..

We have been together for four years now..

It's not about how many ts women he's been with but how he regards them

[MrsKellyPierce]

It's not about how many ts women he's been with but how he regards them

I highly doubt that Amber with the majority..maybe for you..but most girls if the guy has been with Susan, Kathy, and Meghan before her..he is out of the running

And most ts girls will hate on a guy and try to make themselves look good...and ts girls will believe another ts girl even if it's not true..

You don't know what went on and why maybe she was left behind..

Some girls are just crazy and other girls are well just sluts..and like I said many guys do the if she'll sleep with me on the first night..she's a slut..

And moves on..it's like a character test..

[Cecil Rhodes]

That's cute.... I love it.

i actually mean it . who wants to have sex all of the time ? snuggling, hugging, carrassing etc is so much better, enjoyable, fulfilling and satisfying,,, atleast to me

[amberskyi]

I highly doubt that Amber with the majority..maybe for you..but most girls if the guy has been with Susan, Kathy, and Meghan before her..he is out of the running

And most ts girls will hate on a guy and try to make themselves look good...and ts girls will believe another ts girl even if it's not true..

You don't know what went on and why maybe she was left behind..

Some girls are just crazy and other girls are well just sluts..and like I said many guys do the if she'll sleep with me on the first night..she's a slut..

And moves on..it's like a character test..

I have always said that if a guy doesn't want to date a girl for no other reason than the fact that she is a ts than he is a chaser.
I don't care about a guys past, what I do care about is if he sees me as a person or as an experience/fantasy

[EvonRose]

i actually mean it . who wants to have sex all of the time ? snuggling, hugging, carrassing etc is so much better, enjoyable, fulfilling and satisfying,,, atleast to me

I know right who wants to have sex with me if we can just watch a marathon of walking dead? With hot cocoa? duh!

[hippifried]

Umm yes .... I mean no.

What was the question?

In a nutshell, the question was: Why are so many people so damned neurotic?

If I knew the answer to that, I'd have already written the definitive book, & be way too rich to be slummin in here with y'all. Butt alas... The sheer volume of things nobody knows is too much to fathom. So... On the narrowed topic:

I don't pay attention to the whiney crap. When I hear it spewed out of somebody's mouth, I stop paying attention to them. If it comes from my sexual partner of the moment, I just want them to leave as soon as I'm done. Now I may be different from most, but I'm perfectly content with my own company. I don't get lonely or bored, & life's too short to waste time pursuing friendships with anyone I'm not impressed by or or wouldn't feel comfortable sharing silence with. Our sexual relationship has nothing to do with it. I find the mating rituals to be interesting but personally uncomfortable. I'm not a big fan of discomfort. I don't need companionship, so I find it easier at my age to avoid the furtive feeling out process.

[alyssaluxor]

I read men, maybe sometimes overanalyze it... but it helps me.

If a man truly wants to be in a relationship with me, he would have no problem taking me out, having a blast with me and at the end of the night have no sex, men who want sex at the begging want freebies. If that;s the case I might as well charge.

I guess being in the industry, I am so deprived of emotional connections, that I truly seek that when looking for a partner, It's more to it than sex because I know i deliver in bed, so lets move on and get on with the substance.

I also agree on this, just to let you know I always get calls and emails from guys who wants to date and make friends with me. They said they dont like me as an escort for them.

Ok I say "yes" to them but they didnt even date me. They dont even bring me to movie house or walk on the park. Or dinner or lunch. Or introduce to their friends and family like what bf/ friends would do. Sometimes they would even call me late at night if they can visit me in my room. They just want free sex thats what I feel. I feel an escort to them not a friend or a date lol


I even encounter guys telling they would marry me and give me US visa or UK visa. But I must date them and be with them to check if theres a connection. But I dont really feel they are serious about marriage with me. I just feel they just want free sex and looking for a free escort they could take advantage of. The reason I become an escort is because of this

[bluesoul]

I have always said that if a guy doesn't want to date a girl for no other reason than the fact that she is a ts than he is a chaser.

i think the main point of some of the more "serious" replies here was that it's difficult to meet and get to know transsexuals without the problematic tight rope of being labelled and/or the expectancy of sex (or past history of).

btw: there is a thread on this forum about why transsexuals girls are much better than genetic girls. and, although flattering, nobody suggested that such a mindset could be more negative than positive- as you've now clearly stated.

[EvonRose]

I also agree on this, just to let you know I always get calls and emails from guys who wants to date and make friends with me. They said they dont like me as an escort for them.

Ok I say "yes" to them but they didnt even date me. They dont even bring me to movie house or walk on the park. Or dinner or lunch. Or introduce to their friends and family like what bf/ friends would do. Sometimes they would even call me late at night if they can visit me in my room. They just want free sex thats what I feel. I feel an escort to them not a friend or a date lol


I even encounter guys telling they would marry me and give me US visa or UK visa. But I must date them and be with them to check if theres a connection. But I dont really feel they are serious about marriage with me. I just feel they just want free sex and looking for a free escort they could take advantage of. The reason I become an escort is because of this

Yeah, I hear you... People forget the reality of ours and think we bash on men too much, as a matter fact I think it's the more chance a guy can prove himself worthy of my companion since too many bad men out there.

Same goes for me and work, guys say they want to hang out but they don't put the time of day, as if it's a challenge to them. since I charge they want to see challenge themselves to have sex with me for free, and I'm not going to lie when I was younger i fell for that, now that I'm older I am very carful now, it's not a good feeling at all! I would never give most guys the time of day.

[bluesoul]

I feel an escort to them not a friend or a date lol

The reason I become an escort is because of this

it is also the underlying reason for your problem. you cannot expect to be treated like girlfriend material if you're an escort. also you said you get a number of calls from people that want to date you. have you ever wondered who looks for a girlfriend from escort ads?