Escort life is nothing but anxiety!!!

[SuzySnappz]

You couldn't have said it any better than that right there! Myself, who just turned 22, have been escorting since I was 19. Always safe & when you create a friendship with "clients" - they soon become "friends" - therefore the akwardness is at ease.

In the past 3 years of escorting, yes I have run into a few crazies, but hell.. You can go into WalMart and get that.. So, what's the big deal? I carry myself extremely professional, as I AM my own boss and I screen each client as if they were being interviewed for a job. It creates a more personable experience, therefore it's much more pleasurable for both parties.

I've met MANY wonderful gentlemen across the country - and have MANY regulars.. I'd say I have some what of a steady income. (Not bragging at all)
Just my two cents.

What Lexi, Michelle and Astryl said... I think it can be good, especially if you start when you are older and have some life experience (like me), or if you just go into it part-time and have something else going on, whether it's school or a regular job. I recently started doing some part-time escorting, but I already have a degree and a job to fall back on... I'm not worried about being trapped in it.

[SuzySnappz]

It depends on the cost/benefit. A lot of kids end up paying out their nose for a BA because they go to private 4 year schools that charge them 30 or 40k per year, and then they drown in debt for years with no guarantee of a good job. Now, if one manages to do it on the cheap (2 years community college and 2 years State school) then it is probably worth it.

I'm all for education, just not necessarily a costly degree program.

Yeah, I used to be 100% in favor of getting loans or whatever it takes to get a degree, but the student loan stuff is so out of control lately with getting people to become debt slaves forever, that I think you're better off working part-time (even as an escort) while studying rather than taking out huge loans. You can't even discharge those loans if you declare bankruptcy, you're stuck with them forever. It's really becoming a scam. I consider myself lucky to have a degree an no student debt...

[Dino Velvet]

Seriously, you ladies be careful out there. In my experience, ladies don't screen me near enough. They just give me directions. I'm a nice guy but they have no way of knowing that. Plenty of people learn the hard way that they aren't a good enough judge of character and the wrong mistake could be their last. I ring the doorbell, she opens, and I turn sideways to get my shoulders through the door. Sometimes I think their only concern is race and gender. I sound like a polite guy from Nebraska on the phone.

[acdaddy69]

lol,well im never broke i work and shop everyday and still have time for the tanning bed and watch my tv shows plus i dont have to call in sick when i wanna take a day off to chill with my friends,i work when i want and have 100 per cent freedom how the hell is that a bad thing?

Lissa, you do have free insurance in canada..What about the girls in the state? just saying you cant go in life thinking about shopping all day long. What about for the long run and your health..Specially being an escort, you're at a lot more risk..

[tsmandy]

Save money. Take breaks. Pursue meaningful friendships outside of work. Don't look to clients for love or an out. Walk away when it doesn't feel right.

It doesn't have to be bad, dirty, negative. People can operate with integrity and be selective about the people they hook up with. Pursue provider/client dynamics that feel fun and sexy.

I know it sounds idealistic or whatever, but its what I aspire to. When it is not good for me or gets in the way of broader aspirations I pursue my priorities. It sustained me for many years and taught me the importance of many many things.

I think its a good thing that guys (and sometimes gals) can explore broader horizons sexually with a TS and TS get to receive some financial benefit for once in our lives in a society where we are largely discriminated against and payed less at large.

It's not the end all be all of existence and it takes its toll, but then again life takes its toll and we all have to account for how we live and how we treat each other.

Don't be shady. Get tested. use protection. Avoid people with obvious psychological distress. On both ends. Stay relatively sober and aware.

If porn stops making me any money I'll be doing my thing soon enough. kisses.

[BBQ321]

I'm 19 and in full time education doing an Msci degree. To help avoid my educational debt I take escorting with a more casual approach, perhaps seeing 2-3 clients a week. I take bookings in advance - I can be picky with which jobs I take; there's really no stress about about it. As an escort you have the opportunity to earn a great ammount of money without actually putting in many hours of work, so it needn't disturb your studies like normal job would.

XxX

Are you listed on any sites to make a booking?

[Miss Aeryn]

[/QUOTE]

Save money. Take breaks. Pursue meaningful friendships outside of work. Don't look to clients for love or an out. Walk away when it doesn't feel right.

It doesn't have to be bad, dirty, negative. People can operate with integrity and be selective about the people they hook up with. Pursue provider/client dynamics that feel fun and sexy.

I know it sounds idealistic or whatever, but its what I aspire to. When it is not good for me or gets in the way of broader aspirations I pursue my priorities. It sustained me for many years and taught me the importance of many many things.

I think its a good thing that guys (and sometimes gals) can explore broader horizons sexually with a TS and TS get to receive some financial benefit for once in our lives in a society where we are largely discriminated against and payed less at large.

It's not the end all be all of existence and it takes its toll, but then again life takes its toll and we all have to account for how we live and how we treat each other.

Don't be shady. Get tested. use protection. Avoid people with obvious psychological distress. On both ends. Stay relatively sober and aware.

If porn stops making me any money I'll be doing my thing soon enough. kisses.

And for the love of all that's merciful have a one year, and two or five, BUSINESS PLAN!!

[sdruws]

Do you consider comimg to Rio de Janeiro for a few days?

[SammiValentine]

anyone still anxious ?

[bob.chicken]

you think thats the only job thats stressful!?!


even when you have a job that pays regular it's still stressful

life is stressful