Domino Presley $1,000 - half hour??

[RallyCola]

inflated ego much? ugh..

eh...i wouldn't call it inflated. engorged maybe.

Just because you are a doctor does not mean you specialize in this field, suggesting by having srs does not make one happy, Does not seem medically ethical to say, many doctors would disagree with you. Many SRS have brought complete fulfillment in many transexual lives. And that would be backed u by medical facts actually.

3 degrees in medical? wow! You must be really old? But you speak like a 12 year old. Wow I wonder who gave you that degree?

for the record, since this thread is so damn tangential...i'm 33 and i have 1 basic science (neuroscience), 1 medical (specializing in neurology) and 1 psych degree...and that's the order I earned them in due to the regs of my MD/PhD program. The least impressive is actually the Psychology PhD because most purely psychological research lacks key clinical components and are too, as you sorta pointed out, only relevant to the socioeconomic and cultural biases of the population. The easiest to get was actually the MD because simply but, it is just alot of studying and memorization. There is more bullshit on the PhD side of translational research.

So...while I am not inclined to cut/paste the abstracts or pubmed links here, if you really think that i'm citing incorrect stats, well, you just are reading the wrong papers or have no idea how behavioral stats are compiled. You shouldn't...you are a lay person that has not studied behavioral neuroscience and psychology...but at least admit that instead of assuming you know what you are talking about. Its like my mother-in-law...she is diabetic and tells my brother-in-law, who is an internist, that the liver can't clean the insulin out of her system. Just because you know a few words or read wikipedia doesn't make you an expert on anything.

mind you...i am not claiming to fully understand what it is to transition. i am simply saying that being an avid reader of much of the published reports on transgendered issues, i believe that I am far more well read and entrenched in exactly where tg issues are clinically than you are.

finally...as i've indicated before...you only read and take away from a post what you want. never did i say that having GRS can NEVER make one happy. I simply said having it does not mean you are automatically going to be happy. Look at your own bullshit opinions on having a man financially take care of you. I would contest that if you had GRS and for some reason couldn't find a dude to pay you to be his GF, you would be unhappy. Not because you cut your dick off....but because there is so much more to being happy in life than your anatomy.

From my own work and experiences in my private life that the depth of a person's character is far more important in terms of them being a "happy" person. i've stated that based on your posts, attitudes and opinions, I believe you to be a superficial, immature and shallow person...so my dear, I would estimate that happiness would be difficult for you to find until you grow up a bit and figure out what really matters in life.

i assume you are going to tell me that i am wrong...and that I don't know you...and you are right...i don't...i'm just full of myself enough to want to entertain myself by pointing out your bullshit but not serious enough to care if you retort. the fact remains that we have vastly different opinions and that's that.

[RallyCola]

at the end of the day the majority of guys who are in "shemales" (isnt the use of that word enough to let you know what they really care about lol) arent going to like gender reassignment surgery much less understand why some girls need it to feel complete.
its a choice that we made for OURSELVES because it will make US happy.we didnt start our transition for guys or based on their opinions so why finnish that way

you are right...most men into the tgirl fantasy, would reject the idea of GRS but these are not the men that I would say, it is healthy to be associated with. I, personally, had difficulty understanding why some girls are so-called "non-op" because notwithstanding the obvious sexual attraction I have to pre-/non-op girls, I had always thought that the ultimate goal was to have GRS. When I first became interested almost 20 years ago, I saw the pre-op faze as far more transient than it really is but...different strokes for different folks.

[robertlouis]

Nicole and Evon - two sane voices. Go for your dream both of you and don't give a fig about the guys who say "keep your cock." As Evon says - that realisation as yourselves as women is what matters most. No - 100 per cent happiness is not possible. life isn't like that. But becoming your true selves is a vital staging post on the journey. Power to you both.

with every word. I know quite a few girls who have had full grs - and more as friends than sexual partners, fwiw - and each one, without exception, is happier and more fulfilled than they were before. The kind of negative comments that turn up again and again on HA, on this thread, and let's be honest, most threads, whenever the subject of grs comes up, simply show firstly how shallow and self-centred most of the cock bandits hereabouts are, and secondly how little they know or care about the psyches, traumas and motivations that the women they profess to admire have to endure every day of their lives.

