Incalls v. Outcalls: Which is safer for the provider/client

[Yvonne183]

you tgirls should get a minder or write a will because there are to many freaks in the world

Quite right,,, it's just as scary for the girls. While I agree it's wrong to be robbed and such but look at the tgirls that get beaten or killed.



PS-I just do it in the parking lots, not many guys want to come to my hood.

[Prospero]

If I was in upstate New York I' come see you Yvonne.

[Yvonne183]

If I was in upstate New York I' come see you Yvonne.

Visiting hours are from 10:00 to 2:00,, I'll be here.

[Dino Velvet]

Visiting hours are from 10:00 to 2:00,, I'll be here.

Visiting hours? I don't need any stinking visiting hours. Just invite me inside.






Nice tits

[tsadriana]

i dont trust in outcalls

[Dino Velvet]

i dont trust in outcalls

Ambush.

[BeardedOne]

In or out, the safety of the situation is all in how you and the gurl handle it.

My first time with a transgirl was at a motel by the airport. We'd done some communication beforehand (I'm a chatty kinda guy and like to have some idea of who I'm getting up with before a date) and so there was a bit of mutual trust before we met. The first date went on to a second where we met at a nicer hotel for a day and spent a very nice time together. To her credit, as we still didn't know each other very well, when she had to leave the room for a bit she handed me her driver's license as a guarantee that she'd be coming back.

My second encounter was with a well-known star that was more worried about me than I was of her. We met at her hotel room and I did have some suspicion that she had friends in the adjoining room, just for backup. Later visits were more as friends than client/provider.

Recent encounters of an escort nature have all been on my turf, so to speak. Usually when I am travelling. I stay in better hotels, rather than no-tell motels, and usually have some history/rapport with the staff. It provides a nice buffer between me and the real world and extends a certain amount of security, both for me and my date. This sort of arrangement works best for me as I don't have a cell phone and it gives the provider a way of calling back to verify my identity and location. I learned that lesson from Mia Fever when she blew me off because I wasn't in touch with the current century.

As for other advice: If you carry anything more than the agreed upon fee with you to a 'date' then you deserve to get boosted. When I had trust issues with a date I carried just the agreed amount and a bit more for tip/dinner/sundries. If they bag my wallet, they get my license (Which does not have my home address on it) and an ATM card that's worth a whopping $50.

It's just common sense, really. Which most people lack in droves. I can't begin to count the number of horror stories that I've heard about clients treated badly or gurls jailed or beaten that include the dreaded words '...Craigs List...'.

Oh, and call it what you will, in call, out call, whatever...No one comes to my house, ever. I'm not that cruel.