dating a trans women/adult model/escort

[METALFACE]

It's alot, most men would probably not want to be in a relationship with a women that is all three let alone just one. But when you love that person unconditionally it all doesn't matter. You need to have her back in her transition as a women, you need to put your pride aside and know that doing porn and escorting is just a FANTASY. It can be hard at times, but at the end of the day she wants you in her life.

XO

[amberskyi]

It's alot, most men would probably not want to be in a relationship with a women that is all three let alone just one. But when you love that person unconditionally it all doesn't matter. You need to have her back in her transition as a women, you need to put your pride aside and know that doing porn and escorting is just a FANTASY. It can be hard at times, but at the end of the day she wants you in her life.

XO

it definitely can be a bit difficult but as long as there is a certain level of trust and communication it can be done....

[METALFACE]

Yes communication and trust are key, its has be 50/50

[MdR Dave]

. . .you need to put your pride aside and know that doing porn and escorting is just a FANTASY.

You need to put your FANTASY aside and realize that porn and escorting is getting fucked over and over by a lot of guys who aren't you. (Porn at least is controlled- the partners, STD testing, etc. )

Post again after you've dropped her off or picked her up for a tour of some other city, and gotten the pictures of her a "date" took at some major landmark or tourist attraction. Post after you've leaned in to kiss her and her mouth smelled like latex. Post again when you've seen her Eros and Backpages ads and done the math with her spending vs. her prices.

Post again when you're willing to say "This is nasty, fucked up shit but I love her anyway".

[MrNuts]

You need to put your FANTASY aside and realize that porn and escorting is getting ducked over and over by a lot of guys who aren't you. (Porn at least is controlled- the partners, STD testing, etc. )

Post again after you've dropped her off or picked her up for a tour of some other city, and gotten the pictures of her a "date" took at some major landmark or tourist attraction. Post after you've leaned in to kiss her and her mouth smelled like latex. Post again when you've seen her Eros and Backpages ads and done the math with her spending vs. her prices.

Post again when you're willing to say "This is nasty, fucked up shit but I love her anyway".

Post again when you have said "My gf is hot and she loves me", post again when you go out on a date with her and spend nice time together. Post again when you go to bed and she gets on her knees and suck you like you are her lord.

[MdR Dave]

Post again when you have said "My gf is hot and she loves me", post again when you go out on a date with her and spend nice time together. Post again when you go to bed and she gets on her knees and suck you like you are her lord.

All of that has happened. None of it addresses my point.

[amberskyi]

Post again when you have said "My gf is hot and she loves me", post again when you go out on a date with her and spend nice time together. Post again when you go to bed and she gets on her knees and suck you like you are her lord.

okay...most guys dont realize that we're humans being too just looking to survive and love like everyone else.

[MdR Dave]

okay...most guys dont realize that we're humans being too just looking to survive and love like everyone else.

You're right- and you deserve love like everyone else.

My only point is that the guy needs to know and understand the life if he's going to honestly love someone in the business, not sweep the reality away and call it a fantasy.

A TS, escort or not, deserves love like anyone else- a love with eyes wide open, aware and accepting. Anything short of that is false.

I wouldn't want false love for myself, and I wouldn't want it to be all I could offer.

[METALFACE]

Its business and fantasy, its service to a paying customer. Most women dont enjoy escorting or doing porn but they have to do them to survive an make a living. Its hard sometimes for a trans women to find employment in fear of discrimination and harassment

[MrNuts]

okay...most guys dont realize that we're humans being too just looking to survive and love like everyone else.

I know you girls are believe me, thats why I always will treat you girls like you all deserve, like the great people you are. You are a very sweet girl amber I hope you never change.