Good luck to you both. You're savvy enough to know that you can safely ignore those comments.

[EvonRose]

eh...i wouldn't call it inflated. engorged maybe.




for the record, since this thread is so damn tangential...i'm 33 and i have 1 basic science (neuroscience), 1 medical (specializing in neurology) and 1 psych degree...and that's the order I earned them in due to the regs of my MD/PhD program. The least impressive is actually the Psychology PhD because most purely psychological research lacks key clinical components and are too, as you sorta pointed out, only relevant to the socioeconomic and cultural biases of the population. The easiest to get was actually the MD because simply but, it is just alot of studying and memorization. There is more bullshit on the PhD side of translational research.

So...while I am not inclined to cut/paste the abstracts or pubmed links here, if you really think that i'm citing incorrect stats, well, you just are reading the wrong papers or have no idea how behavioral stats are compiled. You shouldn't...you are a lay person that has not studied behavioral neuroscience and psychology...but at least admit that instead of assuming you know what you are talking about. Its like my mother-in-law...she is diabetic and tells my brother-in-law, who is an internist, that the liver can't clean the insulin out of her system. Just because you know a few words or read wikipedia doesn't make you an expert on anything.

mind you...i am not claiming to fully understand what it is to transition. i am simply saying that being an avid reader of much of the published reports on transgendered issues, i believe that I am far more well read and entrenched in exactly where tg issues are clinically than you are.

finally...as i've indicated before...you only read and take away from a post what you want. never did i say that having GRS can NEVER make one happy. I simply said having it does not mean you are automatically going to be happy. Look at your own bullshit opinions on having a man financially take care of you. I would contest that if you had GRS and for some reason couldn't find a dude to pay you to be his GF, you would be unhappy. Not because you cut your dick off....but because there is so much more to being happy in life than your anatomy.

From my own work and experiences in my private life that the depth of a person's character is far more important in terms of them being a "happy" person. i've stated that based on your posts, attitudes and opinions, I believe you to be a superficial, immature and shallow person...so my dear, I would estimate that happiness would be difficult for you to find until you grow up a bit and figure out what really matters in life.

i assume you are going to tell me that i am wrong...and that I don't know you...and you are right...i don't...i'm just full of myself enough to want to entertain myself by pointing out your bullshit but not serious enough to care if you retort. the fact remains that we have vastly different opinions and that's that.

It is highly studied ad believed that 13 percent of the population is GLBT, does not take a genius to realize the the T in the GLBT is significantly lower.

As a doctor, the correct terms are Penis and Vagina, if you want to speak medically as an argument no doctor would tell you to use these terms, so I don't believe you are a doctor. Sorry.

Now where is your degree for sexology? No doctor would know anything about our special medical circumstances without this.

You may study the human nervous system, but you need further education to study and specialize to help Trans women transition, psychology is one. Yes in order for one to qualify for a SRS there are further steps taken and your degrees are not enough.

If you are a doctor, lets just say. People her obviously can see your a mad one.

[EvonRose]

you are right...most men into the tgirl fantasy, would reject the idea of GRS but these are not the men that I would say, it is healthy to be associated with. I, personally, had difficulty understanding why some girls are so-called "non-op" because notwithstanding the obvious sexual attraction I have to pre-/non-op girls, I had always thought that the ultimate goal was to have GRS. When I first became interested almost 20 years ago, I saw the pre-op faze as far more transient than it really is but...different strokes for different folks.

It also proves you don't know much about the community, it is not a choice as more of a feeling of one transexual. Some women can live a penis and learn to accept it, and theres a few that can't, and are medically required for the surgery. The reality in our mind as a soon to be post, we view pre related with sexual fantasy/porn etc. It's not entirely true, but rarely do I hear of a man take a pre seriously. It's also a wanting to be complete, and some of us don't feel complete. We are content fading int he back ground and becoming a normal woman.

