Men on dating ts women

[ed_jaxon]

I love hanging with you babe

[XxXJaslynLee]

I love hanging with you babe

ditto!
:n)

JLxx

[amberskyi]

Uh...It should not be "wrong" that a man knows that he likes transsexuals or prefers transsexuals over genetic women or men as men. It is extremely important to understand that so many people fall somewhere between the rigid orientation markers of:

Gay 100% 90% 80% 70% 60% 50% 40% 30% 20% 10% 0%
0 % 10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100% Straight

There are loads of guys that can't mentally do the math on their sexuality for years and years of their lives; look at the number of guys that come to this forum and ask " I like transsexuals, does that make me (100%) gay?

The answer? No. Liking or being attracted to transsexuals alone does not make you gay.

Our society often preaches these absolute ideas that don't hold up during intellectual dissection and rational discussion. It is mostly a very puritanical idea that people are born ( God created) 100% and ANYTHING else is the trickery of Satan or the wrath of God ( how ironic?) for not truly loving God in ones own heart. I don't want to go very deep into this particular part but the horrifying number of gay people that have killed themselves after exhausting every method to de-gay themselves says it all.

In closing on this subject it shouldn't be freaky, creepy, concerning, disturbing, gross, perverse etc for someone to like you Amber ( or you Evon) for being the transexual ladies that you are. The man or men that admit this to themselves and to you might actually be more deeply attuned to what they need most in a romantic partnership. This might actually be the first step towards a quality relationship from a man to you, this information should not be a deal-breaker.

Dude what are you talking about?? I'm sorry but if a guy can't take me seriously because the only flaw he can find is that I was born male than to me he's a chaser.i'm good enough to fuck but not to love??
All that other stuff you mentioned had zero to do with my post.I actually prefer a man who knows he wants a ts and is man enough to own it.what I won't deal with is being someones secret fuck toy or less

[allurstouse]

from my experiences its difficult to find a man who can genuinely give his all to a ts . for the most part transexuals seem to be a mans "fantasy" or fetish and they cant seem to take is serious because it is still in there head that we have a penis in between our legs and gives them more of a guilty conscience to treat us like a real woman would get treated. that is takn us out to family events and what not. I personally love parading that i am a transexual and i am very proud of what i am and i know it will be much more difficult to find a man who will respect me for what i truly am without wanting to change me or make me be and lie to be a real woman because i am not, i have a cock and i love to use it. men just really need to grow balls and be who they are inside and truly love someone for who they are inside and if that means a transexual than prove it to us and not treat us like we just some fucking rag dolls who want to get laid all the time .

JLxx

Difficult isn't impossible. i see a person not an object, it's kind of why I decided i wasn't going to do the escort thing anymore. it's fine for others, it's fine for escorts, it hurts no one but it does objectify and dehumanize and make it easier to not see a person in my experience. I think transwomen are real women before they begin any physical changes aren't they? No man can make you what you always were. I won't insult you by claiming an understanding of the challenges you must of faced but the feelings are familar. Wanting to change the tigers stripes is hardly a unique scenario. My ex wife spent 7 yrs trying to get me to pick up the socks on the floor adhd man never saw. I have no hang ups about the cock thing but do see it here. hell, i slept with guys what'"s the big deal? I hope you find someone who sees you for who you are not the make believe person in their head. for what it's worth though i had a crush a cis girl once and really had built her into some unreal person in my head and well, ended up crushed. Pretending people are something they aren't to try to find love is hardly uncommon

[EvonRose]

So glad people are seeing it my way... all the comments below from all the women, I agree 100 percent...

[Chase_Mcthirsty]

Well I agree with her. If you want to date a TS woman then take her out as you would any woman and don't expect just because she's a TS it would lead to sex right away.

Hmmm...Perhaps.

But then again sex on the first date is not a travesty if insinuated at the end of the night since it's not what you do but how you do it. If she feels the vibe then it's all good. But if she declines it's not the end of the world. Besides if I enjoyed my time with her than there will likely be a second date to come.

So if she's the type to try to charge me as if I'm some slob on payday based on what was just a little flirt then it's safe to say that this chick wasn't really all that interested in me anyway. And if money was all she wanted then she shouldn't have excepted the type of date that was offered.

And keep in mind I don't think the OP was speaking of just sex working opportunist and hornballs.

I'd like to think that there's a broader spectrum of men and women in the TS community who don't make up excuses for amoral behavior.

[Chase_Mcthirsty]

a lot of men think if she is gonna sleep with me on the first night then she must do this with everyone..

Actually whats worse is a guy knowing for a fact that said Tranny has nailed a few guys on the first date only to turn around and give "him" a hard time. That tends to leave a lot guys scratching their heads at the end of the night.

But like I said it's not the end of the world if I like you, I'll stick around.

Another thing I'd like to put to rest is the term "freebie".

I personally look for a woman who has a mutual reaction to me. Thus if I find you sexually attractive and you feel the same and we both just happen to be felling a little amorous then lets go with it. The key is that both people want it.

But if your not feeling it then just say "NO" I'd have more respect for her saying that then giving me her prices.

[yosi]

Ps: Treat us as the women that we are, and not the transsexuals we became.

from the other side of the same coin you can also say : Treat us as the men that we are , not the tranny chasers that some of s became , it's not all of us.

sometimes transexuals become too sensitive and develop an attitude of: "I don't want to join a club thst's willing to accept me as a member...."

[bluesoul]

Another thing I'd like to put to rest is the term "freebie".

I personally look for a woman who has a mutual reaction to me. Thus if I find you sexually attractive and you feel the same and we both just happen to be felling a little amorous then lets go with it. The key is that both people want it.

unfortunately, that term (in reference to sex) is indicative of escort vocabulary- which is in conflict at some of the earlier statements about how they can put to rest their escorting persona and be regular civilians again.

[Willie Escalade]

Men, besides the obvious judgement and segregation that can come along with dating a transsexual women.

Is another reason it's hard to date trans-women because of the contempt many transsexual woman seem to have towards men?

I have never really understand the hate and how loosely the term "tranny chaser" is thrown about.

Then you got the transsexuals who want this prince charming sort of man that has never been with a transsexual and would never ever want to be with another transsexual besides her or be attracted to another transsexual. It's like get a GRIP on reality...

Then a man is called a 'tranny chaser' due to the fact he has slept around with so many girls. Well girls men do the same with women...and if they dated one tgirl he may want to date another tgirl...

Or how insensitive transsexuals are to the men who are interested in them. It's like don't you remember what it was like to come out to your friends and family, the male has to deal with something similar who dates you. If you just gave the guy a chance he may not be such a bad guy after all. I just find transsexuals seem to demonize men.

That whole fantasy you mentioned about the 100% straight guy that falls for the tranny is all only real in the minds of the angry, dramatic, self-hating (?) t-girls that make that shit up. If you thought the movie "Pretty Woman" was bullshit, this is the sequel gone full-retard times 1000. Many of the t-girls that I know seem to be starved for love, yet they seem ferociously determined to remain that way. Is it damaged people shooting themselves in the foot again and again for the glory of martyrdom?

Whatever the cause might be I find myself wrestling with both sadness/frustration that one door that is unexplored territory seems to be locked in front of me. On the other hand I cling to the hope that the door leading to the more familiar path with ultimately provide me with the satisfying loving relationship that I crave in my life. Only time will provide me with the answer I want, I just detest having my options being limited by others.

Pretty much all of this.