What would you do?

[SammiValentine]

Ladies, how would you feel if a guy asked you out and you found out one of the reasons was because he found Tgirls intriguing?

Sounds like a client talking... thats what i would think. Maybe say its your first time as well...!! lol xx

[Mayrah]

Im a tgirl myself so it might be easier for me to answer, but if i fell "head over heels in love" with someone i'd just go for it whatever the gender is, aslong as its mutual. Yes even if it would be a stripper/escort/pornstar >.<

Only exception would be if it was some shady drugdealer or crimelord lol

[postopadmirer]

Thanks all, especially Yvonne, Sammi, And Mayrah
I have appreciated the comments. I think removing the T from the relationship is good advice. It almost seems stupid to not have thought about it myself.


I know that if I were not in a committed relationship it would be different, but I am so it's not.


I'm sure some will doubt my sincerity about the next statement but it is true. I'm not looking. If i did not think this lady was so interesting she would just be another friendly store clerk. I think you can admire someone's beauty and still be faithful. But it did make me wonder how the ladies here feel.


At the core of my question was as a girl, how would you feel, knowing a guy was interested in you and that one of the reasons was because you were different? That being different was not a problem. That he did not care how you were different and was not looking for anything particular, but wanted to be apart of what you were going through. It was not about the sex but the soul. As much as I hear and want to remove the T from the discussion it is a part of the issue.


I guess another way of asking is this. For a serious relationship to be possible, do you need to find someone who learns about your transition after they have gotten to know you, or are you comfortable with the fact that one of the things that attracts a guy to you is that you are in transition?

[Caff_Racer]

Ladies, how would you feel if a guy asked you out and you found out one of the reasons was because he found Tgirls intriguing?

Sounds like a client talking... thats what i would think. Maybe say its your first time as well...!! lol xx

I'm not sure it's necessarily "client talk". I mean, one of the things I like about transsexual women is that I find that they have a certain attitude or demeanor about them that I appreciate and find lacking in many genetic women; I find that I can get on better with a transsexual woman and feel more at ease - less "daunted" - with one. That said, there's one young woman on here who has me helplessly tongue-tied like a bashful teenager!

[LibertyHarkness]

who is that caff?

[RallyCola]

Ignore the "T" part...treat her like every lady you're interested in. That's how I'd do it...

+1. that is the only way to ever develop a real relationship. if you are asking her out primarily because she is a tgirl, that's not the best.

[LibertyHarkness]

the title of this thread makes me think of this ...

[SammiValentine]

hahah what would you dooooooooeoooooooooooooo....

[SammiValentine]

I'm not sure it's necessarily "client talk". I mean, one of the things I like about transsexual women is that I find that they have a certain attitude or demeanor about them that I appreciate and find lacking in many genetic women; I find that I can get on better with a transsexual woman and feel more at ease - less "daunted" - with one. That said, there's one young woman on here who has me helplessly tongue-tied like a bashful teenager!

the way it was written was client talk, one can express themselves better as you just have

[Caff_Racer]

who is that caff?

Angelina