Girls always complain about guys wasting time.

[CaptainPlanet]

I called up a local TS a few weeks back and she seemed cool at first average screening and two call system going. Gave me her address told her i would be there in about 20 minutes. Got there and called again and she told me she was washing up. So no biggie i wait about 10 minutes and call her back, she tells me where to go and i make my way to her place. I get to the Apt she gave me and i ring the bell. I hear some music and someone walking around, after a minute or so i tryed to call the girl back and she answers the phone and says thats not my apt, and i dont see black guys.

Now if someone was smart we could have saved alot of time and BS. I don't mind her personal preference, no loss on my side but why not be upfront and state that in your ad, or during 1 of the 3 Calls prior to me commuting to your place?

[RallyCola]

wow...she was kinda cunt-ish, but as the service provider, of course she would think she did nothing wrong. post a bad review of her for spite!!!

[tsdvdman]

Happened to me once in D.C..and the ts was a stunner. I'll never forget it. She buzzed me in and I went up the elevator knock on her door, she opened it with a white robe half open long wet hair like she just got out of shower huge tits and thick cock dangling around. She said "oh I'm sorry hun I don't see black guys". I tried to negotiate a higher fee and everything but she just kept saying "sorry hun" all the while standing there half naked. That was the one time I almost got down on my knees to beg..lol

[TheGeneral]

Happens all the time, trying to fit in as many as they can.
Finishing up with one to grap the next guy's cash.
I walk away if she has to say hold on or wait a bit or try to stall for more time.
Girls want to make $200 an hr but give you $20 worth of service.

You're lucky if you get a two call system, out here it is like 3-4 calls.
Call right back & no answer, too much to deal with.
I've gotten so many excuses it is crazy. I only deal with ladies I know are professional from reviews.

[acdaddy69]

I said it before and I will say it again ladies and gents...first sorry for the guys wasting their time and money on the girls that dont want to see you..."because your black"...Keep in mind my brothers, the same girls that dont want to see you because of your skin color..remember their are so many girls that want you... because of it..so you win some and lose some and keep it on moving...real talk...
I would never be mad, upset or give a girl a bad review..I dont pay anyway, so no reviews are needed..because she doesn't want to see me cause am black. their are girls beggin to be with me cause am black...Gents find the girls that want to be you and be happy...amen

[Dkg]

Never been in a situation like that. Then again, never used an escort service.
Must feel pretty bad to have someone discriminate like that right to your face.

[amberskyi]

well from a providers point of view i will say that in this day and age with soooo many guys wasting our time (making appointments and not showing up) that i have been known to double book a few appointments.the thinking is if i line up 3 gentleman for 4 pm at least one of them has to come thru.there has been more than a few times that no one showed up lol.
to be honest though this is a problem i face more often the further north i go...down here it rarely happens..i dont know if its that southern hospitality or what .
so for now on though i implement a three call system...one call a hour in advance and another call 30mins before to confirm and get directions...if you miss these calls than im sorry you forfeit your appointment as well as if your more than 15 mins late...

ps.i totally dont have a problem with black guys,i am black lol but if you call me sounding extra "hood" or "ghetto" than i just tend to hang up.some girls have had some real bad experiences and you cant blame them for feeling a certain type of way.at the end of the day its also about their safety and comfort as well....

[onmyknees]

I called up a local TS a few weeks back and she seemed cool at first average screening and two call system going. Gave me her address told her i would be there in about 20 minutes. Got there and called again and she told me she was washing up. So no biggie i wait about 10 minutes and call her back, she tells me where to go and i make my way to her place. I get to the Apt she gave me and i ring the bell. I hear some music and someone walking around, after a minute or so i tryed to call the girl back and she answers the phone and says thats not my apt, and i dont see black guys.

Now if someone was smart we could have saved alot of time and BS. I don't mind her personal preference, no loss on my side but why not be upfront and state that in your ad, or during 1 of the 3 Calls prior to me commuting to your place?

We've been through all this with Paris about a year ago, but maybe you weren't around then. I agree that she should always lay out her stipulations on the first call. There's nothing more aggravating than spending all that time and effort to get blown off. I hate that shit, and don't react too well to it. It's really not all that complicated...just common courtsey.

[Mayrah]

well from a providers point of view i will say that in this day and age with soooo many guys wasting our time (making appointments and not showing up) that i have been known to double book a few appointments.the thinking is if i line up 3 gentleman for 4 pm at least one of them has to come thru.there has been more than a few times that no one showed up lol.
to be honest though this is a problem i face more often the further north i go...down here it rarely happens..i dont know if its that southern hospitality or what .
so for now on though i implement a three call system...one call a hour in advance and another call 30mins before to confirm and get directions...if you miss these calls than im sorry you forfeit your appointment as well as if your more than 15 mins late...

ps.i totally dont have a problem with black guys,i am black lol but if you call me sounding extra "hood" or "ghetto" than i just tend to hang up.some girls have had some real bad experiences and you cant blame them for feeling a certain type of way.at the end of the day its also about their safety and comfort as well....

There are also alot of dudes out there who want your address and try to make a fake apointment to stalk you or treathen you for fun afterwards. In the netherlands alot of people give directions close to their place and if they can confirm whats on that location they give their real address.

[BeardedOne]

Firstly, I'm sorry to hear the 'I don't do black' mantra again. Though I understand where it comes from after reading and hearing of so many gurl's bad experiences with differing races of client, I'm sure that there is no shortage of undesirables in the lily-white cracker contingent either.

I've only had one negative encounter with a gurl (That I can recall) that may have been a bit of wasted time on my part and it concerned communications. I don't have a cell phone (The one I had, for two years, was a monumental waste) and that was a deal-breaker for this particular gurl. No big thing. At least I hadn't gone to great expense in time and travel before I discovered this.

On the flip side, for my one experience of inconvenience that may or may not have been justified on her part, I can't begin to imagine the number of calls that she fields in a day from wankers (They jack to her voice on the phone), bargain hunters ("Your ad sez $300, but I am really hot, so you'll do me for less, right?"), hagglers, shy guys that hang up in the middle of the call, and just ordinary, run-of-the-mill morons.

I was hanging out with a nice gurl this weekend and at one point her phone kept singing. On the first ring, she answered "Your number is blocked. I don't take 'private' calls. Please dial *82 to unblock your number when you call back." Fair enough. A minute later, the same scenario. A minute later, again. Wash, rinse, repeat. Finally, the potential client (I will call him Richard, or 'Dick' for short) blurts out "I'm calling from home and I don't want my wife to know!" which is already ten shades of wrong as concerns this conversation. I don't recall her exact reply, but I am still mopping beer out of my nose because of my reaction.

So, yah, a gurl wasted your time (And again, I apologize on behalf of the lily-whites of us for the color thing), but I can see where some of it comes from. To boil it down to the sheer basics: If they don't want to deal with you and are going to treat you so shabbily, there is another that will kiss up to you and treat you like a king with the knowledge that a happy client is often both a repeat client and a very generous one at that.