Men on dating ts women

[EvonRose]

This is a peculiar yet intriguing topic for me. Except for inability to become pregnant, transgender women are really not that different from genetic women. Transitioning reminds of puberty, and every person has gone through an awkward stage.

I think some of the women and men in this board need to mellow out. Ladies, if I guy knows that you're trans, and is still willing to accept for the person you are then he needs to be applauded. I realize there are some guys who -incorrectly- view ts as being some realize sex doll. I mean objectifying someone based on physical attribute and denying their humanity is not cool no matter what the situation.

Simply put, approaching and dating a trans woman is NO different than a gg. Guys need to be mindful to treat with respect and dignity. If you think she is gorgeous, please let her know. It's surprising how many beautiful women are insecure.

Finally, there are some women in the media whether news or entertainment who are trans. They are stealth and it is really difficult to ascertain. Personally, I think it's awesome and progressives. Just remember the straight girl - milf porn?! -l who you're beating off to her name may have been Walter.

Peace and blessings!

Thank you for that! Hopefully now you words will have some impacts on these cock crazed lunatics, who's only true education of the ts women is a site called shemaleyum.com....

Hey little boys, take a few notes.

[runningdownthatdream]

I've never "dated' a TS woman. Probably like a lot of men I stumbled onto the 3rd sex by accident. I was 16 at a club and saw the most beautiful girl in the room making eyes at me. When I asked one of my friends who she was he told me I had it all wrong - she wasn't 'really a girl'. And no he wasn't a cock blocker. Well I was stunned........and intrigued. I was conflicted - how could I be attracted to a woman that wasn't physically born a woman!?

In any event it created a change in my thinking and to such an extent I would piss off a lot of GGs by my stating that femininity was a learned trait and had nothing to do with the physical form! I took a lot of shit for that.......but recently I found this http://topdocumentaryfilms.com/codes-gender/ so it looks like the eggheads have come to the same conclusion.

Anyways I've never dated a TS woman (although I've had cheap dirty sex with a few) because I've never run into any at the places I go. I refuse to troll gay or tranny bars nor am I looking specifically for a TS woman. If I meet one in my travels through life then so be it, if I don't it's no big deal.

If I did date a TS woman, she'd just be another woman I dated.............

[SmithXXX]

Quoting Evon

"I think filtering out men and wanting the best intentions, is a healthy way to build a foundation in a relationship. In reality ts or gg just don't want to be objectified in that sense..."

That quote goes both ways. We men {unfortunately "men" refers to a very scarce few (males) on this board} filter also. It's just as hard for us as it is for you to filter out the bad from the good.

Guys generally think that every TS is out for one thing $$$ and could careless about our true intentions. So we initially label a girl right away. Is that wrong - YES!

Just as for most of the ladies, filtering out the bad from the good. Because 95% (if not a higher) of the guys are cock hounds and don't care for nor respect the ladies for their feelings, intelligence, or for who they are WOMEN. So they label us right away is that wrong - YES (but most of the time they are right)

Somewhere along the many pages of bickering the subject of this thread was lost "Men on dating TS WOMEN"

Well the filtering SHOULD START at the introduction, and NOT before hand by labeling one another as "ESCORT", "CHASER", "GOLD DIGGER", "COCK HOUND", etc.....all that does is starts you off on a negative foot. The filtering should start once you meet the person, and get a feeling for their true intentions. If you hit it off initially then go on a normal date. If it's a good date then repeat (not rocket science). If the date sucks then don't go out again.

Guys, if you want to actually DATE (not by the hour) a TS then don't objectify them or treat them as sexual fetish. Use your friggin head (the one that's located 2 feet above your ass, and not the little one between your legs) THEY ARE WOMEN, and if you can't fathom that then you are NOT ready to date a TS (NOT EVEN CLOSE, and you need not read any further. Get a life and go read another thread)

Ladies, not every one of us guys are chaser's or any of the other colorful {colourful for our readers over seas....lol} expletives that have been thrown around. Some of us actually want LTR's with TS's or GG's for that matter. Unfortunately for the ones of us that want them we get thrown into the pot with the chasers because they hit on every single girl in site all the time (over and over again) and that makes us guilty by association. Dating is trial and error. If we date one TS, and it doesn't work, and then if we ask another out BAM! We're tagged as a chaser regardless of our intentions. How else can we have or achieve a LTR if we don't date? As Kelly said she has X-BF's and now she is in a happy long term relationship because she found someone she loves for who he is and what he likes, and he is happy for the same reasons. They both have EX's, and I'm sure when they met the didn't prejudge or label the other, and if they did then the sucked it up and took a chance and it's worked.

This goes for everybody: EVERYTHING IN LIFE WORTH HAVING INVOLVES RISK - plain and simple. I took that risk almost 4 years ago with my EX, and I'm glad I did she is a wonderful girl (yes a TS), but unfortunately it didn't work out. We are still friends, and I'm grateful for that because it always doesn't end that way, but if you prejudge and label each other you will never find true happiness with another person regardless if they are GAY, STRAIGHT, BI, etc...(Which are labels too).

[runningdownthatdream]

Quoting Evon

"I think filtering out men and wanting the best intentions, is a healthy way to build a foundation in a relationship. In reality ts or gg just don't want to be objectified in that sense..."

That quote goes both ways. We men {unfortunately "men" refers to a very scarce few (males) on this board} filter also. It's just as hard for us as it is for you to filter out the bad from the good.

