Dating an Escort I need advice asap

[greenshady87]

I'm gonna skip past the part of me discovering transsexuals and dealing with my feelings. I met a transsexual woman at a bar It was kinda like out of a movie. She smiled from across the room I approached then we talked. Four months later after the constant messaging and casual dates she tells me "this should become serious, but there is one issue that will drive you away" At the time all I could think of was a possible std she might have. One night she asked me to meet her for a drink. I thought to myself ohhhhhhhhh damn what can it be.
While sitting across from each other her eyes filled with anxiety and mine with anticipation. She opens her mouth and says "I'm not gonna sugarcoat things I escort." Not thinking about her social situation or her feelings my dumbass responds by saying "you fuck for money". She starts crying I feel like shit then she runs out. Two days later she texts me and we discussed it some more.
The end of the conversation was she can't find work anywhere else her last two jobs she had to quit because they treated her like shit. She doesn't enjoy doing but it pays her rent and school. She told me to think about it and decide.

The Pros-Awesome girl-wonderful personality- great sense of humor-intelligent
The cons-She has a profession that is dangerous to her health mentally and physically. She can't stop until she is done with school which is a year away unless she can find employment elsewhere. It'll be hard accepting the fact that my girlfriend will have sex with at most 8 guys monthly.

Please advice from the ladies and the gentlemen

[TSMichelleAustin]

Its her job, she is safe then nothing to worry about. I have been with my hubby 4yrs and I escort and support our life. He deals with it fine. Most of time I am not with the guy more than half hour and 9 times out of ten most guys are oral or there for your company. She is working for something better, if I was you I would keep my opinions to myself and support her. Men on here cry all the time about not being able to date a ts, and you are! Support and love her for all she has, she must like you back because she took it out of dating to serious and told you.

[Prospero]

If you look in the forum there was another thread on an identical topic started a couple of weeks ago by another guy who had fallen in love with an escort. Lots of wisdom there. Worth reading.

Ad I agree with Michelle's post.

[Silcc69]

She's in school at least, so that is a big plus IMO.

[Yeah]

I'm gonna skip past the part of me discovering transsexuals and dealing with my feelings. I met a transsexual woman at a bar It was kinda like out of a movie. She smiled from across the room I approached then we talked. Four months later after the constant messaging and casual dates she tells me "this should become serious, but there is one issue that will drive you away" At the time all I could think of was a possible std she might have. One night she asked me to meet her for a drink. I thought to myself ohhhhhhhhh damn what can it be.
While sitting across from each other her eyes filled with anxiety and mine with anticipation. She opens her mouth and says "I'm not gonna sugarcoat things I escort." Not thinking about her social situation or her feelings my dumbass responds by saying "you fuck for money". She starts crying I feel like shit then she runs out. Two days later she texts me and we discussed it some more.
[COLOR="Red"]The end of the conversation was she can't find work anywhere else her last two jobs she had to quit because they treated her like shit. She doesn't enjoy doing but it pays her rent and school. She told me to think about it and

The Pros-Awesome girl-wonderful personality- great sense of humor-intelligent
The cons-She has a profession that is dangerous to her health mentally and physically. She can't stop until she is done with school which is a year away unless she can find employment elsewhere. It'll be hard accepting the fact that my girlfriend will have sex with at most 8 guys monthly.

Please advice from the ladies and the gentlemen

If u are ok with it and can handle it, go for it. I dated a gg stripper/escort. It wasn't perfect, but no relationship is. I loved her for who she was, not what she did professionally. Hope it works out for u 2.

[lisaparadise]

I'm gonna skip past the part of me discovering transsexuals and dealing with my feelings. I met a transsexual woman at a bar It was kinda like out of a movie. She smiled from across the room I approached then we talked. Four months later after the constant messaging and casual dates she tells me "this should become serious, but there is one issue that will drive you away" At the time all I could think of was a possible std she might have. One night she asked me to meet her for a drink. I thought to myself ohhhhhhhhh damn what can it be.
While sitting across from each other her eyes filled with anxiety and mine with anticipation. She opens her mouth and says "I'm not gonna sugarcoat things I escort." Not thinking about her social situation or her feelings my dumbass responds by saying "you fuck for money". She starts crying I feel like shit then she runs out. Two days later she texts me and we discussed it some more.
The end of the conversation was she can't find work anywhere else her last two jobs she had to quit because they treated her like shit. She doesn't enjoy doing but it pays her rent and school. She told me to think about it and decide.

The Pros-Awesome girl-wonderful personality- great sense of humor-intelligent
The cons-She has a profession that is dangerous to her health mentally and physically. She can't stop until she is done with school which is a year away unless she can find employment elsewhere. It'll be hard accepting the fact that my girlfriend will have sex with at most 8 guys monthly.

Please advice from the ladies and the gentlemen

First off congrats,rule number one never and i mean never have an additude while bringing up escorting especially bringing up other men if you do you will be shut out of her heart and she will build that invisable wall youll never penetrate later always support her when she brings it up think of her first before you say anything,second treat her with respect go out for brunch shopping etc and be prepared for others staring etc its no big deal the guys will love her and the girls will hate her once you get that through your head youll be find,let us know how it unfolds k.ive been in 2 long tearm relationships both over 4 years so i know what im talking about.

[FiremanforTS]

I dated a dancer for 18 months and it was a train wreck dude. I am not a jealous type, very confident in myself, but the drama! People are individuals though, so you gotta go with your gut on how you think both you and her will deal with it. Good Luck.

[Kevin Dong]

disaster waiting to happen...seen it time and time again.

[MdR Dave]

you practically screamed "whore" at her when she told you.

You're fucked.

[dafame]

disaster waiting to happen...seen it time and time again.

Agree. Plus there are girls out there that don't escort. You have to decide what your standards are and if being in a relationship with an escort is ok with you then by all means go for it. If not then don't compromise yourself for anyone, even the "elusive and hard to find" TS.

I've dated a girl that escorted and will never do it again.