What would you do?

[Wendy Summers]

Ignore the "T" part...treat her like every lady you're interested in. That's how I'd do it...

Spot on... the guys who have gotten anywhere with me do just that.

[maaarc]

First let me be clear that this is a hypothetical because I'm in a committed relationship with a SO. Also the girl I'm talkingabout at the store is much younger than me. That said here goes.

There is a lady who works at a store I frequent who were I available I would ask out. I like her sense of humor and her smile. she also has that something about her that says I might be transgender. Can't put my finger on it just a vib.


Here the questions.
Would you ask someone out on a date if you thought they might be transgender? Ladies, how would you feel if a guy asked you out and you found out one of the reasons was because he found Tgirls intriguing? Third question, if a decent person is willing and interested in having a real deep relationship with a transgender girl, is it wastful to not seek out a Tgirl to love?

deep relationship? blah blah blah.... I suggest you dump your girlfriend and become butterfly man butterfly man is free to taste the sweet nectar of many beautiful blossoms while monogamous man is like ugly caterpillar caterpillar man barely survives from eating the mostly bitter leaves of one plant which soon become old and withered - ugly caterpillar man never become beautiful butterfly never know sweet freedom and fulfill true destiny to sex as many beautiful blossoms as possible.

[Teydyn]

deep relationship? blah blah blah...

Either you are young or recently dumped...

[maaarc]

Either you are young or recently dumped...

LOL actually neither my friend - but I have vision right now that you are not butterfly man - most unfortunate

[resolute]

Translation: "I suddenly want to fuck with whatever trust my SO has in me, now that I'm having a midlife crisis and I've discovered TS porn. I'm actually crazy and reckless enough to want to embarrass a girl who works in a store, and probably really needs a job and doesn't want to deal with creepy old weirdos, and ask her if she was born male. Maybe I'll really make the whole thing into a train wreck by telling her what it was about her that made me think she was a TS. These are the things that go through my head when I drink hard lemonade; not anything especially productive; not doing something nice for my SO, who's mistakenly invested their time and emotions into a treacherous pervert who's daydreaming about a girl in some store being born with a dick."

Thread fail.

haha I love those ppl who cut to the chase with the brutal honesty. I love it even more when that brutal honesty may alienate their client base yet the person has the conviction to say it anyway...

Of course, as one who knows there is no such thing as hypothetical... I thought that same thing when I read the first post in this thread. someone just beat me to the brutal honesty.

Whats worse about this "hypothetical" is that certainly isnt and someone would actually consider making an approach towards this young person.

I have to ask what sort of person would approach a young person they don't know and ask such a question or make such a comment? Many woman, young old gg or ts have body issues or other issues that can be very traumatic for them... imagine if this one girl was self conscious perhaps thinking her face looked a little masculine, and someone makes such an insensitive comment...

word of advice to the OP.. you should all pause to engage in a little introspection... seriously who or why would someone say hey I think I am going to pursue a TS for a real relationship? Someone who doesn't want to pay for an escort to get their thrills... just pay a pro and leave the innocent shop girls alone...

[Nicole Dupre]

Sometimes people mean what they say. I mean it when I say I'm in a committed relationship. I'm not looking for a fling, I have no plans or intention to betray anyone.


You've got me wrong.


My user name really means something. I admire you girls. I'm jealous and empathetic. Life can not be easy but you have the nerve to take the transition step.


I'm sorry your life is so hard that you see everything so cinically. Now i know I'm a real member here because I've finally gotten my Dupre attack.

My life is NORMAL, you jackass. It's honestly not that hard. If anything, it's pretty damn easy. lol

But then, I'm not the one having the desperate daydreams, where I embarrass my spouse, some innocent girl working somewhere, and MYSELF. Maybe you wanna rethink what you consider to be "hard" other than your dick. I mean, you can't even spell "cinical" when you call someone cynical. I'd say it's you who must have the hard, empty life.

And don't try to make yourself seem like the victim of a "Nicole Dupre attack". How dare you say such a thing when you're contemplating playing with peoples' lives and emotions? And you're "jealous and empathetic" of our lives? What's that supposed to mean? You wish you were a tranny?

[rockabilly]

If you're in a relationship with someone else why would you bother asking this girl out?

^
This

[postopadmirer]

Edit

[postopadmirer]

Edit

[postopadmirer]

Having issues posting So I'll make this brief.
I asked a hypothetical question.


The key point was:
How do TG folks feel starting a relationship with folks that suspect they are TG? Is having a relationship with a TG interested person a plus or a minus?


My sincerity in this being a hypothetical question is a different issue I think.