Is it really so bad to live your entire life alone?

[BellaBellucci]

I'm starting to think not. It seems to cut down on life's complications quite a bit. I mean I've spent my whole life trying to just be myself, and as it turns out, I'm not really compatible with really anyone for any purpose other than casual friendships. To be fair, this is the price I've always suspected I'd pay for being strong and staying true to myself. Maybe it's time for me to just give up and start collecting cats.

I don't know. It's something I'm mulling over.

~BB~

[NatashaLover]

Never Give Up Bella, Life has many many people out there looking for a special someone that they click with, You know my story, and I didnt think I was going to find my special someone.

[Ineeda SM]

Come on Bella. Ya gotta share a little of your life with someone. Even if it doesn't last that long. Then you find someone else to share with...and so on. Life alone is less complicated indeed, but after a while, it gets lonely.

Even the cat lady needs love.

[SXFX]

Oh girl hugz babe!
I know it's shit coming from me but....hugz gorgeous!

[runningdownthatdream]

I'm starting to think not. It seems to cut down on life's complications quite a bit. I mean I've spent my whole life trying to just be myself, and as it turns out, I'm not really compatible with really anyone for any purpose other than casual friendships. To be fair, this is the price I've always suspected I'd pay for being strong and staying true to myself. Maybe it's time for me to just give up and start collecting cats.

I don't know. It's something I'm mulling over.

~BB~

I feel you.................have been in a similar place for a while now. The emotional investment needed for relationships - platonic and otherwise - just doesn't seem to warrant what you get in return. I've done a pretty good job too of keeping people on the outside so as time goes on I'm getting more and more used to being solitaire. I'm finding that I'm more interested in people's ideas but not necessarily people!

[BellaBellucci]

Come on Bella. Ya gotta share a little of your life with someone. Even if it doesn't last that long. Then you find someone else to share with...and so on. Life alone is less complicated indeed, but after a while, it gets lonely.

Even the cat lady needs love.

Sharing is generally something that comes back to haunt me. It's never worth it. I try to not say anything that can and will be used against me.

Oh girl hugz babe!
I know it's shit coming from me but....hugz gorgeous!

Thanks. It's the thought that counts.

~BB~

[BellaBellucci]

I feel you.................have been in a similar place for a while now. The emotional investment needed for relationships - platonic and otherwise - just doesn't seem to warrant what you get in return. I've done a pretty good job too of keeping people on the outside so as time goes on I'm getting more and more used to being solitaire. I'm finding that I'm more interested in people's ideas but not necessarily people!

Yeah, me too. I think it's a cultural thing now. I blame the combination of websites that allow you to share details of your life with thousands, as opposed to with just one, and of course the economy. It's a passive-aggressive 'every man for himself' world these days. It makes me feel old because I clearly remember a time when it wasn't like this, but even back then, society still had its ills. It was just better at hiding them.

~BB~

[bighicknyc]

Sharing is generally something that comes back to haunt me. It's never worth it. I try to not say anything that can and will be used against me.



Thanks. It's the thought that counts.

~BB~

Miss B
Your a highly intelligent woman with your own opinion on life along with the fact that everytime you show us a new photo of yourself it keeps one getting more beautiful all the time. The final thing is that you have a kid that loves you so screw everything else

[BellaBellucci]

Miss B
Your a highly intelligent woman with your own opinion on life along with the fact that everytime you show us a new photo of yourself it keeps one getting more beautiful all the time. The final thing is that you have a kid that loves you so screw everything else

Thanks. I'm working very hard to get my shit together. This economy makes everything take ten times longer, too.

As far as my son, I love him too, to the point where I've pretty much put my entire life on hold (I did not transition to do porn), but it's a love based in responsibility and I only get him 50% of the time anyway. It would be nice for someone to take care of Mom, consistently and in a way that only an adult can offer, ya know?

~BB~

[runningdownthatdream]

Yeah, me too. I think it's a cultural thing now. I blame the combination of websites that allow you to share details of your life with thousands, as opposed to with the one, and of course the economy. It's a passive-aggressive 'every man for himself' world these days. It makes me feel old because I clearly remember a time when it wasn't like this, but even back then, society still had its ills. It was just better at hiding them.

~BB~

I've come to similar conclusion about the culture - I still don't understand why people feel the need to share so much of themselves for the whole world to see and hear. Every damn person - fool or otherwise - wants to trumpet every thought however meaningless and trite. And doing it using the worst teenage vernacular possible too - from what I see online 40 seems to be the new 13!