What would you do?

[Caff_Racer]

the way it was written was client talk, one can express themselves better as you just have

And there I was, convinced that I wasn't making any sense at all!

[Nicole Dupre]

Translation: "I suddenly want to fuck with whatever trust my SO has in me, now that I'm having a midlife crisis and I've discovered TS porn. I'm actually crazy and reckless enough to want to embarrass a girl who works in a store, and probably really needs a job and doesn't want to deal with creepy old weirdos, and ask her if she was born male. Maybe I'll really make the whole thing into a train wreck by telling her what it was about her that made me think she was a TS. These are the things that go through my head when I drink hard lemonade; not anything especially productive; not doing something nice for my SO, who's mistakenly invested their time and emotions into a treacherous pervert who's daydreaming about a girl in some store being born with a dick."

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[postopadmirer]

Translation: "I suddenly want to fuck with whatever trust my SO has in me, now that I'm having a midlife crisis and I've discovered TS porn. I'm actually crazy and reckless enough to want to embarrass a girl who works in a store, and probably really needs a job and doesn't want to deal with creepy old weirdos, and ask her if she was born male. Maybe I'll really make the whole thing into a train wreck by telling her what it was about her that made me think she was a TS. These are the things that go through my head when I drink hard lemonade; not anything especially productive; not doing something nice for my SO, who's mistakenly invested their time and emotions into a treacherous pervert who's daydreaming about a girl in some store being born with a dick."

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Sometimes people mean what they say. I mean it when I say I'm in a committed relationship. I'm not looking for a fling, I have no plans or intention to betray anyone.


You've got me wrong.


My user name really means something. I admire you girls. I'm jealous and empathetic. Life can not be easy but you have the nerve to take the transition step.


I'm sorry your life is so hard that you see everything so cinically. Now i know I'm a real member here because I've finally gotten my Dupre attack.

[jerseyboy72]

Ignore the "T" part...treat her like every lady you're interested in. That's how I'd do it...

[BeardedOne]

Yea I know this is a porn site and not tsroadmap, but you know what, this place has the most honest discussions about gender of any place.

Now THAT'S one scary-ass truth.

What with all the bilge and bile we wade through in this place, it does have a certain drunkard's honesty to it.

I'm sorry your life is so hard that you see everything so cinically. Now i know I'm a real member here because I've finally gotten my Dupre attack.

She'll tear you up, she will.

To the topic:

Interesting questions and I don't see any ill intent in them. I've had similar soul-searching in such encounters (Not suspicions of T-ness so much as dyke-ness, which is another talent/fetish of mine).

I'm not the most socially 'ept' person on the planet and, short of basic niceties such as saying please and thank you, and not farting in crowded elevators (If I can help it), I stumble through life always wondering if I am saying or doing the correct thing in any given social interaction. So, yah, I've had moments where I wondered if the person I was approaching was going to view me as either a charming klutz or a creepy stalker.

I've never denied that I have somewhat fetishized (Is that a real word?) trans people and tend to gravitate towards them with some sensual intent, but that is (In my twisted mind) no different an attraction than someone being drawn to large-breasted women, blondes or redheads, etc. Or, from the ladies' point of view, an attraction to men with ginormous wangs and/or wallets.

As mentioned above, I have had a tendency to gravitate towards and have relationships with lesbians. I didn't necessarily seek them out, but found myself in a series of relationships wherein my lovers were either card-carrying dykes or women-identified bisexuals. At one point, they were seeking me on the realization that they might be able to meet more wimmin in my company. I was something of a dating source for many of the wimmin I knew. It was at once thrilling and frustrating.

There are ladies that post and lurk here and at the other forums that have met me, both socially and commercially, and we've had drinks, dinner, and sometimes done things I'd never have told my mother about. I've boozed, floozed, and Jacuzzed them, and most certainly amused and confused them. At the end of the day, I hope that I haven't offended or angered them because of how or why we met, or who or 'what' they are.

So long as you connect with your partner in ways that they appreciate and share, be it humor, music, a multitude of mutual interests, etc., you should be fine. If the only reason you connect is your own, narrow fetish, then you're better off dimeing up and hitting up a rental. They really don't care if the only reason you want to be with them is because they wear Spiderman Underoos.

[buckjohnson]

There is a TG that works at a breakfast spot I go to all the time. She is friendly, very smart, going to law school, and very cute. When I take my friends there they always comment she seems interested in me. This place is self serve so no pimping for tips, she is nice and all, but I will not be asking her out.

[hefzfavebunii]

Translation: "I suddenly want to fuck with whatever trust my SO has in me, now that I'm having a midlife crisis and I've discovered TS porn. I'm actually crazy and reckless enough to want to embarrass a girl who works in a store, and probably really needs a job and doesn't want to deal with creepy old weirdos, and ask her if she was born male. Maybe I'll really make the whole thing into a train wreck by telling her what it was about her that made me think she was a TS. These are the things that go through my head when I drink hard lemonade; not anything especially productive; not doing something nice for my SO, who's mistakenly invested their time and emotions into a treacherous pervert who's daydreaming about a girl in some store being born with a dick."

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Hahahahahahahahahha

[TRANSEXUAL TOP BELICE]

Lol lol

[postopadmirer]

Now THAT'S one scary-ass truth.

What with all the bilge and bile we wade through in this place, it does have a certain drunkard's honesty to it.



She'll tear you up, she will.

To the topic:

Interesting questions and I don't see any ill intent in them. I've had similar soul-searching in such encounters (Not suspicions of T-ness so much as dyke-ness, which is another talent/fetish of mine).

I'm not the most socially 'ept' person on the planet and, short of basic niceties such as saying please and thank you, and not farting in crowded elevators (If I can help it), I stumble through life always wondering if I am saying or doing the correct thing in any given social interaction. So, yah, I've had moments where I wondered if the person I was approaching was going to view me as either a charming klutz or a creepy stalker.

I've never denied that I have somewhat fetishized (Is that a real word?) trans people and tend to gravitate towards them with some sensual intent, but that is (In my twisted mind) no different an attraction than someone being drawn to large-breasted women, blondes or redheads, etc. Or, from the ladies' point of view, an attraction to men with ginormous wangs and/or wallets.

As mentioned above, I have had a tendency to gravitate towards and have relationships with lesbians. I didn't necessarily seek them out, but found myself in a series of relationships wherein my lovers were either card-carrying dykes or women-identified bisexuals. At one point, they were seeking me on the realization that they might be able to meet more wimmin in my company. I was something of a dating source for many of the wimmin I knew. It was at once thrilling and frustrating.

There are ladies that post and lurk here and at the other forums that have met me, both socially and commercially, and we've had drinks, dinner, and sometimes done things I'd never have told my mother about. I've boozed, floozed, and Jacuzzed them, and most certainly amused and confused them. At the end of the day, I hope that I haven't offended or angered them because of how or why we met, or who or 'what' they are.

So long as you connect with your partner in ways that they appreciate and share, be it humor, music, a multitude of mutual interests, etc., you should be fine. If the only reason you connect is your own, narrow fetish, then you're better off dimeing up and hitting up a rental. They really don't care if the only reason you want to be with them is because they wear Spiderman Underoos.

Thanks so much for your thoughtful comments.

[buttslinger]

The more I try to get serious about trying to talk about sex, the more I'm convinced that fools rush in where wise men fear to tread. Me? I'm a certfied fool.