Transformation: Impossible

[happythoughts]

So, this is a cry for advice. I've talked to a number of TG friends of mine and even seen a shrink about how I feel. I'm a mid 20's Caucasian male that was blessed with very manly qualities. I'm 6 foot tall, 200 lbs, built, very hairy (albeit short as I can live with), very deep voice, and actually very attractive. This is the problem: I wish I were a woman, or at least could live out life as a woman. Even though I'm not attracted to men at all, I love TG's and women.

I've crossdressed on Halloween and with friends in private and have never felt more comfortable and satisfied in my entire life. After talking to a number of people, I just don't think I'lll ever pass as a woman. I've photoshopped a hundred pictures and I think that I'll never overcome the body I was born with. This is just so depressing. I'm just broken and need some advice from others experience.

Should I stay a manly man and just try and make peace with who I am?

or

Become the woman I want to be, even though I might not ever be happy with my appearance or be fully accepted by others as a woman?

[the_corner]

And you are looking for advice on a porn forum? No disrespect but if your concerns are legitimate, you should probably talk them out with one or more professionals.

[giovanni_hotel]

That train has left the station fam.

I'm sure there are other cases of men like yourself who really aren't the best candidates for transitioning but still suffer from gender dysmorphia.

If dressing as a woman gives you peace of mind, do it.

[tsadriana]

Be strong and be patient.is not easy to go for transition/transformation all u have to do is to
beleve more in urself and to be happy with who u are.doesn`t matter what other people think about u.matter what u feel inside u.good luck

[alyssaluxor]

hmmm mid 20's, manly features 6 foot tall, very hairy and attractive... hmmmm do you know your a dream boyfriend for most ladies and ts girls lol

on more serious side i think youll be beautiful. follow what makes you happy and whats in your heart

kisses Alyssa

[Merkurie]

Take it one step at a time, seek out gender counseling.
The hair you can remove through waxing at first and laser treatments over time.
If you are in your mid 20s it is not too late, people have sucessfully transitioned later than that. Do a search for Andrea James, she transitioned realtivley late and has a lot of resources on line.

As for being 6 foot tall and masculine, that never hurt Brooke Sheilds.

[loveboof]

I think you should try to come to terms with who you are. Although I am attracted to some transsexuals, I feel certain that many tgirls transition for the wrong reasons - hoping it will solve all their problems and make them happy, only to find new problems.

Obviously seek professional guidance about this, but there is no reason why you could not feel comfortable in your own skin with time (and perhaps counselling).

You should know yourself better than anyone though; if you believe you are meant to be a woman then go for it...

[Rolando]

So, this is a cry for advice. I've talked to a number of TG friends of mine and even seen a shrink about how I feel. I'm a mid 20's Caucasian male that was blessed with very manly qualities. I'm 6 foot tall, 200 lbs, built, very hairy (albeit short as I can live with), very deep voice, and actually very attractive. This is the problem: I wish I were a woman, or at least could live out life as a woman. Even though I'm not attracted to men at all, I love TG's and women

I'd like to see a picture of you, Studly!

[BellaBellucci]

I was 26 when I started. So, yeah. Take that as a cautionary tale.

~BB~

[gmercer]

You'd probably want to lose a lot of that muscle mass to look more feminine. 200 lbs on a 6 ft frame is kind of high, so you must be really built. If you dropped down to like 130-140 lbs, then started taking hormones and gained some of that weight back it might help you look less manly. But there's no garauntee.

Some things can be undone, and some things can't. You could always gain the weight back and rebuild muscle if you changed your mind. But once you go down the road of hormones and surgery it gets more difficult to undo.