Escort life is nothing but anxiety!!!

[dslovaa]

ANXIETY.....

WHY?,,,,,
You NEVER know when the phone will ring,
you never know if it is a serious client or time waster,
no steady income,
RISK...... is this guy going to be nice? will he rob me? will he rip me off?
is this a set up?


you have random weirdo's touching you, using you like a cheap toy and throwing you away when they are done.

NO STEADY PAY CHECK!!!!

YOU BASICALLY WAKE UP UNEMPLOYED EVERY SINGLE DAY.

I'm 21.... and realizing that if I want security in my life, I need to go to college and get that degree.

ladies all opinions are WELCOME....

[Tika]

Use some common sense and get a real job.

Don't even bother thinking about college right now. First, sit down and figure out what real, marketable skills you have and can bring to bear on a *real* job. College isn't a guarantee, it's a crapshoot. You will spend years of your life and end up owing tens of thousands of dollars, which is enormous pressure even before you graduate and start trying to find work - work that no amount of college education will help you get, because you were too stupid to consider college in the first place, and decided that sucking cock and taking it in the ass for money was a good idea.

Most people don't like their jobs. The ones that do are lucky as hell. Sneer all you want at someone making minimum wage, but it's possible to live on it and even save. However, it requires you to make sacrifices - cutting out things like pissing all your money away on purses or shoes, alcohol and drugs, for example. Is that an unfair assumption? No, not really. If you're stupid enough to think that being a whore is a good idea, you probably don't have a strong sense of financial responsibility.

If you do decide to go to college, have *realistic* expectations. It is not a magic wand that solves all your problems. There are plenty of unemployed college graduates out there. There are also plenty of employed high-school dropouts. You want to know why one person's employed and the other isn't? Motivation. Intelligence. Luck. Plenty of factors.

Figure out what you're good at and what you're shitty at. Don't lie to yourself. Find someone who doesn't like you and ask them what your strengths and weaknesses are. They're not going to be nice about it. Use that information wisely. If you have what it takes to go through higher education, then do it. If not, don't waste your time and money. Not every place requires a college degree. Think outside the box.

Good luck. You're going to need it. However, the big first step of realizing that what you're doing now is pointless and self-destructive... you're already past that. Good for you. That more than anything shows awareness, wisdom, courage. That's more than most people have going for them.

[the_corner]

I couldn't disagree more with the previous statement. This world is fucked up right now because of lack of education. Specially on developed countries.

Recommending somebody NOT TO EDUCATE themselves is giving them a death sentence.

Its true, there are some that make very good in life without college, and there are some that do very bad even with college.

In my humble experience, those that finish college end up on average better than those that just get high school education.

A quick google search reveals that the average "high school graduate" will make $30,400 USD per year, where the average "Bachelor's degree" make $52,200 per year.

http://www.earnmydegree.com/online-e...ion-value.html

If you add the fact that the US high school students fare at 18th of the world (oecd.org), behind countries like Estonia (can you point me Estonia in a map without using wikipedia?), telling somebody NOT TO GET EDUCATION is probably a very bad piece of advice.

If you can go to college, GO TO COLLEGE AND EDUCATE YOURSELF!

[NYBURBS]

If you can go to college, WITHOUT TAKING ON UNGODLY AMOUNTS OF DEBT, GO TO COLLEGE AND EDUCATE YOURSELF!

Fixed it for you

[Merkurie]

Get an education.

Avoiding debt in this world is near impossible. You will no doubt go into debt at some point -- credit card BS, car BS, or a house. So debt should not stop you from getting an good education.

[train_rider]

You didn't even mention STDs. I had a great deal of anxiety when I first saw a female escort and was paranoid until after I got results of my STD test.I know every time I think of calling up a tranny escort, I just think of AIDS or herpes, and quickly come back to my senses

[RainMan]

If you go to college try and get into a field that will not only allow you to work here but also in other places of the world

[Prospero]

Sound advice a out getting educated. But for god's sake don't go for one of the fashionable subjects like Media studies. Millons of kids want to work in the media and they are not gonna get there doing a media degree.

[Mike11]

It is a tough job being an escort and some cope with it better than others and some do rather well out of it and deal with its negatives. If it is getting you really down then it is not for you.

Regardless of the job market, education is a must for a variety of reasons. However on its own it does not guarantee anything and particularly not a job. It is drive and focus that is key to success. Luck plays a part too but luck often comes about when you have drive and focus and put yourself out there. The trouble is that these days people expect something for nothing and want to just take. To be successful in anything you have to give a lot before you can take.

[TSMichelleAustin]

I tried to escort at her age, its not easy... first off it makes u jaded, hate men, etc.. I started escorting again at 30 and its so much different. I know who I am, I love sex and love giving my clients comfort. If you are safe then no issues with STDs... go more so with a pornstar you have less chances because she always has to get tested to work! Just some sound advice. It is not for everyone! I do have an education and spent many years in a normal job! And barely survived in that, so escorting has made me more stable. But I market and put myself out there.