Is knowing that a TS is not sexually attracted to men ever a turn off for you gents?

[Jamie French]

I'd never date a girl! That's so gro... wait.

[tsmandy]

I have discussed this very topic with a few TS girls in the biz.

As a performer, I don't mind it as long as they are into the scene. If a girl said "i don't want to kiss you or something like that, I would be turned off" other than that, i dont care as long as I am attracted to them. lol

Personally,I find it strange. I guess its because I am a man (and probably ignorant as well). I get gender and sexuality mixed up all the time. But I think its really strange to go through all that struggle to become a female (hormones, boobs, surgery, vocal training, hair stuff, laser, nails, etc) in order to ostensibly be more attractive to the opposite sex AND invite a world full of the harsh realities for transgender people to THEN turn around and continue to want to be with women. I hope I just made sense.

I guess I assume that the TS girls who undergo this radical change in order to feel better about themselves and their gender AND sexuality do all of that because they feel the need to be with a man. Okay that sounds really caveman of me.

I hope I didn't offend anyone. My apologies beforehand if I just did.

PS. I love my Amy Daly very much. I would do anything for her. I used to want to work with Nicole Dupre.....keyword - used to. Too much hatred for me. No bueno.

Yeah pretty caveman dude.

[Nivek]

In one word? Yes!

[catherinefan]

sexuality isn't tied to gender.

I have always believed this to be true, but the transsexual gender is causing me to have second thoughts.

After all, if hetero men transitioned into womanhood at the same rate as gay men, then lesbianism would be far more common among transsexual girls.

So, isn't there at least some link between gender and sexuality?

Love to hear you thoughts on this, Tiffany and Mandy.

[BBaggins06]

I have always believed this to be true, but the transsexual gender is causing me to have second thoughts.

After all, if hetero men transitioned into womanhood at the same rate as gay men, then lesbianism would be far more common among transsexual girls.

So, isn't there at least some link between gender and sexuality?

Love to hear you thoughts on this, Tiffany and Mandy.

I'm not completely sure what you mean in your second sentence but I dated a girl who said she wasn't attracted to men until she started taking hormones. I'm sure she's not unique that way but I have no idea how prevalent that is either ...

[Jamie French]

Seems to me the transbians are always a lot more down to earth, prone to being dressed down, girl next door types... have some sort of grounded personality and real ambitions that lay way outside of gender issues, (they haven't painted themselves into a weird little corner where everything they do has to somehow tie in with gender) The ones who are exclusively into men always seem to have that glitzy hyper femme thing going on that genetic women don't even have. The more into men the more ties to the drag scene, club circuits, drug culture, etc. I've lived on both coasts and directly in the middle of the country so I've seen/met all types and that's just the way it seems to add up.

[Nicole Dupre]

Of course a pervy hetero crossdresser who wants to conquer porn thinks transbians are more down to earth and well-grounded. He's a dude. Guys usually have more in common with dykes. I'm sure Ellen Degeneres is just great to go hiking and bowling with. But that's not the most feminine behavior. Neither is living with a face full of razor stubble. The scary thing to me is, I can name literally dozens of serial killers who were crossdressers. Silence of the Lambs is based on a true story. There are plenty more.

But anyway that's the main difference between primary M2F transsexuals and trransbians. Transbians are paraphiliacs. They're different. Of course, many are perfectly sane, decent human beings.But the motivation behind it is different. Transbians tend to assimilate more with tomboy behavior, but when it comes to being truly feminine they struggle. Look at Erika. Erika wants to be a boxer and is proud of the scars on her face. Is that female behavior? She would argue that she's a modern woman. And I would argue that she's less-than-well transitioned M2F. I mean, how many of your mothers and sisters did porn, boxed, and had razor stubble on their faces? lol

[Jamie French]

Derp. Yawn. TLDR.

Of course a pervy hetero crossdresser who wants to conquer porn thinks transbians are more down to earth and well-grounded. He's a dude. Guys usually have more in common with dykes. I'm sure Ellen Degeneres is just great to go hiking and bowling with. But that's not the most feminine behavior. Neither is living with a face full of razor stubble. The scary thing to me is, I can name literally dozens of serial killers who were crossdressers. Silence of the Lambs is based on a true story. There are plenty more.

But anyway that's the main difference between primary M2F transsexuals and trransbians. Transbians are paraphiliacs. They're different. Of course, many are perfectly sane, decent human beings.But the motivation behind it is different. Transbians tend to assimilate more with tomboy behavior, but when it comes to being truly feminine they struggle. Look at Erika. Erika wants to be a boxer and is proud of the scars on her face. Is that female behavior? She would argue that she's a modern woman. And I would argue that she's less-than-well transitioned M2F. I mean, how many of your mothers and sisters did porn, boxed, and had razor stubble on their faces? lol

[Nicole Dupre]

Great response, duderino.

[Jamie French]

It shrieks into the wind... watch this ya'll, I can keep it typing forever. What a puppet.

Great response, duderino.