Guys generally think that every TS is out for one thing $$$ and could careless about our true intentions. So we initially label a girl right away. Is that wrong - YES!

Just as for most of the ladies, filtering out the bad from the good. Because 95% (if not a higher) of the guys are cock hounds and don't care for nor respect the ladies for their feelings, intelligence, or for who they are WOMEN. So they label us right away is that wrong - YES (but most of the time they are right)

Somewhere along the many pages of bickering the subject of this thread was lost "Men on dating TS WOMEN"

Well the filtering SHOULD START at the introduction, and NOT before hand by labeling one another as "ESCORT", "CHASER", "GOLD DIGGER", "COCK HOUND", etc.....all that does is starts you off on a negative foot. The filtering should start once you meet the person, and get a feeling for their true intentions. If you hit it off initially then go on a normal date. If it's a good date then repeat (not rocket science). If the date sucks then don't go out again.

Guys, if you want to actually DATE (not by the hour) a TS then don't objectify them or treat them as sexual fetish. Use your friggin head (the one that's located 2 feet above your ass, and not the little one between your legs) THEY ARE WOMEN, and if you can't fathom that then you are NOT ready to date a TS (NOT EVEN CLOSE, and you need not read any further. Get a life and go read another thread)

Ladies, not every one of us guys are chaser's or any of the other colorful {colourful for our readers over seas....lol} expletives that have been thrown around. Some of us actually want LTR's with TS's or GG's for that matter. Unfortunately for the ones of us that want them we get thrown into the pot with the chasers because they hit on every single girl in site all the time (over and over again) and that makes us guilty by association. Dating is trial and error. If we date one TS, and it doesn't work, and then if we ask another out BAM! We're tagged as a chaser regardless of our intentions. How else can we have or achieve a LTR if we don't date? As Kelly said she has X-BF's and now she is in a happy long term relationship because she found someone she loves for who he is and what he likes, and he is happy for the same reasons. They both have EX's, and I'm sure when they met the didn't prejudge or label the other, and if they did then the sucked it up and took a chance and it's worked.

This goes for everybody: EVERYTHING IN LIFE WORTH HAVING INVOLVES RISK - plain and simple. I took that risk almost 4 years ago with my EX, and I'm glad I did she is a wonderful girl (yes a TS), but unfortunately it didn't work out. We are still friends, and I'm grateful for that because it always doesn't end that way, but if you prejudge and label each other you will never find true happiness with another person regardless if they are GAY, STRAIGHT, BI, etc...(Which are labels too).

Too much analysis bro............women will pre-judge a man base don his friends, acquaintances, what her girlfriends tell her, etc, etc......but guess what? if the man is a man in the first place it doesn't matter if he is pre-judged. In fact his reputation - good or bad - should precede him. So if he's a 'good' man that will be the word...if he's a douchebag who drops to his knees and gurgles every chance he gets then that'll be held against him.....as it should be.

[Nicole Dupre]

My theory is that many couldn't attract straighter men as a non-tranny so they had to get boobs and dress and act female to get men to notice them, which breeds the resentment towards men especially the ones who are into it. A lot of these people hate themselves too much to have a real relationship so they sell that asspussy for an ez buck and bitch about it.

And theories like that are what make you the retarded nobody that you are.

[EvonRose]

No yogi is right...

I am mature enough to give men the benefit of the doubt or a chance...

I recently dated a guy in Miami who I felt was a chaser, but I gave him the benefit until I started seeing the signs..

He never had time to take me out

Only time he had was to see me in my place for sex.

And when we did he would leave as oppose to staying with me for the night or courting.

This was very unhealthy and I don't like men like that.

I am too good, to be handled so carelessly, and I deserve better, he used me and he lied to me...

Straight men don't treat me this way, they take me out for dinner, or wine, or movies... But I never feel comfortable with a chaser..

But regardless we risk it giving a guy a chance, and it's the guys chance to prove himself worthy. If not we are the only ones who get hurt by it. So we have to protect that.

[SmithXXX]

Too much analysis bro............women will pre-judge a man base don his friends, acquaintances, what her girlfriends tell her, etc, etc......but guess what? if the man is a man in the first place it doesn't matter if he is pre-judged. In fact his reputation - good or bad - should precede him. So if he's a 'good' man that will be the word...if he's a douchebag who drops to his knees and gurgles every chance he gets then that'll be held against him.....as it should be.

I agree with you to a point about being prejudged on the basis of friends, acquaintances and her girl friends etc..., but a good man in this community gets labeled regardless of how good his reputation is. Until you are actually part of this community, and support it you will not know. So stick to your cheap dirty sex, and No it's not too much analysis. Experience is all it is plain simple fact.

[hefzfavebunii]

I'd prefer neither - I'd prefer a gay man hands down.

[SmithXXX]

No yogi is right...

But regardless we risk it giving a guy a chance, and it's the guys chance to prove himself worthy. If not we are the only ones who get hurt by it. So we have to protect that.

I agree with you Evon, it is up to us to prove our intentions and our worth as a suitor. As it is for the lady to prove herself as well. That's what dating is about. You found out the guy in Miami was a chaser, and you ghosted his ass. Good for you. Just as I have dated girls in the past that on the 2nd date were "buy me this, buy me that"

[EvonRose]

I'd prefer neither - I'd prefer a gay man hands down.

If a gay is attracted to you then your not a woman...

Gay is homosexual, the attraction to the same gender... By gender your a female... So that doesn't make sense...