[Nicole Dupre]

We are content fading int he back ground and becoming a normal woman.

For the most part, the gentlemen on this forum are only aware of the transsexuals doing porn and escorting. I suppose they find it difficult to conceptualize the actual number of stealth, both pre op and post op, TS women there are out there.

[RallyCola]

lol at being a mad doctor....yeah, i'm mad that i'm not COS yet. i'm the greatest fucker ever...fuck all those cunts that went to John Hopkins, Duke, Harvard and Yale. I went to New Jersey Fucking Medical School beeotch!

regarding the number of "stealth" transgendered individuals out there...i agree that many on this board have no idea...but i would contest that your choice of words is not appropriate. Stealth implies going unnoticed for the purpose of hiding. I would argue that post-op people are not hiding...they are just not advertising because their birth or present anatomy is irrelevant to the person they are.

for my psych thesis, finding post-op women to interview was easy...they were very proud. finding pre-op women was actually more difficult because of the criteria my mentor and i set for inclusion in particular groups, but also because these women seemed to be more in hiding than post-operative women.

[catherinefan]

It also proves you don't know much about the community, it is not a choice as more of a feeling of one transexual. Some women can live a penis and learn to accept it, and theres a few that can't, and are medically required for the surgery. The reality in our mind as a soon to be post, we view pre related with sexual fantasy/porn etc. It's not entirely true, but rarely do I hear of a man take a pre seriously. It's also a wanting to be complete, and some of us don't feel complete. We are content fading int he back ground and becoming a normal woman.

You are a truly beautiful young woman, Evon. And from the one praising review I've read, I understand that this also goes for the part of you that you've chosen not to show in your pictures. In do as such have a very high appreciation for you the way you are today and would love the opportunity to enjoy your company.

I do on the other hand also fully understand your need to go all the way and I do also very much respect that need. A girl must do what a girl must do. Follow your heart, Evon, and don't take any notice of what certain selfish souls will tell you out here. I support you wholeheartedly.

[EvonRose]

lol at being a mad doctor....yeah, i'm mad that i'm not COS yet. i'm the greatest fucker ever...fuck all those cunts that went to John Hopkins, Duke, Harvard and Yale. I went to New Jersey Fucking Medical School beeotch!

regarding the number of "stealth" transgendered individuals out there...i agree that many on this board have no idea...but i would contest that your choice of words is not appropriate. Stealth implies going unnoticed for the purpose of hiding. I would argue that post-op people are not hiding...they are just not advertising because their birth or present anatomy is irrelevant to the person they are.

for my psych thesis, finding post-op women to interview was easy...they were very proud. finding pre-op women was actually more difficult because of the criteria my mentor and i set for inclusion in particular groups, but also because these women seemed to be more in hiding than post-operative women.

Uh no stealth means being in society with caution, it's not hiding. No one is hiding. That's impossible since many who do get the surgery want to go out and feel free with their newfound bodies.

Your thesis goes against experience, I find that pre op women are more likely involved as post op when tend to et away from the scene, How many sex change porn star do you know compared to pre op? Not to mention do you know the stats of post ops? I don't but I guarantee you it's significantly less.

[EvonRose]

You are a truly beautiful young woman, Evon. And from the one praising review I've read, I understand that this also goes for the part of you that you've chosen not to show in your pictures. In do as such have a very high appreciation for you the way you are today and would love the opportunity to enjoy your company.

I do on the other hand also fully understand your need to go all the way and I do also very much respect that need. A girl must do what a girl must do. Follow your heart, Evon, and don't take any notice of what certain selfish souls will tell you out here. I support you wholeheartedly.

Thank you so much! that means more to me than you know...

Wow seems this one comment erased all the negative feelings I had already, thank you for that bright light...