Incalls v. Outcalls: Which is safer for the provider/client

[Mayrah]

Very true! I've often wondered why some girls don't except text messages. Why should I have to call you if all I want are your rates/location? Either way you can see my number.

Men get off from sexting and there are ALOT of timewasters who else would book sessions and not show up just to mess up your shedules.

[Dino Velvet]

When I was a young kid I would call hookers and get excited knowing the lady on the other end charges for it then hang up. I grew up in a well-off household where money had little value and people had none.

[JenniferParisHusband]

I've had horror stories with both. When I was first getting into this and didn't know any better or have many resources to turn to, I had a horribel incall experience. The room was dimly lit when I got there, could barely see her face. It was a guy in a dress, they had used a picture of Johanna Bardin in their ad. I was let in when I couldn't see her/his face and nervously entered. It really went bad when she didn't put a chain lock across the door. Three of her friends silently snuck in using another key just as I was about to lie down and get comfortable. They pulled a gun on me, got the fee ($350), escorted me to a car where I drove around with a gun to my chest in my underwear and made me empty another $300 from my account, and get a cash advance on two credit cards. All toll, I was out $1450, and couldn't go to the police about it. This ROB crew was fairly well known in LA back in the early 2000's. Most are either dead or in jail, but I never took chances after that. I never brought anything other than a single car key and the money in with me after that.

Outcall was just as bad. I knew better than to have someone I didn't know come to my place, so I got a hotel room in Ktown and met her there. She got my wallet while I was distracted, took my ID and found out where I lived, called her buddy from the bathroom, and while I was distracted, my place in Silverlake was being broken into. A $200 fuck that was lousy actually lost me closer to 8 grand in stuff. Luckily I had insurance to cover most of it.

Since then, I still prefer incall, but I'm really cautious. I put the chain link across if she doesn't. I always check reviews, although they seem to be getting harder and harder to find these days now that shemalereview.net is gone. But I still always check the bathroom, and any other rooms I can, and I never take anything in with me that I can't afford to lose. It's also why I find one lady who is amazing and tend to stick with them as long as possible.

Most of the ladies are great, but every once in a while there's one or two who ruin it for everyone.

[karaalextv]

in calls all the fucking way

[Dino Velvet]

Find the coordinates for Sunset & La Brea and call in an air strike. Most of the bad providers will be extracted from that area. This is the hornet's nest for ROBs today.

[flabbybody]

why cant I text is the real question. it's 2012!

when you call they hear what you sound like. It's a sign you're more likely to show up.
As well as giving the girl a little more reassurance that you're not a wacko.

[Dino Velvet]

when you call they hear what you sound like. It's a sign you're more likely to show up.
As well as giving the girl a little more reassurance that you're not a wacko.

Yeah. Sure. I have a phone too.

[onmyknees]

in calls all the fucking way

OK baby...I'll call when I get close.

[TsVanessa69]

Very true! I've often wondered why some girls don't except text messages. Why should I have to call you if all I want are your rates/location? Either way you can see my number.

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[Seansxbrand]

Personally, the few times I've done it, as the client & at home, I've usually preferred outcall, & have the lady come to me, BUT when on Vacay, I'll go to her